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Some people are naturally talkative, while others prefer solitude and quiet. There’s nothing wrong with being shy, but it can feel like a bit of a challenge if you’re trying to befriend, flirt, or connect with someone who isn’t all that fond of conversation. The good news is that texting is one of the best ways to communicate with a shy person, since it’s low-stakes and gives the other person plenty of time to craft their responses. If you’re looking for ways to get a shy person to open up over text, here are a few tips, tricks, and conversation starters.
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QuestionHow do you make a move on a girl without being creepy?Elvina Lui is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in relationship counseling based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Elvina received her Masters in Counseling from Western Seminary in 2007 and trained under the Asian Family Institute in San Francisco and the New Life Community Services in Santa Cruz. She has over 13 years of counseling experience and is trained in the harm reduction model.Take it slow! Start by asking to hold her hand before making any other bold moves. If she seems pretty reserved, wait a few dates before going for a kiss.
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- ↑ https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-get-a-shy-person-to-open-up-quickly-2016-8#1-start-with-an-introduction-and-an-easy-question-1
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/making-good-friends.htm
- ↑ https://conversationstartersworld.com/would-you-rather-questions/
- ↑ https://rendezvousmag.com/how-to-start-a-conversation-over-text/
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-happiness-project/201009/make-friend-ask-someone-favor
- ↑ https://rendezvousmag.com/how-to-start-a-conversation-over-text/
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- ↑ https://theconversation.com/is-your-smartphone-making-you-shy-71605
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860
- ↑ Elvina Lui, MFT. Marriage & Family Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 March 2019.
- ↑ Elvina Lui, MFT. Marriage & Family Therapist. Expert Interview. 15 March 2019.
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