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You deserve a romantic partner that ticks every box and raises every green flag. And while red flags are one thing, deal breakers are just that—do not pass go, do not collect $200, bid farewell, and wish them the best. Life’s too short not to protect your own peace, which is why we’ve put together a list of the top romantic deal breakers to watch out for, and advice on how to deal with them if you’re only just now discovering them in your partner.
Things You Should Know
- Walk away from anyone who ignores your concerns, looks down on your ambitions, or doesn’t give you the attention you deserve.
- Don’t compromise on major lifestyle differences, like wanting kids, financial habits, or political or religious beliefs.
- Stay away from anyone with a history of abuse. If you think you’re being abused, seek help from a friend or a counselor.
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