How to Flirt with a Capricorn Man over Text: Tips & Examples

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When you're crushing on a Capricorn man, the thought of texting him can seem a little intimidating. However, you'll discover that flirting with him becomes easy and fun once you know how he communicates. For instance, Capricorn guys love to be asked for practical help and entertained over text. [1] Our comprehensive guide to flirting with a Capricorn man over text even comes with sample texts you can use to start the conversation with your crush!

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Gabris, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

How do you win a Capricorn man over through text?

Be the first to text a Capricorn man to capture his attention. Then, send him compliments on his work ethic, a silly joke, or ask him questions about his day. If he's into you, he'll start texting you regularly too!

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Text him first.

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  1. [2] Send a friendly, polite message to catch his attention, and if he's interested, a response will follow quickly. With a simple first text , you can let your Capricorn know that you like him and help him overcome his insecurities.
    • "Hi! I know I'm supposed to wait a few days before texting, but I can't help myself. 😉"
    • "Hey there! I really enjoyed meeting you the other day. How've you been since then?"
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Let him take the lead.

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  1. Once you've started the conversation, let him take it from there. Send an open-ended text so he can decide where the conversation goes, and wait for him to initiate the next couple of text conversations. And, since you sent the first text, let him be the one to ask for a first date! [3]
    • “I’m terrible at starting conversations. Do you want to try? 😉”
    • “You choose: should I start with a cheesy pick-up line, a compliment, or a simple hello?”
    • “I like you. What are you going to do about it?”
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Compliment his work ethic.

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  1. [4] Ask him about his career and be sure to compliment all of his successes. Capricorns have the biggest egos of any zodiac sign, so recognizing his achievements will make him feel special and encourage him to flirt back.
    • "I think it's so cool that you're writing a novel in your spare time. I'll be first in line to read it someday! 🤩"
    • "You've worked hard to get to where you are in life, and it shows. Your dedication is inspiring!"
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Bond over your shared passions.

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  1. Ask questions to learn about the things your Capricorn is most passionate about, and look for any common subjects that you can talk over in-depth. Don't be afraid to bring up more complicated topics like philosophy and politics because he's intellectual and likely finds them fascinating.
    • "It's crazy how much you know about classic cinema! Would you show me your favorite film sometime?"
    • "I'm so happy that you're interested in true crime too! What's your favorite documentary?"
    • Text him a link to an article. "You're into politics, right? I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on this."
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Entertain him with humor.

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  1. [5] This sign has a dry and clever sense of humor, especially when making light of a dark situation. Send your Capricorn a funny text when he's feeling stressed or taking life a little too seriously, and show him that you can make him laugh no matter the situation.
    • "You know what they say: if at first you don't succeed, blame someone else and seek counseling. 🤪"
    • Send him a totally deadpan text message and follow it up with a funny GIF, so he knows you're joking.
    • Capricorn guys don't like vulgarity. Make sure you're sticking to clean, witty humor and saving inappropriate jokes for someone else!
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Text him a cute photo.

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  1. Send him a selfie that makes you look neat and flirty without showing much skin. Most guys are attracted to visuals and photos, and a Capricorn guy is no exception—but his traditional outlook on romance means he's more intrigued when you leave something to the imagination. [6]
    • Wear a flattering outfit when you take the picture. Pick simple and classic clothes to impress your Capricorn.
    • Avoid sending photos where you look messy, like post-workout pics or early morning selfies. The more put-together you look, the better.
    • You don't need to be scantily clad to attract a Capricorn! Just look into the camera and give him a flirty smile to catch his eye.
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Keep your flirts clean.

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  1. Make him smile with sweet-natured flirty texts that only use clean language. Hint that you are looking forward to seeing him or make a flattering comment about his appearance, without being overly suggestive. Your Capricorn will prefer to keep things classy and polite while you're still getting to know each other. [7]
    • "I loved that pic you posted on Instagram! You look so dashing."
    • "I think you'll like the outfit I'm wearing tonight. I picked it with you in mind! 😉"
    • "I've been thinking about you all day. Can't wait to see you tomorrow!"
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Be reliable and consistent.

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  1. [8] Flirt in a way that highlights how reliable you are! Send your Capricorn sweet messages on a regular basis, so that your texts become part of his weekly routine. When you text him to make plans, reply quickly and follow through on every commitment. If he sees how reliable you are, he won't be able to resist you.
    • “Here's a kitten video to help you beat the Monday blues. It’s a weekly dose of cuteness, from me to you! 😁”
    • “Fun fact of the week: otters hold hands when they sleep so they don’t float apart. Cute, right?”
    • “Thanks for inviting me out for a drink! I’ll see you at 6 PM sharp. I’d never keep a guy like you waiting!”
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Stay positive and upbeat.

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  1. He's prone to being critical and pessimistic, so balance him out with happy thoughts. Send kind and lighthearted texts, and avoid weighing him down with heavy emotions or negativity. He might withdraw if you only text him to complain or get sympathy. [9]
    • "Have a great day at work, handsome! You're going to be amazing. 😘"
    • "I know it's been a tough week, but just think about the weekend! We've got a date, and I think it's going to be so much fun. 😁"
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Send short, efficient texts.

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  1. He doesn't need long, emotional paragraphs filling up his phone screen. Your Capricorn is an efficient communicator, and he'll be more open to flirting with someone who can do the same. [10] Limit your flirty texts to one or two sentences. Keep them short and sweet to catch his eye!
    • There's a difference between being concise and rude. Make sure every text still feels polite. Add an exclamation or simple smiley face if a text seems cold.
    • For example: if he texts you and asks you out for a coffee, confirm by texting "Sure. I can't wait!" rather than "Yep." While it's shorter, the first text is still concise—and kinder too.
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    It's okay to use emojis here and there when texting. Try not to overuse them, as that'll come off as too eager. But a little bit of emoji use will show them that you're lighthearted and fun. You should also always try to move the conversation forward as you're texting. You don't want to stick to one topic for too long, as this can become boring for the other person. Finally, don't be afraid to send a photo of somewhere that you're located that reminds you of the person for whatever reason, or say a song just came on and reminded you of the person. If you show that interest and common ground and it'll make the other person excited as well.

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Wait for him to respond.

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  1. Even if he takes time to respond, avoid double-texting or sending a stream of follow-up messages. [11] Send one text and let him respond before sending another. If it's been more than a day, feel free to follow up, but otherwise, take a step back and give him time to text you.
    • Capricorn guys are especially unlikely to respond during work hours because they're so driven and focused. Don't take it personally if you text him in the morning and get a response in the evening!
    • If he's slow to text, ask your Capricorn to call you instead. He'll probably agree; Capricorn isn't the most text-savvy sign and gravitates toward old-school methods of communication.
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    If he texts you back regularly, he probably likes you. Generally, Capricorns aren't big texters. Also, you could ask him for help over text and see how much he helps you. If he helps you a lot, he probably likes you.
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    Capricorns like short, direct texts that get to the point. Say exactly what you need, and keep your texts concise. Capricorns prefer when their texts are meaningful.
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      3. ↑ https://www.costarastrology.com/zodiac-signs/capricorn-sign
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