What Does "Bop Lore" Mean?

PDF download Download Article
Learn more about this bit of TikTok slang and where it came from
PDF download Download Article

If you’ve been on TikTok recently, you’ve probably seen the comment “bop lore” once or twice. It’s a relatively new slang term that refers to the sexual history of someone who’s seen as promiscuous and, suffice to say, isn’t exactly a polite term to use. We’ll fill you in on its meaning, origin, whether or not it’s problematic, and some related terms to fill out your internet glossary.

"Bop Lore” Overview

“Bop lore” means the sexual history of someone who’s seen as a “bop,” or promiscuous. It’s often used on TikTok to discuss someone’s sexual background. Many say the term is a form of slut-shaming, and is disrespectful to use.

Section 1 of 4:

Bop Lore Meaning

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/8\/88\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-1.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/8\/88\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-1.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    “Bop” is a relatively new slang term that refers to someone with a lot of sexual history, who posts photos of their body online, or is generally seen as promiscuous. “Bop lore” is a way of subtly referring to a person’s sexual history. The term is isn't nice—and it even has some problematic undertones. For example, the term is often used to slut shame women in particular.
    • Often, TikTok users and others leave comments like “bop lore” on videos of a person discussing their sexual experiences.
    • Example: “Stacy started telling me about her past hookups, and I realized I was getting some juicy bop lore.”
    • Though it can be used in a silly or friendly way (for example, when someone's friend jokingly refers to another friend's sexual history without judgment), it's also regularly used to as way to shame or mock someone for their sexual history. And that's not cool!
    2. Advertisement
Section 2 of 4:

Origin of “Bop Lore”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/28\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/2\/28\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    A “lala bop” is any promiscuous person. It’s not clear where the term originated, but it was boosted into popularity by the 2022 song “Lalabop” by Almighty Rexxo. Though the song itself doesn’t use the term in this way, it was catchy enough for TikTok users to start using it for videos discussing people they deemed promiscuous. [1]
    • Another song titled “Lalabop” by the artist Ymb Nuski was then posted to Youtube by the user Velle Vell, this time using the term in its popular context, and as a result, popularizing it even more.
    • At the height of the trend, users would make slideshows of people they deemed “lala bops” while the audio played over it.
    • The lala bop trend was also widely criticized as being thinly veiled slutshaming, and a violation of many people’s privacy.
Section 3 of 4:

Is “bop lore” problematic?

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/21\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/2\/21\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    While the term may describe the sexual history of anyone, it’s most often targeted at women, so it's often seen as sexist. Also, many have pointed out that a person’s sexual history doesn't change someone's value as a person, and it isn't something to make fun of. So commenting something like “bop lore” on a video is pretty disrespectful, immature, and unkind.
    2. Advertisement
Section 4 of 4:

Related Terms

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/31\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-4.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-4.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/31\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-4.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-4.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    “Bop” or “lala bop” are derogatory terms for someone seen as promiscuous. [2] They may also simply refer to a sexual partner.
    • Example: “Hey, don’t call her a bop just because she has more experience than you do. That’s rude.”
  2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/65\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-5-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-5-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/6\/65\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-5-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-5-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Slut shaming is the act of scolding, talking down to, or harassing someone on the basis of their sexual experiences. It’s often used as an attempt to control someone’s lifestyle or personal choices. [3]
    • Example: “Your slut-shaming doesn’t work on me. My personal life is none of your business.”
  3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/5\/56\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-6.jpg\/v4-460px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-6.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/5\/56\/Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-6.jpg\/v4-728px-Bop-Lore-Meaning-Step-6.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    “Pick-me girls” are women who tend to put other women down for the sake of a man’s attention. They hope that by making other women seem less desirable, men will see them as more desirable. [4]
    • Note that this term, too, has been widely criticizes as derogatory, or appropriated from its original AAVE (African American Vernacular English) origin.
    • Example: “She told Daniel that I’ve slept around because she’s just a pick-me girl.”
    4. Advertisement

Expert Q&A

Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
      Advertisement

      Tips

      Submit a Tip
      All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
      Submit
      Thanks for submitting a tip for review!

      You Might Also Like

      How to Delete a TikTok Story: Step-by-Step Guide
      The Grabovoi Numbers Trend, Explained
      Can You Go Live on TikTok Without 1,000 Followers?
      3 Simple Ways to Download the TikTok Mobile App
      What Does “Passenger Princess” Mean?
      How to Contact TikTok: 8 Ways to Get Support
      How to Use the Three-Month Dating Rule to Test Out New Partners
      9 Strategies to Help You Gain 1,000 TikTok Followers in No Time
      How to Comment with Pictures on TikTok (And Why Some Can't)
      4 Ways to See TikTok Profiles & Videos Without People Knowing
      Can TikTok Auto Scroll? How to Play TikTok Videos Automatically
      How to
      Know if Someone Blocked You on TikTok
      What Does Each Can Tab Mean and Why Do People Give Them Out?
      How to Enable and Use Direct Messages on TikTok
      Advertisement

      References

      1. ↑ https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/lala-bop
      2. ↑ https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/lala-bop
      3. ↑ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/blog/what-is-slut-shaming
      4. ↑ https://www.hercampus.com/school/queens-u/confessions-of-a-recovering-pick-me-girl-owning-my-femininity/

      About This Article

      Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 2,559 times.

      Is this article up to date?

      Advertisement