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How should you reply when a guy sends you a sweet text that gives you butterflies? Whether he sent you a flirty compliment or a heartfelt message, we’ve put together romantic responses that’ll make him light up. We’ll start off with the sweet responses you can send to any guy you like and finish up with texts that are especially perfect for someone you’ve known longer. Read on for 15 unique ways to respond to a sweet text from a guy!

This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, Collette Gee. Check out the full interview here.

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“If I had to pick between you and chocolate, I’d pick you.”

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“That’s the best text I’ve ever gotten.”

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  1. He probably spent a lot of time thinking of the right thing to say. He might’ve even been a little nervous about sending something sweet or romantic–especially if you two aren’t together yet or are in the early stages of dating. Reassure him that you love the message and give him credit for being thoughtful. [3]
    • “I want to print out that message and frame it. Honestly, it’s so beautiful. Thank you!”
    • “Aw I’m speechless. Your message made me 🥺.”
    • “Nothing I could text back would be as amazing as your message.”
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“I could stay up all night texting you.”

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  1. It’s a great alternative to the classic “goodnight” text, and it makes him feel like you value what he has to say. Respond to a sweet text with a reply like this to help build your deeper emotional and mental connection.
    • “Sleep is overrated. I just want to talk to you!”
    • “I know I have to go to bed, but I’d rather text you. I hate saying goodnight to you.” [4]
    • “I know I’ll probably see you in my dreams tonight, but I want to keep talking you for a little longer.”
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“Do you have any idea how amazing you are?”

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“I love spending time with you.”

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  1. Talk about how much you enjoy his company to show that you like him even more IRL. Try to mention the next time you’ll see him so that you both have something to look forward to. This approach adds a bit of energy, anticipation, and excitement into the conversation, so it’s a great tactic if you’ve just started dating. [9]
    • “I love being around you. Looking forward to Friday!”
    • “Texting you is 😊. But spending time with you is 🥰.”
    • “Your text is so sweet, but it just makes me want to see you again!”
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“You make me feel really special.”

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  1. Show a little love back as you let him know that his message matters to you. Then, you can start talking about the specific personality traits and moments you’ve shared that make you appreciate him. [10] The more specific you can get, the more he’ll feel valued and loved. [11] Start with one of these texts and add a few more sentences about what makes your guy amazing:
    • “Your texts always make me blush.”
    • “You make me feel like I’m the luckiest person in the world.”
    • “Your message made my day!”
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“I wish I was in your arms right now.”

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“You make me smile more than anyone else.”

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“You make me a better person.”

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  1. Describe the deeper impact your guy has on your life. Talk about how he inspires you and how knowing him has changed you. For an even sweeter touch, add in compliments about his character and personality. [16] Use this one for a really romantic text rather than just a flirty one-liner. In fact, if he sends you a long sweet text, try to match the length of his message when you respond.
    • “Before I met you, I really didn’t know what love meant.”
    • “You inspire me to be a stronger, kinder, hard-working person.”
    • “You’ve changed the way I see the world.”
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      1. Collette Gee. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 August 2021.
      2. https://hbr.org/2012/01/why-appreciation-matters-so-mu.html
      3. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/
      4. https://psychcentral.com/health/what-is-love-sick
      5. Collette Gee. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 August 2021.
      6. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/flirting
      7. Collette Gee. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 August 2021.

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