Help, I have a crush on my best friend!
How do I handle having a crush on my best friend? I think she’s amazing, and we do everything together. But I don’t know if she feels the same way, and I’m really scared of ruining things.
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This is a tough situation to be in. The best thing to do when you have a crush on your best friend is find out if they feel the same way. Sometimes great friends really do become great lovers.
Eventually, you want to be able to directly say, "You know what, I think I'm starting to feel something for you." But it’s better to be more subtle at first to get a sense of where they're at. For example, when you're hanging out, lean in close to their ear and whisper something funny or tell them that they look great. Just feel their vibes, and see if you can start to create some heat. At some point, you'll have to ask yourself, "Is it worth ruining the friendship we have for me to take this risk?" And if the answer is yes, then you have to do it.
You can try gradually moving towards more physical interactions by subtly doing things like saying "Let's hug," or leaning in and kissing their cheeks like you're in France. See if it feels like something's happening, if that person wants to meet you where you're at. It's very subtle, and you don't have to deal go over the top.
If it seems like they're being receptive, that can be the time to say, "I'm really starting to feel like there's something more between us" or "Maybe I'm crazy, but I feel like there's something more between us, and maybe we should explore it."
But first, I would just initiate light physical escalation and read the signs you receive.
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Eventually, you want to be able to directly say, "You know what, I think I'm starting to feel something for you." But it’s better to be more subtle at first to get a sense of where they're at. For example, when you're hanging out, lean in close to their ear and whisper something funny or tell them that they look great. Just feel their vibes, and see if you can start to create some heat. At some point, you'll have to ask yourself, "Is it worth ruining the friendship we have for me to take this risk?" And if the answer is yes, then you have to do it.
You can try gradually moving towards more physical interactions by subtly doing things like saying "Let's hug," or leaning in and kissing their cheeks like you're in France. See if it feels like something's happening, if that person wants to meet you where you're at. It's very subtle, and you don't have to deal go over the top.
If it seems like they're being receptive, that can be the time to say, "I'm really starting to feel like there's something more between us" or "Maybe I'm crazy, but I feel like there's something more between us, and maybe we should explore it."
But first, I would just initiate light physical escalation and read the signs you receive.
yes I feel the same way because I have a best friend and I really like her a lot and I can't resit it but she knows it already I don't about me kissing her on the cheek and also she said that we can have something in future but I don't when that is what should I do since I still have a crush on her...
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Hey, bud! My name's Brittany, also a dating coach surprisingly, and I would love to weigh in on this issue... When I first met my husband 15 years ago, I was literally in the same situation!! All you can do is wait it out, but if you're feeling flirty and you want to speed things up go for tiny gestures. Don't rush into the physical though, you have good instincts! That creeps a lot of girls out, amirite ladies?! Lol! Go with verbal affirmations and meaningful gift giving. Totally weird example, but when my husband's grandma died, I gave him the funds for an urn. Not the best one, but still a meaningful gift he could use immediately and know that he can rely on me in his most vulnerable moment. Hope this helps and BEST of luck with the madam, xoxo, Brittany Best!
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I also agree that just wait it out and go for tiny gestures. ESPECIALLY don't rush into the physical touch, some kid touched the roots of my hair, thinking I was his best friend, (especially because I'm short) and I was so creeped out that I was frozen in place in shock. When I liked my ex, (who was and is my guy best friend) I kind of rushed into telling him everything and sending hearts when I was busy, so, we broke up and it was confusing because I didn't realize I was rushing things and making him feel uncomfortable.
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just try get closer and closer to her and then you should feel satisfied I've been in the same place my best friend knew I liked him but I knew he wouldnt like me cuz he's straight but I just got closer with him and now he knows me well enough to be okay with it
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wait for when the time comes she will come to you I am sure she wants something with you but is to shy you just need to give her some time you and her will find happiness 1 way or another don't let anything take you down you are a good person may god help you out amen
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What do you do if you dont see her that often? I just went to the next grade, and now we go to different schools.
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The friend that I have a crush on is going to a different highschool, (we just finished primary school) but we're really good friends and have each other's number, and I really don't know if she likes me. I feel like if I told her it would make things awkward between us. Any advice? WHAT DO I DO???
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try seeing if she likes you back but I think it would be worse if she finds out by herself
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That seems so confusing. My teen brother had a friend since second grade and just started dating so I think
u should just ask! The worst she can say is no, and then u apologize and go back to being friends instead!!
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u should just ask! The worst she can say is no, and then u apologize and go back to being friends instead!!
Here I got something. Since y’all really good friends already, and if you think nothing could come between y’all, just tell her. Maybe ask her if y’all can hangout sometime. And watch her body language and how she acts around you to see if she likes you too.
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Hi PansexualAloneLol! As a independent married women who has been in the dating biz for 26 years, my personal and professional opinion, is to keep in contact, but hold yourself back. You are still young (I'm jealous lol!), so you have lots of time to worry about dating and relationships. So I suggest you start hitting books instead of hitting the wikihow, buster. Just kidding lol! As a humble mother of three teenage boys, this really activated my motherhood instincts. Wishing you all the BEST and good luck with high school, xoxo Brittany Best.
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Well I only get to see my bf for a week each year b/c we live so far away from each other
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I have learned so much on this site . Thank you! I am considering more now than ever before.
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I like this idea of yours
I lose my co workers friend i didnt quickly notice all the hug in public and in private. She is always happy to talk about anything with me even what is going on in are family.
Our boss staring noticing this and calling her if we are in relationship because they always see the happiness in her anytime she see me.
After some month she told me she want to resign and she did.
Bot together am regretting all the crush and love she have for me .
Now i am missing her so much
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I lose my co workers friend i didnt quickly notice all the hug in public and in private. She is always happy to talk about anything with me even what is going on in are family.
Our boss staring noticing this and calling her if we are in relationship because they always see the happiness in her anytime she see me.
After some month she told me she want to resign and she did.
Bot together am regretting all the crush and love she have for me .
Now i am missing her so much
Do you have her number? if so, call her! she will probs be happy to talk w/ you! If not, ask ur boss if he has her phone number.
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Agreed. I have a crush on my friend too. He might like me but i'm too scared to ask. I don't know what to do because I told my and they're joking that they're going to tell him. I'm scared to ask him, what can I do?
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If you talk to your friend and she doesn't feel the same as you, a little bit of distance can work wonders to help you heal. Keep in contact with your friend, but have less contact than before.
Don't make a big deal of it. You don't want to go around telling everyone or feel angry about the rejection. It is important to remember how the friendship was before you developed this crush.
If you have to, stop looking at their social media accounts for the time being. Talk it out with them so no one is left feeling awkward, and then commit to letting it go. Allow yourself to grieve and get over it. That could happen by creating a bit of space.
It could mean taking a few weeks or a month off of seeing them, but this could be best for both of you in the long run. Focus on other activities and on yourself, get back to doing things you love, and learn how to just be a friend again to this person.
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Don't make a big deal of it. You don't want to go around telling everyone or feel angry about the rejection. It is important to remember how the friendship was before you developed this crush.
If you have to, stop looking at their social media accounts for the time being. Talk it out with them so no one is left feeling awkward, and then commit to letting it go. Allow yourself to grieve and get over it. That could happen by creating a bit of space.
It could mean taking a few weeks or a month off of seeing them, but this could be best for both of you in the long run. Focus on other activities and on yourself, get back to doing things you love, and learn how to just be a friend again to this person.
See for me its super duper complicated! Because basically I started liking this guy and he liked me and we had this like situation ship for like 6 months, I say situation ship because we held hands, hung out, called all the time, held hands but never really named the relationship because neither of us can technically date but it was treated as such. So anyway, everything is going great, I love this guy, he loves me. But, then things low-key got awkward and I was getting in trouble for texting him so much. But like we made it work and I guess me and him were both being dry, but he texts me one day and tells me that he likes me and I'm so smart and pretty and amazing and he feels horrible ending us because he likes me and asks if we can just be friends. So we were just good friends everything is chill, I barely talk to him but its chill. Well, then a church dance comes up a month later and he slows dances with me, which hasn't happened since we were like dating, so I confront him and am like I'm confused, and say I feel like Im getting mixed signals, he tells me he still likes me but we need to stay friends for the best. So I never stopped liking him, Another dance comes up and we slow dance AGAIN, and I'm still so confused but instead of confronting I just let it go, and keep liking him. Keep in mind we broke up in October, its now February. So I've basically still been liking him and its gotten to the point were I just want to tell him because its like what do I have to lose? But then yet I see him every Tuesday and Saturday and that could be low-key awkward. Not to mention the fact that he asked a girl to prom, that isn't me and I have no clue if he likes her or not.
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I’d first say, it’s wonderful that you are in tune with how you feel. Second, I’d ask whether you want to take the friendship to the next level. If so, I’d encourage you to tell your best friend how you feel. Yes, it’s scary and a risk but if the best friend feels the same, a deeper relationship can develop. If the best friend doesn’t feel the same, that’s ok, and you need to decide if you can handle just having a friendship or if it will be too challenging knowing your feelings.
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Well, it’s a bit tricky because there’s a lot to lose in this situation. You have your best friend who you have a crush on, but if you take that risk and tell them…you could end everything. Do you notice signs that they feel the same way about you? When they talk is there any sort of touch involved? Do you notice they sit close to you on the couch and snuggle? Do they say things that lead you to believe that maybe they feel something more for you? Why not test the waters? Instead of going straight for it and telling them how you feel, which is a valid option, why not see what happens if you try one of these strategies first? If you get pushback or think they’re not interested, then you know the relationship is to stand as friends, and we’ll have to work on adjusting to that. Wishing you the very best of luck!
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I might try some of those strategies. My crush is one of my friends. He might like me but I'm too scared to ask him in person. There are so many signs that he likes me. He jokes around me and teases me. He always whispers me and makes eye contact with me. I need help to decide what to do. What should I do?
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Having a crush on your best friend is both exciting and nerve-wracking—you deeply value this person, and the fear of losing the friendship is real. First, recognize that your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to have them. The key is to navigate this in a way that honors your emotions while also respecting the friendship. Ask yourself: Do I need to express my feelings, or am I content just enjoying our connection as it is? If the desire for something more is strong, consider whether there are signs she might feel the same way.
The risk, of course, is that she may not share your feelings, and that could shift the dynamic between you. But if handled with honesty, care, and respect, it can also deepen trust, whether it leads to romance or strengthens your bond in a different way. If you decide to share your feelings, do so in a way that leaves space for both of you to respond openly, without pressure. The worst-case scenario is temporary awkwardness or a change in the friendship, but the best case? You gain clarity, deeper emotional honesty, and perhaps even a new chapter together. Either way, you’re choosing courage over regret, and that’s something to be proud of.
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The risk, of course, is that she may not share your feelings, and that could shift the dynamic between you. But if handled with honesty, care, and respect, it can also deepen trust, whether it leads to romance or strengthens your bond in a different way. If you decide to share your feelings, do so in a way that leaves space for both of you to respond openly, without pressure. The worst-case scenario is temporary awkwardness or a change in the friendship, but the best case? You gain clarity, deeper emotional honesty, and perhaps even a new chapter together. Either way, you’re choosing courage over regret, and that’s something to be proud of.
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Do NOTHING unless you are ok with risking the loss of the friendship. Best advice out there. At the end of the day though, if it hurts too much to be around her BECAUSE you have feelings that go beyond friendship then perhaps the risk is worth it. If it's a no from her than you can lick your wounds, move on and heal. At the end of the day, you can't really be friends if you wouldn't be happy seeing her date someone else.
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put a note at her desk telling her to meet up somware private and tell her how u feel if she shows up that's how I got my first girl it works
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good for u. My crush likes me back but he hasn't made a move. I feel like that pick me girl that sits next to him is getting to him:(
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Hey man, I went through the same thing, and it’s rough. My advice is to just talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and be clear that you both value her as a friend and as more. You don't want to make her think the friendship was a ploy to sleep with her.
I went through this with one of my friends, and things were weird for a couple days (she didn't feel the same as me). But we had some really good, honest conversations, and afterwards I actually felt like our friendship was stronger. I wasn't hiding this thing from her anymore, and, if we could talk about this, then clearly we could talk about anything.
So just be open with her, and make sure you're okay with staying friends if she doesn't feel the same. You got this!
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I went through this with one of my friends, and things were weird for a couple days (she didn't feel the same as me). But we had some really good, honest conversations, and afterwards I actually felt like our friendship was stronger. I wasn't hiding this thing from her anymore, and, if we could talk about this, then clearly we could talk about anything.
So just be open with her, and make sure you're okay with staying friends if she doesn't feel the same. You got this!
chat boys actually have feelings????? im a girl and theres this guy likee hfbhrfwhbhjfbhwjrgfvhewhjegv yk and hes giving mixed signals, we are constantly hugging and stuff but sometimes hes just dry, but he does give me sweet compliments and always comforts me when im feeling down. I'm curious to see from your perspective bc ur a guy i think so yeaa
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Gurlllll, im a girl but i have advice, ask him if he thinks you'r pretty, if he says yes or some thing better, and you looooooove him or smth like that ask him out!!!! Im sure he wont regect!!!
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examples? also he held my hand sooooo and he said he missed me but idk some days hes a bit dry
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Omg same. I have this fren who's a guy n he teases me ALOT, but also sometimes kinda sweet. Came here too to see from a guy's perspective cos I was bored and why not??...
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Go for it, ask him out, he may like you sooo much, he'll dump his bff and date u instead, but he dont wanna confess!
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sameeeeeeeeeee!!!! i have no idea what to do with this, because i've liked this boy for like a year and a half and he told me he doesn't like me but that was last year, and now he's acting really overprotective when i hint at having a new crush. i have no clue what to do here!!
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The next time he does that, tease him about being overprotective and observe his reaction. If he's like, hey or no, tease him more lol
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Yeah, just be like "what, do you like me or something??" in a playful kind of way.
Hope this helps
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Hope this helps
BROOOOOOO i envy uuuuuu i dont know if my crush even still likes me we started liking each other in about 3rd grade but now shes saying things like "I can see why people think we still like each other." Any advice??? pls i need help im gonna have a mental breakdown if i dont knowwwwww
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girl he probably likes u. start playfully teasing him about being overprotective, say something like "aw u wish u were him" and see how he reacts, it should be clear if he likes u
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Sounds as if this person has similar interests in you to! FYI never say. That you have a new crush just to get a reaction( to test waters) instead go bold and big!! Be spontaneous and adventurous! You typically only have one real shot. Good luck? YOU GOT THIS!
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same thing happened to meeee!!!! i was getting mixed signals, he had liked me years before according to his sister which was my bestie. we both talked about how people said we should date and we always denied it and said we were just best friends. a week later we both confessed. sadly my parents ruined it all, I don't see him anymore and we were both so broken that we were separated and we don't even text anymore. We left his dads church (he was the pastors kid) and I lost the one person I trusted and loved. SO yes definitely go for him. i cant end any worse than it did for me.
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bro me and his sister are so close no way.. anyways he always comforts me and his friends and sisters always like nudge him toward me n stuff but i dont know. we are both christian and go to church together, its rlly refreshing having someone practice the same faith.
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I know this goes against what most of the other comments are saying, but I'd caution you to really think before you confess your feelings, and if you're unsure about how it'll impact your relationship, it's safer to just not tell her (unless you're willing to sacrifice your friendship and have already come to terms with the fact that things may never be the same). Because what happened to me is I confessed my feelings to my best friend because all my other friends were encouraging me to open up to her. But when I did, she got really upset and thought that I was a fake friend who was just being friendly with her to get in a relationship with her. She said that she didn't want to be friends with me and then stopped talking to me. It was devastating...So yeah, just a word of caution.
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This could be hard. I think most of you people answering are guys, but my bff had a crush on me. I completely flipped when I heard it. I didn't them, after they were still so nice to me I developed feelings for him. So basically, just spit it out, but be casual, say "Hey Sam(whatever her name is), I have to tell you something" don't say it too fast, once she gives eye contact to you just come in a little closer don't say anything just slightly touch her hand, if she pulls away just focus on being a good friend for her, if she is confused just bring your lips closer to her, she would probably figure you like her if she pushes back that means she needs space. *remember move slow*. If you can tell she is uncomfortable of confused say "I like you" softly *Only say this if you are questioning that if she likes you or not. If she seems like she likes you kiss her. If she get's mad at you for kissing her, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! DO NOT crack a joke or avoid it. Or be like "Oh, i thought you were someone else" and run off. Be open, "Um...Sam I've been meaning to tell you, and I am sorry". Give her some space but show her that you are worth it. When she starts opening up to you remind her you are sorry but don't make it awkward, if you usually put your hand around her shoulder do it again, don't make it awkward.
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You shouldn't just bring your lips closer to her. My friends ex-bff did that and it traumatized my friend forever.
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I have this cruch on a guy i dont know too well, But everything says he likes me back. How do i aproch him without ruining our friendship?
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What I do whenever I like someone, I make one of my willing friends tell them that "someone" Likes them. Last Year one of my friends did that. It really helped. Or you can slip him/her a note.
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If she really was ur best friend, she wouldn’t ruin the friendship because of you confessing ,go for it❗️
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IT'S ALR GIRLIE JUST TELL THEM WHAT IS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN I TOLD MINE AND WE R GETTING MARRIED IN A FEW WEEKS I HAVE NEVER EVEN CONSIDERED REGRETTINF IT OR SEEING ANYONE ELSE U GO GIRL TELL US ALL THE JUICY DEETS
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Oh honey! I bet you are fabulous and all! Why fear! Just go for it! I bet she is actually heads over heels for you but just feels the same way as you! Even if she doesn't, it's her loss!
But I would ask you to test it. For instance, pretend that you are someone else over the phone and just casually ask if she is onto you!
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But I would ask you to test it. For instance, pretend that you are someone else over the phone and just casually ask if she is onto you!
What if my relationship with my best friend is already very complicated. Should I tell and risk the friendship or just keep it on normal terms.
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I have a crush on my best friend but it's confusing because I know she's gay too but she always hangs around her gay friends a lot. But I think she flirts with me too and I can't really tell because she's just a very positive and touchy person in general.
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HELP I AM INTERESTED IN 3 PEOPLE. one of them is definitely platonic, and she's straight too, one of them will never happen because he's older than me, and the last one is very complicated. all of my friends and family members say he likes me and he does act different around me but i dont know how to make moves. any advice?
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trust me....im a girl and won't like if my best friend crushing on me. So just don't tell her anything abt this.
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Damn bro I mean ask them out before a holiday/break so even if they say no they’ll probably forget about it
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I honestly think you should just tell her up front! Or maybe tell your other friends? I tried to do that, but I’m mega shy. If you’re less shy than me, tell your friends and ask them how to handle it.
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Ihave a crush on someone from the other class but i don't know that does he like me or not.Are there any signs that he might have a crush on me?
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if he looks at you often, smiles at you, if it seems like his friends almost like playfully shove him toward you, talks to you often, treats u differently than he does to others. if he is a friendly person, it can be difficult to tell if hes just being friendly, or is romantically interested in you.
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I married a Virgo 4 years ago but up to now our communication is bad we don't understand each other but I can't be without him I love him n he loves me
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I have an adult female friend she knows I love her but she wants space we meet with other friends 2 times a week, I want to be closer by respect her space. What do I do? I’m trying she is even hesident to hug
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I had the same thing!! It was my bestie from last year and then I started liking her but I didn't want to ruin our friendship.
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The same thing happend to me. I just told them..well I had my friend tell them. But they liked me back, so go for it dude!
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I did this test for someone in my school. I am clueless if she likes me? What should i do
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Me Too! The best thing to is break it to them slowly,I think they will get the hint that way
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do you really know this person? they could be pretending to be someone you trust they could be an old man o smth stay safe!
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Idk if my friend likes me. She likes me as a "Close friend" not as a "Best friend".
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It is almost impossible for me to trying to not be obsessed and being engaged to one of other
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Same! But we have activities weekly together for 1h and we chat everyday but it's just short chats... He's pretty cyuuuuute! Everyone and I mean EVERYONE ships us together but we always deny which one article here said not to... Hellppp!
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Bro same situation with me and my crush!!! We talk loads in class, and everyone ships us and keeps asking me and my crush are dating, and if we would date each other. We both decline it and tell them that it's a friend thing, but I actually don't know if my crush likes me back. This crush compared to my past crushes is different. We do have fun convos, but it's his kindness and helpfulness towards me and the way he cares that draws him to me, since no one ever does that to me. He says that he's emotionless and that he fake smiles and fake laughs, but I still like to create happy moments with him anyways, since I like seeing him smile and laugh. Also, I texted him that if he wanted to, we could hangout during the holidays, and he replied with 'Sure I would love to' I was going all crazy inside yo, I was so excited!
Anyways, to help your case, you could subtly give hints that you like him, or you can spend more time with him one-on-one together outside of school and those weekly activities you have with him. Start to get to know him, after all, if you have a crush on someone, you'd be naturally interested to learn more about them. However, if you wanna confess, maybe you can write a love letter and slip it into his locker, it is up to you if you wanna keep it anonymous or not. Or you could just go out and tell him privately. It doesn't have to be long or sappy, but it's best to just cut straight to the point. Simple and sweet. If he rejects you, then just smile and say something like, "Ah, that's alright, I just wanted you to know. Have a nice day." It'll hurt at the start, but remember that he just doesn't deserve you. However, if he feels the same way, that's great! You two can progress with your relationship.
Hope this helps, and best of luck to you!
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Anyways, to help your case, you could subtly give hints that you like him, or you can spend more time with him one-on-one together outside of school and those weekly activities you have with him. Start to get to know him, after all, if you have a crush on someone, you'd be naturally interested to learn more about them. However, if you wanna confess, maybe you can write a love letter and slip it into his locker, it is up to you if you wanna keep it anonymous or not. Or you could just go out and tell him privately. It doesn't have to be long or sappy, but it's best to just cut straight to the point. Simple and sweet. If he rejects you, then just smile and say something like, "Ah, that's alright, I just wanted you to know. Have a nice day." It'll hurt at the start, but remember that he just doesn't deserve you. However, if he feels the same way, that's great! You two can progress with your relationship.
Hope this helps, and best of luck to you!
That's ok! I'm in Yr 8 too and I like someone in the same grade but was meant to be in Yr 9. To help your case, you could subtly give hints that you like him, or you can spend more time with him one-on-one together outside of school and those weekly activities you have with him. Start to get to know him, after all, if you have a crush on someone, you'd be naturally interested to learn more about them. However, if you wanna confess, maybe you can write a love letter and slip it into his locker, it is up to you if you wanna keep it anonymous or not. Or you could just go out and tell him privately. It doesn't have to be long or sappy, but it's best to just cut straight to the point. Simple and sweet. If he rejects you, then just smile and say something like, "Ah, that's alright, I just wanted you to know. Have a nice day." It'll hurt at the start, but remember that he just doesn't deserve you. However, if he feels the same way, that's great! You two can progress with your relationship.
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I have a giant crush on a boy in my school! we used to be extremley close last year and went trick or treating together last year, her also invited me this year! Dose he like me?
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I have a crush on my best friend and unfortunately, he is dating someone who is non-binary. I am extremely jealous of them and only want my best friend to myself. I tried telling him by writing a letter, but he didn't see it. I'm afraid to talk to him about it.
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well, since he is dating somebody, it doesnt mean the end of the world, u have to ask him if he really likes her if he says yes then say "thats sad" and be happy for him and be by his side, if no then make light moves on him or get him confused, once he stopped dating give him sometime and confess before its too late
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Think about it. Are you okay with being just friends. Does it hurt if you cant be more than friends. Is your friend dating anyone? Is your friend straight, gay, or Bi. Do you think she might like you back? Think about it and from me I believe in you. You can get her! Just try your best, and if for some reason it doesn't work out remember, it's okay to grief and there's more fish in the sea!
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sleuth around to see if she acts the same way
take the quiz, it is quite accurate
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take the quiz, it is quite accurate
Just tell her your feelings. If she liked you back that's great, if she doesn't just continue being best friends, and move on.
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That can be hard, but living in fear will only make you two grow more distant. Talk with her more, see if she's interested in anybody. When you tell her, make sure the mood is right and the atmosphere is comfortable.
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Just look at how she acts with you. Maybe she blushes around you or smm. Also take the test (does she like me) see what you get
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I'm also in love with my best friend and told her about it. she said she liked me too. but i don't know about yours, they might find out so confront them about it
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What do i f I'm if he likes me and he just doesn't respond when people tell him and this other guy asked me out and I like both of them what do I dooooo
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Yoo I've been there before and I know that having a crush on your best friend is such an awful situation! You have all these feelings eating you up inside but then you're worried about messing up the friendship if you say anything. Maybe if your best friend has another friend that knows them well you could ask them for advice or insights into how your best friend feels about you. I personally think you should go for it.
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How do I know it's really. I have never had a crush on anybody and now I see her almost every day of the week and we lay each other's head on each other's shoulder. And we've talked about it and we're on the same level, do I love you is it a crush or not and I don't know. I think I love her, I love her family, I love the way she is happy, she is who she is! But is she a really good friend, I mean we get shipped, she harder(some friends really like to ship her to me) than me I always laugh it off. I do see a future with her. But is she the one, or is this my first crush. I only now know her for around 2,5 years. I love her, but I very scared, I know she loves me but what if what I feel isn't really love what if I make it up in my own head. F*ck, I love her, and I am scared. Idk
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Having a crush on your best friend can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, especially when you value the friendship so much. Here are some steps to help you navigate this situation thoughtfully:
Reflect on Your Feelings
Take some time to understand your emotions. Are you genuinely interested in a romantic relationship, or is this a fleeting attraction? Consider how your feelings might impact your friendship.
Assess the Friendship
Think about how important the friendship is to you. Are you willing to risk the dynamic if she doesn’t feel the same way? If the friendship is a priority, you might want to proceed cautiously.
Look for Signs
Pay attention to her behavior. Does she show any signs of romantic interest, like flirting, seeking one-on-one time, or expressing deeper emotional connection? While it’s not foolproof, it might give you some clues.
Remember, it’s natural to feel scared of ruining things, but being honest about your feelings can also deepen your connection, regardless of the outcome. Good luck!
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Reflect on Your Feelings
Take some time to understand your emotions. Are you genuinely interested in a romantic relationship, or is this a fleeting attraction? Consider how your feelings might impact your friendship.
Assess the Friendship
Think about how important the friendship is to you. Are you willing to risk the dynamic if she doesn’t feel the same way? If the friendship is a priority, you might want to proceed cautiously.
Look for Signs
Pay attention to her behavior. Does she show any signs of romantic interest, like flirting, seeking one-on-one time, or expressing deeper emotional connection? While it’s not foolproof, it might give you some clues.
Remember, it’s natural to feel scared of ruining things, but being honest about your feelings can also deepen your connection, regardless of the outcome. Good luck!
You should probably ask her somewhere comfy and private for her opinion how she feels about you then she rejects you should probably keep her in contact but be friends not that close.
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Don't! Kissing is only for people who like each other. Make sure SHE LOVES you before you try that!
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i have a crush on my first girlfriends best friend, but i'm unsure if she likes me back. she talkes to me a lot, and she stares at me sometimes. what do you guys think?
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as a girl, shes probably scared of breaking GIRL CODE!! (NEVER date ur friends ex, crush, or obviously, boyfriend.)
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This has happened to me before! You'll need to tell personally alone I wish u the BEST OF LUCK👍
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Ive already dated like ten people before but me and this love of my life I literally can't imagine not thinking about her!!🤔😍😘😎🤗🙂😋😁😗🤐
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Tell her but start with smt like "Hey I wanna tell you smt but I dont want to make this akward or ruin our friendship" her\him"what" you" I kinda have crush on you for .......... Long .
Dont worry if she doesnt feel tge same way
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Dont worry if she doesnt feel tge same way
Hi I need ur help so my crush thinks I’m obsessed cause people are making it seem like that and now he has a gf so I don’t know what to do and nobody likes me
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Hey bro just me i never felt that way but my best friend did and so she just found a time we were alone and said it i rejected her because we were in fourth grade at the time and yea it did ruin things just a bit but then we were fine so i say tell em how you feel.
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ask her if she likes anyone or thinks anyones attractive, maybe flirt with her see how she acts does she get uncomfortable or is amused. make sure to prioritie her and if you find out she does like you make sure you both are ready to commit and ready to transform your friendship into a relationship.
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I say you should try to tell her!! She might feel the same way, and your crush knowing about your feelings might make u feel better about the situation!
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idk if i have a crush on my best friend like when she messes with my hair im really nervous but that’s what best friend do right?
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Guys helpppp. I'm really confused about my feelings right now but there is this one guy who is really nice to me. I thought he liked me ages ago and always think he's flirting, but then the next second he's talking to other girls and they're saying the same! I don't want to like him cause he's like that, but it feels like he's treating me differently. Probably not though but I don't know what to do. Should I make a move or something? He's just always jumping from girl to girl - is he a player or something??!
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My crush knows that I like him but everything is the same before he knew I liked him
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I am dating my best friend but its confusing to me and I honestly just need advice
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Don't worry too much about it. Just tell her, and if she doesn't feel the same ask her if you can still be friends (without it being weird)
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Just be there for her. Show her you care about her well-being. Above all, be yourself. Things usually work out for the better if you're being the best you can be.
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my bestfriend is aroace and doesnt experience attraction. and I think I like her. its so hard bc ik she will never like me back.what do I do
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omg! for the test I got "Your love potential is 100%." i know we are alike but what????! omggggggggggggggggggggg also he is my neighbor! im to shy around him tho....
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Ok, I have been through this same thing. But plot twist I am the opposite, my best friend had a crush on me. At the time, I didn't like him. But know it is a different story. Never loose hope, and just if you mean that much to her she will want to keep you in her life. Trust me.
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Tell her once you have gotten enough signs and when you ask her tell her its okay if not and i hope this doesn't ruin our friendship.
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If you've been friends for a long time, I think you should definitely just talk to her about it. Be clear, be honest, and be bold.
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IDK if my bestie likes me back. I just love her so much! I am a lesbian demisexual after all...
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you should go for it slowly and subtly and see if she is giving you the I want the be something more then friends vibe the best way to find out is to see how she reacts when you talk to other girls if she is jealous then you should consider making a move-be like percabeth
btw I am suggesting this from a fiction book but it seems foolproof enough
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btw I am suggesting this from a fiction book but it seems foolproof enough
Honestly, just ask her. This has worked for people i know, but honestly im a hypocrite cuz i havent even asked my crush out myself... well if she says no, just try to keep it together.
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try to impress her and if you feel confident enough over time then tell her your feelings!
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uhm, I got he's into you but I can barely talk to him I'm wayyy to shy and nervous around him. plus he is always busy with his friends so I cannot really talk to him without his friends there......also I want to give him a note but idk if he will see it or like it...
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ok I think my crush likes me because of all the signs. should I make the first move?? idk I'm super shy around him....should I make him a note? if yes then should I put my name or just put it as anonymous?
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I say go for it she deserves it and so do you! and if she doesn't feel the same way then what is there to loose (other than your friend) but was she a real friend if she turns you down?
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Yeah I get all of these! There is this guy I'm really into and we have a thing called WEB together and we have A LOT in common, but now idk how to talk to him because I have feelings
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i have a crush on someone that my parents would not approve of but there kinda my closest and best friend. my parents know there name but not their age and would probobly ground me for it and they like me but there parents want them to date someone they dont like. what do i do?
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girl maybe have talk with ur parents about the types of people there. if ur parent don't approve of them because of the way they dress or their looks maybe ask them to meet them or tell that looks shouldn't define people.
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first you should look for signs that she like you too, once you have gathers enough evidneece, you should ask her out if she says no its OK maybe, you can still be friends.
have fun!
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have fun!
I feel that, Personally I just say go for it, Its not like I ever could. Don't be like me go for it dude!
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ok I have enough courage to give my crush a note that says "Do you like me?" does anyone support this? I for one think this is a good idea,but what do you guys think?
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It says that he thinks I’m an irresistible mystery, but 43% got that, so I’m not sure. Could you add some quizzes that are like “Does he like 2 people” or something like that, I had one but now I can’t remember it… But thanks for the quiz!
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If she's really your friend and she doesn't have the same romantic feelings she wouldn't stop talking to you for something like that.
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I had the same problem but once I told him he just got closer with our friendship, and after a few weeks he asked me out. Honesty is always the key in a situation like this.
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I like someone, but I am getting in trouble in class and sometimes make them nervous. So I've been trying, and I think they notice. We've been places outside of school, and she always laughs at me in a funny way. It's definitely flirting. But does she like me back? I need to know! This quiz helped somewhat, but...
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Tell her your feelings you don’t know maybe she likes you to and if she doesn’t have feelings then give her space for a few days then talk about it to her and make sure to respect boundaries
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I have a rl big crush on this boy called theo,buttt we are not best friends and ,friends’ is an overstatement, im not really pretty and know i don’t stand a chance with him but i know i like him and its hard not to, any advice?
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look if you really like this person and there's a chance of her feeling the same way, then take a shot in the dark man
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I think you should tell a close friend but not her. I have got a friend tell them for me. Sometimes work.
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I had the same situation as you, bro, but it's much worse. Everyone know i used to have a crush on her but i just can say my crush for her is ended to hide my feelings. Recently, she has more skinships with me or it's just my imagination but i can't stop thinking 'bout it and don't know if we could be a couple, need advicesss
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i need help! i like my long time good freind but my girl bestie likes him too! i want to tell them
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I thought I had a crush but now it seems like love with my ex friend. We had a fight because he thought I was into him before. Now insulting him is the only way that makes me happy.
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I really like this guy who sits next to me, and I've kinda known him since 5th grade, but he thinks I like an eighth grader. Also, everyone says he doesn't date, even though he dated someone else.
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Talk to her about how you feel and maybe she feels the same about you depending on how she acts and how close she is to you.
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If you two have a mature relationship I think that it will survive you confessing your feelings to her. I've been best friends with my best friend for over a decade now and when I confessed my feelings to her, nothing changed. We still see hang out all the time. The longer you hold onto these feelings the worse you will feel, it's better to get it off your chest. Good luck!
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I know exactly how you feel.
I’ve known this guy my entire life so far and I started having feelings for him.
But when we sort of ended up together, it started to feel like more of an older brother
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I’ve known this guy my entire life so far and I started having feelings for him.
But when we sort of ended up together, it started to feel like more of an older brother
What do I do if I know my crush from both church and school and I catch her doing things such as : telling me the boy she likes and wants me to hint that she likes him without telling him and it sounds suspicious, staring at me as the last thing she sees before leaving, and also staring at me until i catch her. This girl is also in 7th grade. Please Help!!!
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as a girl in 7th grade, who also like a guy from church and school, i can tell u that shes probably playing hard-to-get, or shes trying to get ur attention, or see how you will react. but ofc, all girls are different, and we're kinda unpredictable. just go with your gut, and it'll (hopefully) work out.
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What do i do if my crush goes to both my church and middle school and doing suspicious things such as : telling me the boy she likes and asking me to hint it to him suspiciously (this boy is friend of mine), staring at me as the last thing she sees before leaving the building, staring at me until i catch her, and acting shy around me. Please Help!!!!!
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I have a female friend who is very close to each other. I have romantic feelings for her but I am not sure she has those feelings for me.
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hi I used to have a crush on my best friend but he's not in the same school anymore
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I'm in the same situation. Tell them, and if you like each other, date! If not, repair your friendship and be besties. Whatever happens, move forward with kindness and understanding. Best of luck!
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nah cause we friended so hard we are dating (platonically) but I think I might like him romantically (idk)
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UGH!!! so I don't know for how long but I have a crush on my best friend BUT I'm a guy and he's a guy and I'm gay but i don't know how to tell if he likes me its just REALLY confusing I mean he's really handsome and I have so many dreams about him! Just thinking about him turns me on😩!!! I don't know what to do I want to tell him but I'm afraid he'll reject me cause I'm pretty sure he's straight but LIKE WHAT IF HE ISN'T?!?!? It's just killing me!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!😭
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My crush is really chill.and I think if I tell him, he will just say "cool." I'm pretty chill as well but more of a misty pokemon personality , so I need help.
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He's my friend but I don't know him to well but he's super cute. I always stare at him and then when he sees me i look away. I know that i have a crush on him though
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It says he completely likes me. I really don't think he does that much. I mean, I hope he does though. If not... I always have another crush😏
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whats her name and whats ur name and also if she tells u secrets or just laughs so much around u, tell her or else it might be too late!!
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I like my friend but I’m too shy to tell him and everyone is shipping us together so it is really awkward
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Just confront her, If she is truly ur good friend she will understand without ruining ur friendship with her,
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I think u should go ahead and ask her out.But if she doesn't feel thesame way,then just stay friends and don't distance ur from her
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As a girl who has a good amount of guy friends, this is my advice. If you aren't sure, and you really are worried about 'loosing her' as a close friend in case she doesn't like you, do NOT make a big first move.
In fact, avoid making moves early on. A close guy friend of mine liked me. I knew this, all my girl-friends knew. Not because someone snitched, its because he made it obvious. He wasn't flirting, but there were some pretty obvious tells. I tried to be polite but it made me feel awkward knowing what was probably going through his head.
My advice would be, the best thing for you to do, is be a great friend, and avoid being awkward or transparent. Because if she doesn't like you back, and tells you, chances are that means she knew already. And she felt the need to say or insinuate that she doesn't feel the same.
BE CAREFUL, do not misunderstand this advice. Not being transparent doesn't mean being completely 'nonchalant' or uncaring. It means don't get outwardly flustered or make a situation awkward or uncomfortable because of how you feel. Others can sense the awkwardness. Be confident, act as you always would. Make it a goal to become a good, trustworthy and playful but kind friend. If she does like you back, now or at some point in the future, she will find this attractive. Feeling close and safe with a good friend means she will be more likely to open up. But don't forget that at some point you will need to decide weather or not to make a move.
playing it safe means you will never progress. Make progress, but naturally.
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In fact, avoid making moves early on. A close guy friend of mine liked me. I knew this, all my girl-friends knew. Not because someone snitched, its because he made it obvious. He wasn't flirting, but there were some pretty obvious tells. I tried to be polite but it made me feel awkward knowing what was probably going through his head.
My advice would be, the best thing for you to do, is be a great friend, and avoid being awkward or transparent. Because if she doesn't like you back, and tells you, chances are that means she knew already. And she felt the need to say or insinuate that she doesn't feel the same.
BE CAREFUL, do not misunderstand this advice. Not being transparent doesn't mean being completely 'nonchalant' or uncaring. It means don't get outwardly flustered or make a situation awkward or uncomfortable because of how you feel. Others can sense the awkwardness. Be confident, act as you always would. Make it a goal to become a good, trustworthy and playful but kind friend. If she does like you back, now or at some point in the future, she will find this attractive. Feeling close and safe with a good friend means she will be more likely to open up. But don't forget that at some point you will need to decide weather or not to make a move.
playing it safe means you will never progress. Make progress, but naturally.
Tell him or her that you like them. I also have a crush on my best friend and I have already told them that I like them and proposed. My crush is a really shy person so hasn't responded yet and everything is normal between. Because I was ablebto tell them , I sometimes tease them and we plactonically talk about such stuffs. First time is a pressure, if you are not sure how to tell them then try to casually confess and say it was a dare and see their reaction.
Because I told my crush my feelings, they are aware of me and sometimes try to reach out. And we have quite a lot of things similar so it's fun.
I know you got this, breath in and out, if you regularly do some kind of activities together then confess them of casually out of the blue. If you can handle the aftermath, stay there for their response or run away if you want to.
Do this when you are ready to handle the reaction, but don't be too late because you might regret not coming clear before.
If they reject, stay friends and support each other. If they accept, congratulations, you have a partner.
Do post after your confession to your crush.
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Because I told my crush my feelings, they are aware of me and sometimes try to reach out. And we have quite a lot of things similar so it's fun.
I know you got this, breath in and out, if you regularly do some kind of activities together then confess them of casually out of the blue. If you can handle the aftermath, stay there for their response or run away if you want to.
Do this when you are ready to handle the reaction, but don't be too late because you might regret not coming clear before.
If they reject, stay friends and support each other. If they accept, congratulations, you have a partner.
Do post after your confession to your crush.
Honestly, the same happened to me... I straight up just confested and... boom were together. What I'm trying to say is just be honest w/ her. Girls love it.
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yo wiki how i NEED a “how to stop liking a boy that doesn’t like you but is leading you on”
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Omgoodness I have a crush on my best friend as well, he is kind, brave, cute, and just amazing, but I’m so scared he doesn’t like me back
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I have a crush on someone that is super sweet but we almost never talk how can I start a conversation subtly
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Stop your ego!
Im just saying this first so you could understand the main reason of your of wanting things. It's just an ego. All of us r like that. Its not bad, but u should know and be familiar with it.
Man, enjoy just to have a good friendship. Maintaining things in the life is more hard than so called "progress". You like it as it is right? U r living the moment, just more appreciation for your sake.
Just forget about it and have whatever you have.
And besides that enjoy the life. See the bigger pic. Dont be a suqa. :) jk
And maybe when you wont be thinking about it anymore, after an year, she'll be the one telling you stuff, but stop dreaming about it. Just have it whatever u have. Most probably its just u fantasizing and the worst thing is to be first of doing that.
Buddy just follow the flow and you'll know if u have to, just stop looking to the same direction.
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Im just saying this first so you could understand the main reason of your of wanting things. It's just an ego. All of us r like that. Its not bad, but u should know and be familiar with it.
Man, enjoy just to have a good friendship. Maintaining things in the life is more hard than so called "progress". You like it as it is right? U r living the moment, just more appreciation for your sake.
Just forget about it and have whatever you have.
And besides that enjoy the life. See the bigger pic. Dont be a suqa. :) jk
And maybe when you wont be thinking about it anymore, after an year, she'll be the one telling you stuff, but stop dreaming about it. Just have it whatever u have. Most probably its just u fantasizing and the worst thing is to be first of doing that.
Buddy just follow the flow and you'll know if u have to, just stop looking to the same direction.
i don't think i'm in love with her but i have noticed that something feels different almost in comparison to my other friendships. after the holiday break she came to my class and i immediately saw that she was kind and that it would be nice to be friends with her i geuss. but now we're already close and she keeps sending me super cute videos about how she loves me and wants to never lose me as a friend and stuff like that and i can't help but want to meet up with her and hang out and go ice skating or activities like that,to just generally spend time with her a lot,wich i don't really had in my other friendships. but when she sends those things it doesn't make my heart flutter or anything. i wouldn't say i have feeling for her but i have thought about us cuddling but not in a relationship way (i think??). i don't know if its just because i'm just an affectionate person or if its something else. i heard her talking to my other friend about something and i faintly heard "just make a move".. a few people know who her crush is but i don't and shes being all secretive over it wich i find weird because if she already sends those sweet things to me why wouldn't she tell me who her crush is?. but when i explained to that friend that i don't know how i felt my friend pretty much gasped and got all exited.. does she like me? i mean,if she would ask me to be her girlfriend i wouldn't mind but i also don't want to be in a relationship with someone if i'm not sure if i really love them. any advice for me? (sorry about the long comment :))
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I see my crush everyday but I can’t talk with her because our school doesn’t allow us to be with girls and to shy to talk
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Same bro. I've had a huge crush on my bestie too, but she has a crush on this boy. I handle it pretty well but it's hard. The best way to handle it is to know if she has a crush on someone else and handle it that way
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Hi - I like my best friend. He has been in love with me for years but I don’t know how to deal with it - please help us 🙃
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A friend should be easy to approach. Just 'What is your love life like'? should start a conversation going.
You will know whether they would entertain any relationship with you or another person.
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You will know whether they would entertain any relationship with you or another person.
I would just admit it to her as a girl a lot of the time I can tell when someone likes me anyways. Plus she might even find it attractive that you told her and were brave! Hope this helps
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HI talk to her, I think u have same feeling. If u feel u have same connection GOOOO with the flow! Open directly dnt waste ur time bro..I really sure for this, take out the scared u dnt do bad for her.
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hey man, take it from me, I liked my friend for 5 years, and i still like her to this day. we both liked eachother, and we still do. i asked her out a year ago, and she said "YES!!" and she said "Finnally, I have been waiting for you to ask me that for the last 3 years!" Ask Her Out!!! She'll Say Yes!
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Go for it. Even if she says no, if she's a good friend she'll still be friends with you.
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Well, you could always keep the relationship you have with her. I know personally that sometimes it’s best to stay friends with someone because you could ruin the relationship you have with them. It’s kinda like gambling, 50/50. But hey, don’t listen to advice from some random stranger on the internet, alright? (I’m talking about me)
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OK! I have the same problem... well had the same problem. You should first ask them questions like " If we gender swapped would you date me?" or any other question you can find, but don't make it TO obvious. You also have to see if they like you, but the thing to do is send them love letters but don't EVER write your name on it. They will think someone will like them and don't be afraid when they say, " I wonder who likes me" To get all red because than they may start to have feelings for you because they will be like "Oh my friend likes me." And because y'all are used to each other it would be perfect, BUT if it all goes downhill just act normal it's not the end of the world.
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I say go for it! Remember, you miss every shot you don't take! The worst thing she can say is no! Just remember though, no matter the outcome, never have any regrets!
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I had the same issue. So I asked them what advice I could give a different friend who had this dilemma.
She said that if the friendship was strong, it would survive, even if the feelings were not shared.
Based on that reply I asked her out, we had a wonderful time, separated after a few years, and remain great friends.
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She said that if the friendship was strong, it would survive, even if the feelings were not shared.
Based on that reply I asked her out, we had a wonderful time, separated after a few years, and remain great friends.
I turned down one of my friends and the way he asked me out was nice
He layed out all his feelings for me in one text so I understood how he felt. He then said that if I didn't feel the same we could go back to just being friends.
Maybe you could try something similar
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He layed out all his feelings for me in one text so I understood how he felt. He then said that if I didn't feel the same we could go back to just being friends.
Maybe you could try something similar
Ilike this one girl aint really know her all too much asked her to a dance she accepted but turned out she had plans the same day it was and decided to go to that but I insisted she did, shes country I am too I like that in her, sometimes she waves me over and sparks a conversation sometimes I just walk up to her and talk, sometimes she seems bored of me, I don't know why I'm on this I know she don't like me most defiantly I'm just desperate but if anybody wants to encourage me to open up to her more then go ahead
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Hi my bestie said no even after trying Soo hard, but can't get over my feeling, how what do I do, I don't want to let go
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I have a crush on my best friend but she might not feel the same way but now we are dating again yay
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It's okay, you got this! I know this was probably posted a while back but I just want you to know that you got this and be brave!
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I've got a crush on my girl best friend but im a girl and today she said I only date dudes which I hope isn't true I need help but I don't want to tell her cause she has been my best friend since 3rd grade just a btw I'm also a girl I think I'm bisexual but also pansexual I'm confused on my sexuality but yeah I need help....bad
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Give her hints go on private cafe dates and splash some rizz out and get her flowers and gifts
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I'd say observe their actions and morals and if it's all good, the green light is a go.
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Hi I don't know if this is the place where you can get questions answered but i have a problem my best friend has a huge crush on me and she even tried to make a move on me but I don't know how to feel about this she is perfect in every way possible and i like her a lot as friends but i just don't know how to figure out if I like more than that. feelings are really complicated when it comes to thinking about her
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Honestly, you might make her feel weird. If you have a very close friendship, build more , jokingly flirt and then maybe one night you and your group can hang out and possibly you walk her home , DO NOT GET TOUCHY OR MAKE A MOVE QUICKLY! Then you ask “ hey do you think if two rlly close friends date would be cool?” And ask her to tell it from a perspective as a spouse in the hypothetical relationship
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same but i am a girl and my best friend is lesbian and i have liked her for a long time and i just don't know how to tell her without ruining our friendship
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try asking her out and if she says she only wants to be friends you'll know you tried and if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore she was never your real friend.
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I think before I took the test I sort of did have a crush on my friend . . And I'm glad I do! She does everything a good friend would. 😘😘
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it said "Your crush thinks you're a great friend, but wants to be more!" Im a tiny bit skeptical but still a little bit glad!
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it said "Your crush thinks you're a great friend, but wants to be more!" Im a tiny bit skeptical but still a little bit glad!
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Listen my guy just
I had (FELT) the same way with someone I Wanted to be her vailtime but my friends ruined it now I have someone else that I like this time I know tips how to get her 1never tell fake friends your crushed I did that and got rejected cause my friends did not let me make the move2if you want a wilder mane or 1 man whatever you call it choose what's best I choose the wrong person and got rejected 3 be confident if your ever shy or blushing around your crush she will obviously know you have a crush and might ask and she might say no 4 if your trying to find out if she likes you pay attention to if she wants to play with you are some alone time are blushing at you not wanting to look at you wants to sit by you 5 take your best shot don't start to early are to late hit the perfecto And she has a 70 or 80 percent chance of saying yes I will give you more tips once I figure out more about my crush I thinks she likes me
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I had (FELT) the same way with someone I Wanted to be her vailtime but my friends ruined it now I have someone else that I like this time I know tips how to get her 1never tell fake friends your crushed I did that and got rejected cause my friends did not let me make the move2if you want a wilder mane or 1 man whatever you call it choose what's best I choose the wrong person and got rejected 3 be confident if your ever shy or blushing around your crush she will obviously know you have a crush and might ask and she might say no 4 if your trying to find out if she likes you pay attention to if she wants to play with you are some alone time are blushing at you not wanting to look at you wants to sit by you 5 take your best shot don't start to early are to late hit the perfecto And she has a 70 or 80 percent chance of saying yes I will give you more tips once I figure out more about my crush I thinks she likes me
I do have a crush on my best friend even though she is dateing someone she kissed me on my cheek.
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just believe in your self and if you break up with him/her ask if you guys can still be friends
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you need to tell them and if they don't feel the same move on and find happiness you and your friend need to find happiness no matter what I hope you find what or who you are looking for may god be with you amen
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I have a crush and she's cute. I don't really think she likes me tho. I've been flirty with her, But she still seems to not like me. What should I do?
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I like a friend that is a girl and I'm a girl, but Idk if I like them or not. Were close but I DONT KNOW?
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Same! I have a crush on my girl best friend and I am a girl, sometimes I get a little flirty but I am a terrible flirter! One time I swear, I think she kissed me on the back of my neck but it may have just been her hand
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I think I'm kinda late to this discussion...
Anyway, if you like a lot (like A LOT) tell her. It's better to be rejected than to wonder if things could've gone differently if you told her.
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Anyway, if you like a lot (like A LOT) tell her. It's better to be rejected than to wonder if things could've gone differently if you told her.
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Reader Tips from How to Tell Your Best Friend You Love Her
If you're also a woman and your best friend has never hinted that she's a lesbian, bisexual, or curious about experimenting with girls, try to bring the subject up in a kind of subtle way to see how she reacts. If she goes, "ew, girls!" or something like that, skip telling her how you feel. If she seems open to the idea though, it could be a sign she's into you.
I think it's really important to stay calm when you have this conversation. There are going to be a lot of very strong emotions pulsing through you, and if things don't go perfectly you may potentially say or do something you regret. Take deep breaths and keep your cool.
If you have any hesitations whatsoever or you think there's any real chance your best friend won't say "yes," do not do this. Seriously. It is very likely to completely destroy your relationship forever if she isn't also in love with you.
Reader Tips from How to Get Over a Friend Crush: What to Say and Do
If you've got a really good relationship with your friend and the two of you communicate well, consider just telling them how you're feeling. You don't even necessarily have to ask them out, you could just say, "You know, I had a crush on you and I'm trying to get over it but man, it's hard!" This could help alleviate some of the tension you're putting on yourself so that you can move on.
You might be surprised, but the odds are very high that your best friend knows you have a crush on them. It's actually pretty hard to hide something like that, especially if the two of you hang out for an extended period of time. If you want to get over it and you're really struggling, telling your best friend about what you're experiencing could be helpful.
If your best friend is a key member of your friend group, try to find another friend group to hang out with for a while. Even if it's just temporary, getting some space from the person you're trying to get over will help you get past the way you're feeling.
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