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Sometimes, there are people in our life who just can’t help but bring us down. But what is it about them that makes them so challenging to be around—do they have negative energy? If you constantly feel drained or anxious around them, they just might. In this article, we’ll walk you through 10 key signs of negative energy in a person to watch out for and provide advice on coping. Read on to boost your spirits and understand why that particular person might be bringing you down.
Things You Should Know
- People with negative energy tend to be overly critical, try to involve you in their misery, and diminish your joy.
- Negative energy people lack empathy and often have difficulty maintaining relationships because they expect more from others than they give in return.
- Disengage with negative people. For example, if they try to get you to commiserate, say, “I’m trying to be more positive for my mental health."
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References
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-critical-people
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sapient-nature/201303/dealing-negative-people
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2016/08/02/8-unrealistic-expectations-that-will-ruin-you/?sh=3a3953a19f00
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/victim-mentality
- ↑ https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/self-esteem
- ↑ https://effectiviology.com/pessimism-bias/
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/feb05/jealousy
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/topics/stress/body
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2015/01/10/5-ways-to-stop-giving-negative-people-too-much-power-in-your-life/?sh=3688e20d70c7
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