When someone has lost a loved one, it can be hard to know the right thing to say. How could words possibly make a difference in a time of such grief? But sending a sympathy card with a genuine, heartfelt message will help the grieving person feel cared for and loved, providing a little comfort in a time of great sorrow. Read below for compassionate and empathetic guidance on composing a thoughtful sympathy card note for a friend, family member, colleague, or other grieving person in your life.
How to Close a Sympathy Card
- “Sincerely”
- “With love,”
- “Wishing you peace,”
- “You’re in my/our thoughts,”
- “With heartfelt sympathy,”
- “Sending you our warmest regards and deepest condolences,”
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- Choose a designated sympathy card from the store, or use a blank card with an appropriate picture. Alternatively, you can write your note on nice stationery.Thanks
- Consider sending a gift like flowers along with your sympathy card.Thanks
References
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About This Article
When you're signing a sympathy card, address the card with "Dear," followed by the name of the person to whom you're writing. Then, let them know that you are sad to hear about the passing of their loved one. If you didn't know the person well, keep the card brief and use heartfelt phrasing, like "You're in my thoughts during this hard time" and "please accept my condolences." Remember to only offer help if you're willing to follow up with the offer. Finally, end your note by writing "love" if you're close to the person, or a more general sentiment, like "with deepest sympathy," if you aren't as close. Keep reading for tips on following proper etiquette for offering your condolences.
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