So apparently I'm self-obsessed

mine said "You love people (read: can’t be alone)" and it's......probably not wrong, loll. but it's a truth i wouold rather have not uncovered lol

I think I need to take a chill pill cuz this quiz just called me ruthless. Maybe I'm just a bit more of a workaholic than I like to admit haha

omg mine also said i'm self-obsessed! this is my worst nightmare for real, lol. i'd rather have "can't be alone" or "commitment issues"" anyday. but i do think you're right OP self-love isn't inherently a red flag, just do what you're doing but maybe pause sometimes to ask if you're loving other people as much as yourself. maybe also ask why your prone to self-love so much--do you feel like you don't get it enough from other people? i think that's why i'm like this honestly

dang. it gave me 'You love people (read: can’t be alone).' 😬 they ain't wrong 😅

Mine said i need to let people in because I'm like Self-reliant and I apparently don't let people in.

your ambtious (read: ruthless

It said i'm independent( read: commitment issues) untrue... kinda >_<

I am also self-obsessed! But I'm not rly like that

Mine says I'm ambitious.

Mine is Confident (Self obessed) I dont think I'm self obsessed bruh

This makes sense

mine said that I am way to independent

I got you love people. That is 1000000% me.

Im apparently obsessed with others... I'm not surprised I just want a partner to make me happy or someone to talk to all the time.. which is probably why I'm commenting on a WikiHow quiz... :0

Mine is ruthless

me too!

same here

Accurate! This is so true. My boyfriend and I aren’t really getting a lot right now. We’ve been together 3 months. I keep making so many mistakes. It’s true. All I think of are my own feelings.

Same

I got that I'm ambitious! I'm actually quite pleased with it honestly--Slytherin all the way!!

mine said I have commitment issues,and that might be true SOMETIMES for like stuff I want/have to do like gaming and school work so yay,commitment issues,great...

mine says i cant be alone..... how is that bad

I got you love everyone and that's true I do I'm a very kind person but I also like being by myself.

mine said I have commitment issues,and that might be true SOMETIMES for like stuff I want/have to do like gaming and school work so yay,commitment issues,great...

Mine says i was independent, which is completly true.

Ambitious, I suppose that describes Me well enough.

I got you love people (read: can't be alone) That is true on a good way I always give people 2nd chances because I just can't help that I love everyone. But the negative thing is my love for "everyone" can get annoying sometimes I want us locked to the hip which my friends have told me before. Like I remember I few yrs ago I could not stand being alone I always had to be with someone or talking to someone and sometimes meant invading their personal life/space. I would call my friends or people I don't even talk anymore at 12:00 am or 3:00 am or 7:00 am just because I didn't want to be alone. Even though people loved that I loved them. The love that I gave them just showed that I was desperate for some type of companionship or something. Because one time I was following my bff the entire day because I didn't want to be lonely she told me "Go get a boyfriend or something" I was hurt but it was true I was clinging on to people and bad. Soon my parents noticed that, so they isolated me from my phone, TV etc. I took that time to realize how lonely I was and at the end of the day I realized sometimes I need time for myself and so do others. So gave people their space and that was when my friendships returned back and I lived a healthier life. I didn't change because of my results because this happened like 2 or 3 years ago I changed because there were times where people just didn't like my presence and it because of my clingyness. This is my story

Mine said that I love my friends too much and that I have a fear of abandonment. Like, Excuse me for loving my friends and family.

So I got that I’m self obsessed. I get that I care about myself but when has loving yourself been a crime? I’m not thinking about myself day and night, but I also don’t want to embarrass myself. I also didn’t like how it told me to get on a therapy thing, my mental health is fine, thank you very much, so that was a little offending. If I truly liked the guy I would go out of my way for him, not too busy daydreaming about myself. I know I might be a little preppy and all, but it’s called personality. But thanks for the quiz anyway.

Mine said ruthless but I’m so happy I need to be ambitious to achieve what I want (I’m just not the type of person to maliciously hurt people, I could just care less about others actions)

Mine said independent (I don’t need a boy)

Mine is that "i love ppl/ i cant be alone" help

Apparently I love people and can't be alone ( which is true)

Um I got independent……. I’m dating someone and completely reliant on them. It also told me I should seek professional help😃

I also got "confident (read self-obsessed)". Btw I'm passing those quizzes just 4 fun. Don't really believe 'em, duh

I think being self obsessed is a good thing it means you know how to look after your self self care is the best care!

same!!!!! i do not think that its really a problem to be self-obsessed. is there anything wrong with loving the amazing, wonderful person that i am?!?

i got the same as you lol

lol I got that I love other people. haha is that a red flag? OH CRAP. is THAT why I'm single???

Nothing like me, (self obsessesed) I despise people who are that way. Ask anyone I know, they’ll tell you for sure.

Mine says that I love people lmao

Main said that my red flag is that I love people but actually I’m the most unsocial person in the world 😅😂

Mine said I can't be alone but I'm an ambivert so I can be alone

I got the same, but I'm just the other thing as self-obsessed. That doesn't match anything with me, and I've said the truth in every answer. And I really dont think being a self-obsessed person is a red flag, I do not know.

I'm not anything like self-obsessed and I've said the truth in every answer.

I agree with you!

I'm ruthless, whatever that means.