Helpful Advice on How to Best Woo Your Scorpio Crush

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As far as astrological matches go, Pisces and Scorpio are seemingly made for each other. Both of you are water signs, known for their emotional depth, empathy, sensitivity, and intuition. If you’re looking for someone who just gets you as a Pisces woman, a Scorpio male will do that and more. Read on to find out how to attract a Scorpio man, and learn all about Scorpio personality traits and compatibility, with expert insights from astrologer Angel Eyedealism.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man

As a Pisces woman, maintain a sense of mystery while still embracing your femininity. Focus your attention on him and don’t be afraid to show him your submissive side. Engage in activities that bring out his competitive nature, and share your deepest dreams with him so he feels like he’s a part of making them happen.

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How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Pisces Woman

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  1. Both Pisces and Scorpio tend to communicate with their eyes. This is a great way to let him know that you're interested in him, so he definitely gets the message! Just stare at him until he looks your way. Once you've caught his eye, immediately look away. Do this 2 or 3 times in a row and he'll probably come over to talk to you.
    • Don't be surprised if you catch him looking your way as well—Scorpios are known to observe people they're interested in for a while before they make contact.
    • Eyedealism believes that, once you catch their gaze, “look them straight in the eye. Be accountable, upfront, and solid, so there's no room for reproach and there is no evil plot. They finally will relax.” [1]
  2. A Scorpio guy will be attracted to your womanly allure. Scorpions have a reputation for being deeply sensual, sexual guys, and nothing's going to get their motor running faster than a mysterious, sexy woman across the room. Dress in soft, flowing fabrics that show off your curves while leaving a little to the imagination and Scorpio will swoon.
    • As a Pisces woman, you're probably known for your creative, feminine flair. That Scorpio you've got your eye on is bound to notice you, especially if you have a knack for standing out in the crowd.
    • Even if you have a more laid-back style, a fluttery blouse with a pair of jeans is sure to attract the Scorpion's eye.
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  3. The typical Scorpion can't help but be attracted to a puzzle. He loves to dig into a new mystery, so even better if that mystery is you! At the same time, he'll lose interest if you seem too closed or standoffish, so balance is key here. Let him know a little about you, but don't go into all the details.
    • For example, you might tell him that you're involved with the play the local community theater is putting on without telling him your specific role. It'll give him something to try to figure out and he'll enjoy asking you questions about it.
    • Eyedealism notes that, “If you provide a little bit of a mystery that they need to unravel, that will keep pulling on the yarn forever. So don't give it all up. Leave a veil of mystery and they will be intrigued and will obsess over you.” [2]
  4. Scorpions tend to be deep thinkers and aren't much for small talk. Instead of asking how his day's been, ask him about the meaning of life and he'll think you're someone worth getting to know. Scorpios have a reputation for being into the occult and darker things in life, so it's even better if you bring up something a little spooky. [3]
    • Since Scorpios are intensely curious, he's likely to be interested in anything you're passionate about. Talk to him about topics that move you and he'll enjoy the energy you bring to the conversation.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 610 wikiHow readers who've dated Scorpio men, and only 7% of them agreed that the best way to attract them is by being intelligent and analytical. [Take Poll] So don’t stress if you aren’t an expert on a bunch of complex ideas and topics, and instead connect with him about things you both enjoy.
  5. Most Scorpios are highly competitive and love strategizing. A board game also gives the two of you a chance to get to know each other while engaging in a little friendly rivalry. Just don't be surprised if he gets really into the game.
    • He likes to win, so it's usually best if you choose a game you're not great at. Maybe ask him what his favorite game is—chances are, he's pretty good at it, or it wouldn't be his favorite.
    • Whatever you do, don't play down to let him win. He'll probably be able to tell and he'll be offended by it. Yes, he likes to win, but he also wants to win fair and square.
  6. Scorpio men often have a sixth sense for detecting dishonesty. This might be tough for you if you're the typical Pisces who tends to hold back for fear of hurting someone's feelings. If he feels like you're not being completely open with you, he'll pull away. At the same time, he'll appreciate it if you're honest, even if he doesn't like what you have to say.
    • This goes for who you are and how you present yourself as well. If you're not interested in something, don't pretend you are for his sake—he won't appreciate it. Just be yourself and he'll be thrilled to get to know you.
  7. He'll help you make those dreams a reality. Pisces women are known to be imaginative dreamers. If that's you, you're probably used to people telling you to get your head out of the clouds. Don't worry about your Scorpio guy saying anything like that—on the contrary, he'll be thrilled to work out a plan to get your dream working for you. [4]
    • For example, maybe you've always really wanted to have a private lending library and café. He'll pepper you with ideas to get started in your own home while you build toward an actual business.
  8. He'll love the quiet solitude of nature and spending time just with you. It's not that Scorpios don't like to go out, it's just that they'd rather not be part of a big social scene. They tend to prefer quiet, more private activities, says Eyedealism. [5] Plus, as a Pisces, planning activities like this allows you to nurture your own creative, romantic side. [6]
    • If neither of you cares much for the outdoors, you might offer to cook him dinner followed by the latest documentary or a heady, complex drama.
  9. Scorpio men place a premium on loyalty so he'll love it if you focus on him. There might be nothing a Scorpio guy likes more than when a love interest ignores everyone else in favor of him. So when you're out with him, put your phone on silent and keep any conversations with other people to a minimum.
    • This might be a little tough if you're out at a party or a sporting event where you know a lot of people. When friends approach, introduce him to them and explain that you're with him. From then on, redirect the conversation towards him or ask him questions to draw him in.
  10. The dominant Scorpio is naturally attracted to the typically submissive Pisces. As a Pisces, you're likely to be a giving person who loves to look after others. This service-oriented nature appeals to a Scorpio, who's typically more dominant and enjoys being catered to. [7]
    • This doesn't necessarily mean that you need to go out of your way to do things for him. Simply keep his interests and comfort in mind, as you likely already do. For example, if the two of you are watching TV together and you get up, you might ask him if he wants another drink.
    • Doing things for him without saying anything is another way to show this side of you. For example, if you're eating dinner together at home, you might take and wash his dishes when he's done eating.
  11. A Scorpio is typically a big fan of anything made just for him. Scorpions are particularly fond of anything handmade or one-of-a-kind, especially if it was made by someone they care about and who cares about them. Since Pisces women are known for their creativity and imagination, it shouldn't be too much of a challenge for you to make him something he'll treasure for years to come.
    • For example, if you paint, you might paint him something he could hang in his living room or bedroom.
    • If you're a writer, you might try writing him a love poem. Musician? Write him a song or play a cover of his favorite tune.
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Are Pisces and Scorpio compatible?

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  1. Pisces and Scorpio are highly compatible emotionally. Both are water signs that share a deep emotional sensibility and can easily understand each other’s needs. They’re both sensitive, passionate, creative, and intuitive. Pisces and Scorpio’s ability to be in touch with their emotions makes for a successful relationship focused on open communication.
    • Scorpio’s other best matches are Cancer, Virgo, Taurus, and Gemini. Like Scorpios, Cancers also value trust and intimacy. [8]
    • Scorpios have the hardest time connecting to Leo and Aquarius. Leo’s energy is too outgoing for the private Scorpio. The heady Aquarius is too intellectual for Scorpio who puts their feelings above all. [9]
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Building a Relationship With a Scorpio Man

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    Find opportunities to get to know a Scorpio man intimately. He doesn’t want to meet you in a loud or crowded public place. He much prefers a private meeting that’s big on romance, like an intimate dinner, a picnic in the park, or an evening spent looking at the stars together. As long as he can have a one-on-one conversation with you that’s allowed to get as intense as possible, he’s happy—getting physical isn’t out of the question either.
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    Focus on building trust to ensure a successful Scorpio relationship. He’ll only get into a relationship once he fully trusts you and is completely comfortable being around you. Until then, he may not “let you in,” but rest assured—once he does, he’s in all the way, including getting a tattoo with your name, being obsessed with you by writing you love poems, and asking you to elope somewhere romantic. [10]
    • Eyedealism suggests that, if a Scorpio shows “trust in you, that means they are serious about you. If the Scorpio reveals their secrets, that means they're very serious about you because they have trusted you with their secrets.” [11]
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Sex With a Scorpio Male

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  1. Sex with a Scorpio is a full body and mind experience. They are super serious about their sex life with you to include everything from unique playful activities like BDSM or sex toys to being fully committed spiritually. They love getting secret photos or messages from you, so give your attention to sharing all things naughty with them. They’re very into their sense of smell as well, so try an alluring perfume or essential oil scent to draw them in.
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Friendship With a Scorpio Male

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  1. Scorpios appreciate good friends over how many they have. They can be quite guarded and have likely kept some of the same friends since they were kids. They’ll probably don’t have a large number of acquaintances, but a few close friends instead. Scorpios cherish you as one of their close inner circle as long as you remain loyal and honest with them.
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Scorpio Traits

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    Scorpios are loyal, compassionate, creative, and romantic. They are always intuitive about your mood, how to improve it, and all the things you love best. Scorpios will always have your back and be fiercely protective of you whenever needed.
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    Scorpios are also known for being jealous and holding grudges. Despite being quite sensitive, they can be both obsessive and paranoid at times. They often hold fast to feelings of resentment and won’t be there to give you a second chance if you break up. [12]
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    Scorpios value their home and keep to themselves at work. It may take quite a while to be allowed inside a Scorpio man’s home, but once you are, you’ll be part of his treasured sanctuary. At work, it’s easy to overlook a Scorpio, but once you earn their trust, they’ll be a great source of information and insight.
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Giving Gifts to a Scorpio Male

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  1. Scorpios value sentimental gifts over superficial ones. They’re not concerned with how expensive a present you buy them is, but how personal it is to them. They’d love a signed copy of their favorite book or a framed photo keepsake of you both. Don’t ignore a Scorpio’s romantic side either—an intimate dinner, special event, or weekend getaway may be just what they’re looking for. [13]
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Scorpio Fast Facts

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  1. Scorpios are born between October 23 and November 21. They’re symbolized by the scorpion and ruled by the planets Mars and Pluto. Like Cancer and Pisces, Scorpios are a water sign, which means they’re deeply connected to their emotions and intuition. They are sensitive and compassionate, while also having a protective and nurturing nature. Scorpio’s modality is fixed, which indicates that their energy is stable, persistent, and focused on security. Fixed astrological signs are known for their determination and ability to finish what they start. [14]
    • Birthstone: Beryl and Topaz.
    • Flower: Chrysanthemum, peonies.
    • Color: Black, red, maroon, purple.
    • Lucky number: 1, 2, 4, 7.
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Do Scorpio and Pisces work well together?
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As water signs, Scorpio and Pisces make a great match. They're both very empathetic and intuitive, and they both value loyalty and emotional connection. Scorpio's intensity and passion are balanced out by gentle Pisces' sensitivity and tenderness. All in all, a Scorpio-Pisces match would be one built on mutual respect and care, marked by intense devotion and emotional intimacy.
Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
In a relationship, Pisces wants someone who is flexible and who can be romantic and imaginative. If their partner is very clinical and cold, that's a total turnoff. Luckily, Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, passion, and obsession. They like to lay bare all things so that they can get inside their partner. So these two water signs are very compatible.
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    Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
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    It's a very tense sign. They're definitely not the relaxed type. You have to respect the obsessive need for privacy and for control that a Scorpio man would have. Also, it's important to engage in intimacy in some way in order for them to you know better.
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    They usually admire strength and a sense of aggression.They don't like weaknesses, that's for sure. If you're able to be direct, you can disarm the paranoia of the Scorpio.
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