9 Great Dating Apps for Moms-to-Be

Download Article

Everything you need to know about romance during pregnancy, from the best dating apps to staying healthy during sex

Co-authored by Luke Smith, MFA Reviewed by John Keegan

Last Updated: August 5, 2023 Fact Checked

Download Article

Using Dating Apps as a Mom-to-Be

|

Pregnant Dating Tips

You’re pregnant, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get out there and have some fun. Whether you’re looking for a lifelong partner or just hoping to meet some new people, dating while pregnant is a great way to get out of the house and maybe even meet “the one.” Before you dive into the dating pool, though, we’ll prime you with 10 must-know bits of wisdom and advice for dating while expecting, so that you get the most out of your romantic life.

Things You Should Know

Use dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, AdultFriendFinder, or CoffeeMeetsBagel to find open-minded dates who are receptive to your pregnancy.
Reveal only as much information as you feel comfortable with, but tell your date about your pregnancy sooner rather than later to save yourself some time.
Feel free to head to the bedroom while dating; sex during pregnancy is perfectly safe, provided you use protection to prevent STDs.

Section 1 of 2:

Using Dating Apps as a Mom-to-Be

Download Article

{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/32\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-1.jpg\/v4-460px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/32\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-1.jpg\/v4-728px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\">\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc. \n<\/p> \n<\/p><\/div>"}

1
Apps like Tinder and Bumble are great for meeting someone new. Currently, there aren’t any trustworthy or notable dating apps created just for pregnant women, but you can still find plenty of success on the usual sites with some savvy navigating. Just be sure to check out your match’s social media to get an idea of who they are and be liberal with the block button to filter out the creeps. ^{[1]
X
Trustworthy Source
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
Largest anti-sexual assault organization in the US providing support and advocacy for survivors
Go to source}
- Tinder : Perhaps the most-used dating app, this one is great for the sheer number of matches you may get. But since it’s the most popular, it might also have the most duds.
- Bumble : Another popular app, this one lets female users send the first message, making it much easier to tailor your matches and decide who to talk to, which is handy when looking for an open-minded partner.
- eHarmony : Users on this site are typically looking for something long-term, making it ideal for pregnant women who want a partner who’s ready to commit.
- AdultFriendFinder : This site has some of the most diverse and open-minded users, many of whom are perfectly okay with a pregnant partner.
- Match : A well-established site, this service tends to prioritize its users’ safety, making it ideal for pregnant women.
- CoffeeMeetsBagel : This is a site where matches are served to female users, who then choose whether or not they want to move forward with the match, meaning it gives women the power to tailor their own experiences.
- Silver Singles : This site is for older users, who tend to have more experience and therefore. may be more receptive to a pregnant partner. Because of the age demographic, many users are already parents themselves, and may be more understanding of your situation.
- Love Begins At : Like Silver Singles, this site prioritizes users over 40, and places an emphasis on fun, casual dates, which is perfect if you’re looking for something low-stakes with an open-minded and experienced partner.
- Ashley Madison : While better known for its affair-oriented dating, the site has recently transformed a bit to foster unconventional relationships of all sorts. Just know that your pregnancy won’t be the only unconventional aspect of any matches.
{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/f\/f8\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-2-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-2-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/f\/f8\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-2-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-2-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\">\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc. \n<\/p> \n<\/p><\/div>"}

2
Reveal only as much info as you're comfortable with on your profile. Don’t feel pressured to include your pregnancy in your bio. Just as with any other user, your privacy is your right, and you don’t have to divulge any sensitive information that you don’t want to. ^{[2]
X
Trustworthy Source
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
Largest anti-sexual assault organization in the US providing support and advocacy for survivors
Go to source} Plus, advertising that you’re pregnant straight away might attract some unsavory characters, like fetishists or people looking to harass or lecture single moms. It’s important to protect your peace!
- When writing your bio , include anything you want a potential match to know about yourself, like your personality, interests, and what sort of partner you’re looking for.
- If you don’t want to reveal your pregnancy in your profile, be sure to use pictures of yourself pre-pregnancy, or before you’ve started to show.
- Narrow your dating pool to partners who are more likely to be open-minded about your pregnancy by including something like, “Looking for someone who likes kids,” or, “Going to be a mom someday!”
Advertisement
{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/8\/81\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/8\/81\/Pregnant-Dating-Step-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Pregnant-Dating-Step-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\">\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc. \n<\/p> \n<\/p><\/div>"}

3
Prioritize your safety, and don’t hesitate to dip for any reason. When using dating apps, whether you’re pregnant or not, make safety and comfort your top concern. Meet in a public place, like a coffee shop, and let a trusted friend know where you’re going and when you expect to be back. If you meet someone from an app, trust your instincts, and if the vibe feels off, don’t hesitate to excuse yourself or to call a trusted friend to come get you. ^{[3]
X
Trustworthy Source
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
Largest anti-sexual assault organization in the US providing support and advocacy for survivors
Go to source}
- Also, call your friend partway through the date to check in, and let your date know early on that your friend is expecting a check-in. It’s just a routine safety measure, and any reasonable date won’t have any objections.
- In addition, plan your own transportation, and don’t rely on your date for a ride. Take your own car, ask a friend to drive, or check the bus schedule beforehand.
- In a pinch, notify an employee at the venue that you’re feeling uncomfortable on your date; many employees are trained or generally willing to lend a hand.