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Few things in life are as devastating as losing a beloved pet. When you know someone going through this tragic experience, how can you offer your support in the best way possible? Don’t worry—we’ve got your back. Read on for plenty of kind, caring ideas that you can include in your next conversation or sympathy card.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed psychologist, Adam Dorsay. Check out the full interview here.
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Tips
- Make a donation to an animal shelter or pet charity in the name of your friend or loved one’s departed pet. They’re sure to be touched by your kind gesture! [8] X Trustworthy Source The Humane Society of the United States National organization devoted to the promotion of animal welfare Go to sourceThanks
- Offer to help your grieving friend or loved one in a specific way. Instead of saying “Let me know if you need anything,” offer to bring them food, take them out on a walk, or just spend some time with them. [9] X Research sourceThanks
- Encourage the person to write a eulogy for their pet. This is a great way to express exactly what their pet meant to them, and how grateful they are for having known them.Thanks
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Warnings
- Steer clear of comments like “This is all part of God’s plan” or “You can always get another pet.” These statements tend to do more harm than good, and can seem hurtful and insensitive to someone who’s grieving. [10] X Research sourceThanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm
- ↑ https://www.humanesociety.org/resources/coping-death-your-pet
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/animal-attachment/201703/6-ways-say-i-care-friends-who-are-facing-pet-loss
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/animal-attachment/201703/6-ways-say-i-care-friends-who-are-facing-pet-loss
- ↑ https://www.jmu.edu/counselingctr/self-help/grief/helping-a-grieving-friend.shtml
- ↑ https://www.humanesociety.org/resources/coping-death-your-pet
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/animal-attachment/201703/6-ways-say-i-care-friends-who-are-facing-pet-loss
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