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Why does my boyfriend always leave the room to answer a phone call? He especially does that in the middle of sex. I just want him to focus on me!

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He probably doesn't realize his behavior is causing an issue. Talk to him and let him know that his blatant lack of attention hurts your feelings. If he understands that what he's doing is having a disruptive effect on your sex life, he'll begin acting more conscientiously.

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If you have been intmate with a guy the first time, is it best to wait for him to call you, if he seems interested in you?

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There are no rules. If you like this guy, call him! You don't have to wait for him to reach out to you. Start off the conversation casually and keep a friendly tone. Eventually, you can get around to discussing the previous night and how much you enjoyed it.

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If she seems uncomfortable after the event, (even if she allowed it!) what do you do?

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This is actually pretty normal. Some people experience a sort of emotional distance after sex, and may seem cold or withdrawn. Just give her some time--it will usually pass. If she still seems uncomfortable after a little while, ask her if there's anything she'd like to talk about or something you can do to make her feel better.

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How do you tell your woman if you didn't enjoy it without hurting her feelings?

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Sometimes it's best to just not say anything at all. If you're in a committed relationship and think it's worth talking about, do it gracefully to avoid upsetting her. Rather pointing out the negative, emphasize the things you did like and tell her what would make it even better in the future. Even if you found the sex unenjoyable, you should still show your partner respect and gratitude.

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