How to Dress for the Opera

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Attending the opera is a fun experience and an excuse to get all dressed up. What you wear depends on the opera house's dress code and the show itself. For a more formal opera, opt for an elegant gown or tuxedo. If the opera house is more casual, go for a classy, professional vibe instead. Now let the show begin!

How to Dress for an Opera

  • Wear an extravagant outfit that’s more formal than causal if the show is on a weekend night.
  • Pick a formal but more creative costume that matches the theme of the show if you’re a big fan.
  • Opt for a well-tailored suit or black dress when in doubt.
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Planning Your Outfit

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  1. Dress codes are less and less common these days at opera houses. However, some still do require a certain level of formality, whether it's business casual or even black tie. Look on the opera house's website or browse social media to see what past guests have worn to that particular venue.
    • For example, the Met has an Instagram account called “Last Night at the Met” (@lastnightatthemet) that showcases styles worn by attendees.
    • You can also call the front desk to ask what their rules are.
    • Theater and opera is generally dressier in European cities than it is in American cities. [1]
    • If you aren't sure of the dress code, always err on the side of more formal.

    What to Never Wear to an Opera

    Flip-flops

    Sneakers

    Clothes with rips or tears

    Shorts

    Sweatpants or yoga pants

    Leggings

    T-shirts

    Baseball caps

    Strong fragrances

  2. The day and time of the show will affect how formal the opera is. Weekend and evening shows tend to be dressier whereas weekday or matinee shows are more casual. For example, you likely wouldn't wear a floor-length gown to an 11 a.m. showing on a Tuesday.
    • Depending on the theater, a weekday matinee show could be as informal as a business casual dress code. You might see women in pantsuits or blouses and pencil skirts, for example.
    • The location and show itself can also affect the dress code. For instance, a fancy opera house in Vienna will be more formal than an opera being put on at the local college.
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  3. While dressing up in costume is not typical, some opera houses will host special theme nights. For example, if you're attending “Pirates of Penzance,” you might wear a full pirate costume or sea wench dress. Call the box office ahead of time or check the opera house's website to determine if there's a theme.
    • Even if there's no theme, you can still get outfit inspiration from the show. For instance, wear a Japanese-inspired gown with floral embellishments or drape a kimono over your outfit to a showing of “The Mikado.”
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Choosing Formal Attire

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  1. Formal suits are always appropriate for the opera, no matter the dress code. Go the traditional route with a black, single-breasted jacket or choose something more contemporary like a midnight blue jacket with a shawl lapel. Regardless of the style, make sure both the jacket and pants fit properly.
    • If you want to stand out, opt for a velvet smoking jacket in a pretty pastel hue or jewel tone.
    • Women can wear pantsuits or tuxedos, too, for an edgier, modern look.
    • Consider renting a tuxedo as a cheaper option if you don't plan to wear it again.
  2. You can't go wrong with a classic LBD. For a more formal option, look for a sleek, figure-hugging maxi dress. Or channel your inner Audrey Hepburn with a boat-neck black sheath.
    • Add visual interest by picking a black dress that has different textures like lace or velvet or fun accents like a pearl-studded collar.
  3. The color, fit, and style are all up to you and your personal style. Go daring with a plunging neckline or cutouts, add a playful touch with embellishments like bead work or gold stitching. [2]
    • If you're a woman who prefers pants, a satin jumpsuit is a pretty pick.
    • Avoid too many sequins or rhinestones, neon colors, or cheaper fabrics like tulle or polyester.
    • Remember that opera tickets can cost up to $200 a ticket, so make the most of it and dress up! [3]
  4. If your venue doesn't call for black tie, a flirty cocktail dress might be more appropriate. Choose a slinky one-shoulder frock that hits at the knee or a jewel-toned skater dress that cinches your waist, for example.
    • Shorter dresses should be long enough that you can sit comfortably in them without tugging at them. After all, you'll be seated for hours.
  5. If there was ever a time to break out that chunky collar necklace or glitzy chandelier earrings, it's at the opera. Keep it classy by limiting yourself to one bold piece, though. [4]
    • For men, sport a top hat or snazzy bowtie. Just remember to take your hat off inside the opera house if you wear one.
    • Women's over the elbow long gloves are also a traditional opera accessory, and called "Opera gloves". Match them to the color of your dress or choose a white color. White gloves are suitable for almost any dresses. For example, pearly white satin gloves looks pretty with a forest green gown.
  6. Since you'll be sitting down for most of the night, you don't have to worry about wearing shoes that are practical. Instead, pick sky-high stilettos if you're a woman or patent leather Oxfords if you're a man. [5]
    • Polish leather shoes before wearing them so they shine and don't look scuffed .
    • For women, if you plan to wear high heels, try them on with your dress beforehand so you can hem the dress to the height of the shoes.
    • If you're wearing a plain black dress or simple black tux, choose shoes with playful extras like a loafer with funky leather detailing or a heel with pom poms or glitter.
  7. Opera houses can get cold, so come prepared with an extra layer you can put on if necessary. Choose an item that's as formal as the rest of your look. Some options include a lace shawl, a wool peacoat, or a long cape. [6]
    • A faux fur stole adds an extra chic touch to a dress.
    • Leave the puffer coats, worn cardigans, and denim jackets at home.
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Picking a Casual Outfit

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  1. Your goal is a business casual vibe. For women, tuck a ruffle-neck blouse into a pencil skirt or slip into a jersey shift dress. For men, opt for the classic combo of a button-down shirt with trousers or chinos.
    • Choose clothes made out of nicer fabrics like wool or cashmere. Check that the stitching is clean and there are no frays or pilling on sweaters in particular.
    • Women who want to wear pants should look for professional pieces, like pleated slacks or trendy ankle pants.
    • Avoid anything you would wear running around on the weekend, like denim, jeans, denim jackets, and sneakers. [7]
  2. Even in the summer, bring an extra layer to stay warm during the show. To match your business casual outfit, you can't go wrong with a navy or black blazer. For men, a tweed sports jacket also looks appropriate.
    • Get your jacket tailored to fit so it doesn't look sloppy.
    • For women, a blazer in a fun pattern like leopard print or one with lace detailing adds visual interest to a plain black dress.

    How to Tell If a Blazer Fits

    Shoulders: The seam should lie flat where your arm meets your shoulder.

    Sleeves: The sleeves should rest 1 ⁄ 4 inch (0.64 cm) above the top of your hand.

    Body: The jacket lapels should lie flat when the jacket is buttoned and there shouldn't be any wrinkles or strain. [8]

  3. Men can wear leather loafers or short dress boots. Women can wear ballet flats or classic pumps. Your shoes should match how formal or casual your clothes are. For example, if you're wearing a sheath dress, black peep-toe heels are a better pick than sparkly stilettos.
    • If you're wearing heels, stick to a pair that's 2 to 3 inches (5.1 to 7.6 cm) high. They're the right blend of chic and traditional.
    • For men, basic doesn't have to mean boring. Look for casual shoes that have fun accents like wingtips or detailed stitching.
  4. Avoid the bold baubles and oversized earrings if you're dressing more casually. Instead, opt for simple pieces like gold studs for women or a muted tied for men. [9]
    • If you're bringing a bag, choose something small like a leather wristlet or sleek clutch.
    • Other jewelry options for women include a pretty charm bracelet, a decorative brooch, or a dainty pendant necklace.
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Adding the Final Touches

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  1. Apply 1 to 2 pumps of a light body spray if you want to smell nice. You'll be sitting elbow-to-elbow in the opera house so be respectful of your fellow attendees and avoid strong fragrances. A light spritz of body spray, which isn't as heavy as perfume or cologne, will keep you smelling fresh without overpowering your seat neighbors. [10]
    • Spray the scent on your pulse points like your wrists, neck, or behind your knees. The heat in these areas will diffuse the fragrance better.
    • A good rule of thumb is that only people within an arm's length of you should be able to smell your scent.
  2. No matter how formal or casual your outfit is, your hair should be combed and styled. Men can slick back their hair with a little bit of gel or part it to the side. Women can sport a smooth blowout , an elegant updo like a French twist , or classic curls .
    • Women should avoid any styles that add height like a topknot or high ponytail. The taller your hair is, the harder it is for the person seated behind you to see the stage.
    • Braids add a romantic vibe to any outfit. Try French braids or a chunky side braid , for example.
  3. The trick to glamorous makeup is choosing one area to highlight and keeping the rest of your face neutral. For example, if you love your lips, accent them with a bold lipstick and just swipe some mascara on your eyelashes so your lips stand out.
    • If you want your eyes to shine, try a sultry smokey eye with heavy eyeliner, mascara, and shadow. Stick to a nude lip to avoid competing with your lids.
    • Don't be afraid to experiment with glitter, bright colors, and fake eyelashes for extra drama.
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    What do you wear to the opera?
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    Paul Julch is a Personal Wardrobe Stylist, Speaker, and the founder of Urbanite | Suburbanite, a wardrobe styling business in the San Francisco Bay Area. With over 25 years in the fashion industry, Paul works with clients to make getting dressed easier, less time consuming, and more enjoyable. Paul has years of experience in retail visual merchandising - styling windows, displays, and floor sets for Banana Republic, Gap, and Express. He also has experience styling fashion photo shoots and corporate videos. Paul holds a BS Degree in Management from State University of New York at Binghamton, an MA in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University. He also studied Interior Design at the University of California, Berkeley.
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    The opera is an occasion to dress up, so avoid anything that appears so casual that you might wear running around on the weekend. This means no denim or denim jackets, no jeans, and no sneakers.
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    There’s no set dress code for Broadway shows, although many people like to dress up for the occasion. Since the theaters are often air conditioned in the summer, it’s a good idea to bring a sweater or shawl even if it’s warm out.
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    Opera festival attendees are encouraged to dress formally, but the style is up to you. It’s generally a good idea to bring a warm layer in case the weather gets chilly. During the tour, there’s less of an expectation for formal dress—wear whatever feels comfortable!
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      1. ↑ Paul Julch, MA. Personal Wardrobe Stylist & Speaker. Expert Interview. 29 July 2020.
      2. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/style-beauty/fashion/advice/a33960/10-reasons-your-formal-dress-looks-cheap/
      3. ↑ Paul Julch, MA. Personal Wardrobe Stylist & Speaker. Expert Interview. 29 July 2020.
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      If you’re going to the opera on a weekday, aim for a business casual look. Wear a suit or button-down shirt with chinos. Alternatively, go for a ruffle-neck blouse and pencil skirt or a Jersey shift dress. If you’re going to the opera on a weekend, opt for a more formal outfit. Wear a well-fitting suit or tuxedo. Or, go for a dark evening gown or cocktail dress. You can accessorize your outfit with a statement piece, like a bowtie, top hat, chandelier earrings, or a chunky necklace. If it’s cold outside, bring a formal coat like a blazer, tweed jacket, or overcoat. For more tips, including how to do your makeup for a night at the opera, read on!

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