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It’s hard enough getting motivated to study for yourself, let alone helping a friend or colleague to. Helping them to gain confidence through positive feedback and reinforcement, while maintaining their motivation, can encourage anybody to hit the books.
What are the best ways to motivate someone to study?
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Find out the specifics of what’s keeping them from studying. [1] X Expert Source Alexander Ruiz, M.Ed.
Educational Consultant Expert Interview. 4 August 2020. Often, people will feel discouraged at something that seems too difficult for them. You should ask your friend to talk about what’s hard for them when it comes to studying, and how you can best help them.- You can ask questions like “What do you feel unsure about? Do you know anyone who could help you understand the material better? Do you need me to help you keep focused while you study?”
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Have them speak about their past accomplishments in school. At this point in their education, they have faced multiple stressful situations, and still managed to come out the other side. Ask them about it, saying something like “How did you prepare for the last hard exam you passed?” [2] X Research source- When they’re done explaining, encourage them by saying “If you could overcome the obstacles then, you can do it again now.”
- Throughout their studying, make sure you remind them of this fact.
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Have them write down their intended goals. Have your friend think about what they specifically want to achieve from studying, or just from this study session. Then have them list the smaller goals they will have to achieve along the way to reach the bigger ones. [3] X Research source- If necessary, have them break down the goals to their smallest individual steps, and begin helping them work through each, one by one.
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Set rewards for reaching goals. Have your friend decide on what they’ll earn for reaching their study goals. Perhaps could watch an episode or two of a favorite show, play a video game, go eat a meal they want, etc. Again, have them write it down if necessary. [4] X Research source- Consider having small rewards for completing smaller goals along the way, such as a 10-15 minute study break after they focus for 15-20 minutes.
- Make sure to remind them of the rewards throughout the study session as motivation, saying something like ”Remember, you can go watch or play as much as you want once you’re finished studying.”
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2Break up difficult subjects. If they have a class that gives them trouble, study that material for shorter amounts of time so they don't get discouraged. [5] X Expert Source Alexander Ruiz, M.Ed.
Educational Consultant Expert Interview. 4 August 2020.EXPERT TIPLicensed PsychotherapistLauren Urban is a licensed psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York, with over 13 years of therapy experience working with children, families, couples, and individuals. She received her Masters in Social Work from Hunter College in 2006, and specializes in working with the LGBTQIA community and with clients in recovery or considering recovery for drug and alcohol use.Encourage breaks as you tackle difficult subjects. If they're still struggling, give them a confident boost by reminding them that challenges are normal and can be overcome.
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Have them ask questions about the material. Let them write down the questions they want to know about before they start, or as they go along. When they finish or feel they’re ready, have them answer the questions to see if they’ve now learned it. [6] X Research source- If they still aren’t able to answer the questions, narrow down the focus of their studying to just the areas they’re having trouble with.
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Teach one another the material. If you’re familiar with the material, take turns having your friend and you teach each other what you’re learning. [7] X Research source- If you’re unfamiliar with it, see how well your friend can teach it to you. Ask questions to have them practice relaying the information.
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Suggest having them study in a group or with their friends. Even if it’s not on the same subject matter, having them study with other people may motivate them to work better than by themselves. [8] X Research source- If your friend needs help while studying, have them work with classmates studying the same material.
- Avoid having them study with friends who may only serve as further distraction.
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Find someone knowledgeable or interested in the subject to speak with your friend. They may be able to provide answers to questions they have, and insights that could encourage them to better understand the material. [9] X Research source- See if their school or a nearby library doesn’t have a study resource lab or tutor sign-ups. They may even have someone familiar with the material.
- The teacher of the class they’re studying for is a guaranteed resource for the information they need. Let them schedule a time to meet with them if they need something explained.
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Teach them about aspects of their life the material applies to. Research the ways in which our day-to-day lives involve the material they’re learning. If your friend needs a sense of practicality to their studying, you can tell them about how the material may play into a situation or scenario people often deal with. It may even get them more interested in learning about it. [10] X Research source- Ask the teacher of the course if they can cite examples of daily use of the material.
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Have them associate studying as something they want to do. Practice having them go through these steps when they study, balancing out rewards for accomplishing goals and having them work in groups to stay motivated. If your friend’s interest in the material grows, they may begin to see studying as less of a hassle, wanting to learn more about it naturally, rather than forcefully.
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QuestionWhat can motivate a person to study if they get discouraged easily?Alexander Ruiz is an Educational Consultant and the Educational Director of Link Educational Institute, a tutoring business based in Claremont, California that provides customizable educational plans, subject and test prep tutoring, and college application consulting. With over a decade and a half of experience in the education industry, Alexander coaches students to increase their self-awareness and emotional intelligence while achieving skills and the goal of achieving skills and higher education. He holds a BA in Psychology from Florida International University and an MA in Education from Georgia Southern University.Try breaking up difficult subjects into smaller sections so they don't get overwhelmed. In-between studying for these more difficult subjects, add in some study material for subjects they usually do well in. This will boost their confidence and help them feel more motivated.
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- Have them eat foods that help increase healthy brain function and concentration, such as nuts, oily fish, whole grains, fruits like blueberries, or vegetables like tomatoes and broccoli, to name a few. [11] X Trustworthy Source Harvard Medical School Harvard Medical School's Educational Site for the Public Go to source >Thanks
- Have them listen to music they like to help them get motivated. Play instrumental music instead of those with lyrics, and though any genre will work, electronic and classical music may work best. [12] X Research sourceThanks
- Don’t have them drink too much coffee. It may lead to jitteriness that diminishes focus, as well as having them need more bathroom breaks that can interrupt the flow of the session.Thanks
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References
- ↑ Alexander Ruiz, M.Ed.. Educational Consultant. Expert Interview. 4 August 2020.
- ↑ https://www.mindtools.com/ax3c2aw/celebrating-achievement
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/goal-setting/
- ↑ https://www.reed.edu/academic_support/pdfs/handouts/Rewards.pdf
- ↑ Alexander Ruiz, M.Ed.. Educational Consultant. Expert Interview. 4 August 2020.
- ↑ https://cen.acs.org/careers/career-tips/9-ways-motivate-others/96/i44
- ↑ https://www.oxfordlearning.com/studying-alone-vs-studying-in-a-group/
- ↑ https://learningfundamentals.com.au/blog/5-ways-to-motivate-yourself-to-study-a-boring-subject-andor-complete-a-project/
- ↑ https://www.healthhub.sg/live-healthy/448/buildingasupportivenetwork
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