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It can really sting when a boy who has been nothing but sweet and affectionate towards you suddenly starts backing off. Has he lost interest in you, or is he going through something personal? Before you panic, take a deep breath and remember that you’re amazing and deserve someone who will make you their top priority 100% of the time! We’ve compiled a list of signs to tell if a boy has lost feelings and what to do if he has. Keep reading to learn what you need to look out for and what his change in attitude could possibly mean.
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QuestionHow do you tell if a guy isn't serious about dating you?Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.He may not be interested if he’s checking out other women or looking around at everything but you. He’s not making eye contact, seems like he’s distracted. Another major sign is if he takes out his phone and continues to glimpse at it or worse if he starts talking on his phone. If he’s late or forgets the date this is a major red flag! Also, if he doesn’t ask about you, if it’s more about him or if he’s talking about his past relationships. If he shows no interest in planning future dates or getting together again, he just probably isn’t into you. If there is no follow up then don’t go hunting him down, no follow up usually means that he is not that interested or maybe he’s just not that serious about getting to know you better.
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- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
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