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The best tips for flirting online & getting to know someone
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There’s always a fine line between good flirting, bad flirting, and downright creepy flirting, especially online. You can’t control what the other person decides crosses the line into creepiness, but you can definitely improve your odds of staying in the good flirting category. This article lists several helpful tips for starting up a flirty chat, keeping it going, and ending things so that the other person wants to flirt again with you!
Helpful Tips to Flirt with Someone Online
- Be confident in who you are.
- Focus on having a light and fun chat, and let things progress naturally.
- Ask interesting questions and give thoughtful responses.
- Find common interests and be engaged.
- Don't put too much pressure on yourself.
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QuestionHow do you flirt on a dating app?Shana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.Reference something specific from the other person's profile! A personalized message is a much better approach than just sending the word "hi."
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- ↑ https://www.vice.com/en/article/qj453x/how-to-flirt-on-dating-apps-hinge-tinder-bumble
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
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- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28221845/how-to-give-compliments/
- ↑ https://www.saferoutespartnership.org/sites/default/files/resource_files/wolf_whistles_and_creepy_compliments_0.pdf
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/brucelee/2020/08/23/12-pandemic-dating-tips-how-to-do-romance-with-the-covid-19-coronavirus/?sh=38304a082b37
- ↑ https://www.mic.com/p/how-to-make-friends-online-without-coming-across-as-creepy-18670022
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-ooze/201707/how-avoid-creeping-women-out
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