How to Have More Feminine Handwriting

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Learn to write prettier letters that look more feminine
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Handwriting styles are like fingerprints in that everyone's is unique. Unlike fingerprints, you can change your handwriting with a little practice to make it look however you like. Many people prefer a more delicate, "feminine" style, and we're to help you achieve it, too. We'll help you understand a bit more about how handwriting works, improve your style, and train yourself to write in a more "girly" way.

Things You Should Know

  • Sit with your back straight and hold your pen or pencil between your thumb, index, and middle finger to practice proper posture.
  • Look up a handwriting style you like to use as a reference, and practice copying each letter over and over, until writing them feels natural.
  • Keep your grip loose, slant your letters slightly, and add things like loops or other flourishes to give your writing some feminine flair.
Section 1 of 3:

Understanding Handwriting

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  1. There are an infinite number of possible handwriting styles, and a large number of factors that determine an individuals handwriting style. This means that everyone's handwriting is unique, which is why it is sometimes used a legitimate method of identification, such as during court trials. [1]
  2. Although there are many theories about the differences between male and female handwriting, it turns out, people aren't actually that good at differentiating between the two. Some generalities can be made, such as women's handwriting being neater on average. Women tend to write slower, and larger, with more attention to detail. [2]
    • One study found that prenatal hormones in women can predict the femininity of their handwriting.
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  3. Since one of the major differences between male and female handwriting is neatness, you can make your handwriting more girly just by improving your handwriting in general. The first step to improving your handwriting is analyzing how you write now. [3]
    • Take out a sheet of lined paper and a pen.
    • Write the sentence "The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog" a couple of times. This sentence contains the whole alphabet.
    • Note the areas that could use improvement. Does your handwriting slant or is it upright? Do you vary the length and height of your letters? Circle the letters you like the look of the least.
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Section 2 of 3:

Improving Your Handwriting

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  1. Find a spot to begin practicing. You should have a hard, flat surface to write on, paper, a pen, and a chair. Sit with your back straight. Use your non-dominant hand to balance yourself.
  2. Stretch your arms and hands. Loosen up your wrist and get your hand nice and relaxed before you begin to practice each day. [4]
  3. The best way to hold the pen is to grip it between your thumb, index finger, and middle finger, with the back resting on your first knuckle.
  4. Your handwriting will instantly become more relaxed and flowing if you start moving the pen by moving your arm, while keeping your wrist and fingers still. This may make it harder to write carefully at first, but it's a habit that will help you in the long run. [5]
    • When first practicing writing like this, make big letters on the page. Exaggerate the size of your words and slowly bring the size back down as you get used to writing with your arm.
  5. Good letter formation takes careful concentration, especially if you aren't used to writing well. This means you need to take your time with each word and each letter. You can start to speed up slowly as you improve. [6]
  6. You should be practicing all of these handwriting techniques every day. Start each day with simple lines and shapes. Make vertical lines over and over, working on keeping the lines straight and the spaces between them even. Do the same with some circles, and slanted lines. Then move on to writing letters over and over, until you consistently like the look of them.
  7. Once you've got a better handle on the shapes you're forming, focus on consistency. Your letters should be sized consistently across the page. This will make your handwriting look neat and orderly. Try to keep the angle of your handwriting consistent too, both the slanting of the letters and the angle at which you draw crossbars on letters like "t" and "f". [7]
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Section 3 of 3:

Making Your Handwriting Feminine

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  1. The easiest way to get a head start on making your handwriting more feminine is to copy handwriting that you consider feminine. Find an example of feminine handwriting, print it out, and use tracing paper to trace over the writing. Then try copying the handwriting style from sight, rather than tracing. [8]
    • If you have a female friend or sibling with particularly feminine handwriting, you can ask to borrow an example of theirs.
    • In addition to tracing and copying examples of feminine handwriting, you also spend some time just analyzing what about the handwriting gives it a feminine look.
  2. One generality that separates male from female handwriting is that women tend to use less pressure when writing. Writing with your arm rather than your fingers will do a lot to help this, but it can't hurt to take some extra care to lighten your pressure as you write.
  3. Feminine handwriting tends to borrow some its characteristics from cursive. So one way to add a more girly flair to your handwriting is to start introduction more curves to your letters. [9] For example:
    • You can write "t"s with little curves at the bottom, rather than just a simple straight line.
    • You can exaggerate the curves in the feet of letters like "a" and "Q".
    • Use flourishes to add feminine detail to your letters. For example, maybe the bottom foot of your lowercase "k"s can flourish upwards at the end. Or maybe your "w"s can start with a small upward curve instead of just going straight downwards.
  4. Feminine handwriting tends to have fuller counters, meaning that the space within each letter is fuller. You can also add space in places which normally have none, like making your dots (as you would on the letter 'i') small circles. This is an easy way to add a stereotypically girly flair to your letters. [10]
  5. Slanting your letters can add to the cursive quality of your handwriting. Whether you slant your words to the left or the right, just make sure your slant is consistent. This goes along with keeping your handwriting neat and tidy, a characteristic of feminine handwriting. [11]
  6. If your handwriting is already girly, try experimenting with your own styles. Curve your A's at the top, or dot your lowercase I's with special symbols like stars or hearts. Personalize your writing and make it beautiful!
  7. Vibrant, glittery colored pens, though not technically part of your "handwriting", can add just the right amount of pop to your girly handwriting. If you write with friends, the outside of the pen can be just as important as the color, so try to pick pens that look pretty and colorful. Make sure to avoid using pens in classes like Math and Science, because these subjects often have strict teachers who only accept work written in pencil. Sometimes these teachers do allow erasable pens, so don't be afraid to ask!
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    Ink tends to work better than pencil because it is more defined and sharp. You could practice with pencil first, then move onto writing with a pen when you feel comfortable with the handwriting. While, you'll find that pens and fine tipped markers allow you to write more clearly and neatly than pencils in most cases, very sharp or mechanical pencils will work just fine too. And the images are just there for an example, they're not the only suggested approach.
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      • Keep tailed letters, like 'y p g j' under the line, and neat. Keep the stick letters, like the 't f l k' all straight, tall, and neat. Try slanting the letters. All of the other letters in lowercase should be the same size.
      • Try new ways to hold your pencil. If you notice someone else holding the pencil different from you, try holding it the way they do. See how it affects your writing.
      • If you think your handwriting is sloppy, try looking at someone else's handwriting and see if you can find some ideas to incorporate into your own handwriting.
      • Try to add hearts for the dots in the "j" and "i". This can look girly. However, don't do it for the "!" or "?". This can make your writing look messy.
      • Look at Lucinda Handwriting font in Microsoft Word to get good ideas for girly letters.
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      2. ↑ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2520816/Do-feminine-handwriting-How-guess-persons-gender-based-solely-penmanship.html
      3. ↑ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/may/11/how-improve-your-handwriting
      4. ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/exercises-for-pain-free-hands
      5. ↑ https://www.auburnschl.edu/departments/special_education/related_services_speech_and_language/ot_pt/handwriting
      6. ↑ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/may/11/how-improve-your-handwriting
      7. ↑ https://www.tsroadmap.com/physical/handwriting/feminine-handwriting.html
      8. ↑ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/may/11/how-improve-your-handwriting
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      Although everyone’s handwriting is unique, girls tend to have neater and curvier handwriting. To make your handwriting more girly, use less pressure when you press down with the pen. You should also slow down and take care with every letter to make it neater. Make your lines curvier, like the tails of a “Q” and lower-case “a.” Leave a little more space between your letters, even when you join them up, which will make them easier to read. You can also slant your letters slightly to make your handwriting more feminine. Just make sure you use the same angle for all of your writing so it looks consistent. For more tips, including how to hold your pen comfortably, read on!

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