How to Get Your Cat to Sleep With You

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Sure, you love the idea of your cat cuddling up with you in your bed at night, but can you get your feline pal to agree? Some cats are easier to convince than others, so this article lists several tips that may help you persuade your cat to sleep in your bed. Go ahead and try out a few—with a little luck and your cat’s approval, you can have peaceful, sleepy nights together for years to come!

How to Get a Cat to Lay With You

  1. Keep your cat active during the day and play before bed to tire them out.
  2. Feed your cat right before bed to make them feel sleepy.
  3. Keep a cat perch near your bed to make laying with you more inviting.
  4. Try hiding a treat in bed to reward them for sleeping next to you.
  5. Don’t reinforce attention-seeking or disruptive nighttime behavior.
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Keep your cat active during the day.

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    Enrich your cat’s life with play sessions in the morning and when you get home, or take a short walk around the block on a cat leash. Aim for sessions that last around 5-15 minutes, and about 30-40 minutes total during the day. In addition to this all-important bonding time, leave out some toys that your cat enjoys playing with on its own. [1]
    • Cats usually really like playing with small, fast-moving toys that replicate their instinctual hunting behaviors. [2]
    • When a cat decides an activity session is over, it’s over! Wait until it seems interested and try again later.
    • An active cat is still going to nap a lot during the day—it’s normal for cats to sleep for 16 out of every 24 hours!
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Do a play session before the bedtime feeding.

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    This will help tire out your cat and, if you stick to a consistent schedule, teach it that this signals bedtime. Start with energetic play, but wind down with slower, calmer movements for the last few minutes. [3]
    • Have a hyper kitten? Redirect its attention to a treat when it's time to stop roughhousing.
    • Older cats still benefit from play, even if they need convincing. Use soft, slow-moving toys.
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Feed your cat right before bedtime.

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    Most cats need to take a snooze after a big meal, so encourage sleep by feeding your cat its biggest meal of the day right before you both go to bed. Create a routine so this feeding happens at basically the same time each night. This helps to signal to your cat that bedtime always follows evening mealtime. [4]
    • While you should feed your cat right before bedtime, don’t feed it first thing in the morning. Otherwise, your cat will start nudging you to wake up earlier and earlier in order to get its breakfast! Do several parts of your normal morning routine, then feed your cat—perhaps at the same time that you eat breakfast.
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Put a cat perch near your bed.

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    Cats enjoy cozy, high perches where they can observe the room. [5] Put a few treats on the perch, if needed, to encourage your cat to hang out there while you complete your final preparations for bedtime. This gets your cat comfortable with your nightly routine, one short step away from joining you in bed. [6]
    • Your cat may end up preferring to sleep on its perch instead of in bed with you. Consider this to be at least a partial victory and set up your feline friend’s cat bed on the perch!
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Make your bed inviting to your cat.

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    Use your knowledge of your cat’s likes and dislikes to make the bed a welcoming place. For instance, use catnip if your cat usually responds to it. Or, if catnip isn’t your pet’s thing but covered settings are, set up a “cat cave” at the foot of the bed. Your goal is to encourage your cat to choose to go to your bed and build positive associations with it. [7]
    • Your cat might like the feel of a soft, fluffy blanket, or prefer a less fluffy quilt instead.
    • Making minor adjustments to the room environment might help as well. See if making the room a little darker and cooler at night, or maybe a little lighter and warmer, does the trick. Don’t make big changes that affect your own sleeping comfort, though.
    • In case you haven’t figured it out by now, cats don’t like to be bossed around! You can’t force your cat to like your bed and want to sleep there. But you can make your bed more inviting so that your cat is more likely to choose to sleep there.
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Reward your cat for joining you in bed.

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    Your cat might be hesitant to fall asleep in the bed but more willing to explore it. In this case, try rewarding your cat with treats for joining you in bed and hanging out there. Hide treats, for instance, under a pillow and in your pajama pocket for your cat to find on its own. Pretend to stay asleep when it finds the treats so you don’t reward your cat for waking you up. Once your feline pal starts joining you in bed consistently, gradually taper off the number of treats you hide for it.
    • Cats respond really well to positive reinforcement like this. [8]
    • Consistency is key early on. Make sure your cat can get a treat every night. (Just don't give extras if it paws or meows, or you'll never get any sleep!)
    • Once it's in the habit, give your cat a treat 3 days out of 4. Gradually reduce the treats to once every other night, then once every 3 nights, and so on, until the reward is no longer needed.
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Try fresh sheets or “you-scented” sheets.

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    Some cats are clean freaks that are much more likely to sleep on freshly-washed bedding. Others love the smell of their owner and would much prefer that you lay the sweatshirt you wore yesterday on the bed. Still others might prefer that you move the blanket from their cat bed to your bed in the evening. [9]
    • Some cats like to choose a single sleep setting for 2 or 3 months and then decide to switch things up. In this case, you may find it helpful to switch out your comforter seasonally in order to change the sleep environment slightly.
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Ignore attention-seeking behavior.

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    Once you shut off the lights to indicate it’s time to sleep, close your eyes and—as much as possible—ignore whatever your cat is doing throughout the night. Even if your cat marches, nuzzles, swats, or meows, don’t talk to it, play with it, or react in any way. These responses teach your cat that waking you up—or preventing you from sleeping—is a successful way to get your attention. [10]
    • This is especially important in the morning, when your cat will probably try to wake you up to feed it. Hold fast, wake up at your planned time, and do other parts of your routine before feeding your cat. You may need to put a pillow over your ears through a few meow-filled mornings, but most cats will lose the habit if you stay firm.
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Correct, don’t punish, bad behavior.

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    If your cat starts biting or clawing, or is endlessly howling or batting at your face, ignoring it just won’t do. Reinforce your status as the “boss” by correcting your cat after such behavior. [11] But never jump from calm correction to angry punishment, such as screaming at or smacking your cat. Cats don’t learn anything beneficial from that type of behavior on your part. [12]
    • Correction might mean sending your cat to the other side of the bed by saying “no” and moving it away from you. Or, you might have to send your cat to a carrier, sleeping box, or cat bed placed in the corner of the room. Repeat your correction for as long as your cat repeats its bad behavior.
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Give a restless kitten more exercise and comfort.

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    Kittens are little bundles of energy that need to get worn out and feel extra cozy in order to sleep well. Luckily, most of the same techniques that work for adult cats work for kittens as well—you may just have to take things up another notch! In addition, keep the following in mind: [13]
    • If your kitten races around during the night, it needs more play during the day. Playing with you is great, and—if possible—playing with other kittens is even better.
    • If your new kitten meows and doesn't want to cuddle you, wrap a ticking clock and a slightly hot water bottle in a blanket and place it in your intended cuddling spot. The ticking resembles a heartbeat and the warmth replicates the feeling a kitten gets from cuddling up with its mother.
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Adapt as an older cat’s health declines.

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    Most older cats (age 10+) have some degree of mental or sensory decline that affects their sleeping patterns. If restless, noisy, or otherwise problematic night time behavior appears suddenly, especially in a cat you’ve lived with for a long time, contact your vet to rule out medical issues. Otherwise, try a few helpful tricks for helping out your older cat: [14]
    • If your older cat has increasing trouble getting into and out of your bed, set up some cat stairs—using a step stool, stacked boxes, etc.—to make things easier.
    • If your older cat becomes more restless at night, expand on your regular daytime exercise schedule to help tire it out. Opt for shorter but more frequent play sessions that better suit an older cat.
    • If your older cat meows plaintively or soils the floor, it might be getting lost or scared due to deteriorating eyesight. Install night lights between your bed and the litter box.
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    I always leave the door open for my cat, just in case he needs to go to the bathroom. Is that necessary?
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    Absolutely. Although adult cats have good bladder and bowel control, you never know when nature is going to call. If he didn't have access to a tray and soiled in the bedroom, this lays down a scent marker which could make him think its an acceptable place to toilet in the future.
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    Most cats are night-time hunters. They are most active at night and therefore are either playing together or getting into fights. Kittens especially have yet to reset their time clock (as adult cats can learn to be active during the day and sleep at night), so they are at the greatest risk of fighting during the hours of darkness.
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    This could be a sign she is anxious in your absence. Be sure to play with her regularly, so she is tired just before you go out. Schedule a meal for just before your departure, so she has a full tummy and is sleepy. Also, provide her with a comfortable place to sleep that is covered with a T-shirt that smells of you, and perhaps put a heat mat underneath to make it especially attractive.
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      • If your cat is very restless at night or cries and meows frequently, regardless of its sleeping location, it's likely that it is stressed or experiencing pain from a medical issue. Bring your feline friend to a veterinarian for a checkup and to discuss the situation. [15]
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      • If you've convinced your cat to join you but discover you're having trouble sleeping, it's probably best to shut it out of the bedroom. The longer you take to make the decision, the more persistent your cat will be about meowing or scratching at the door to get back in. Double-sided sticky tape, aluminum foil, or a Scat Mat in front of your door may discourage your cat.
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      • Establish a bedtime routine by playing, feeding, and rewarding your cat right before bed. This signals it's time to sleep and makes the bed inviting. Over time, your cat will learn to associate your routine with bedtime.
      • For energetic kittens, provide extra playtime and give them a cozy, confined sleep space like a cat cave. The added play will tire them out, and the cozy cave will make them feel secure.
      • Make your bed welcoming by using blankets or sheets your cat seems to like. You may need to experiment to find the textures and smells your cat finds most comforting.
      • Place your cat on the bed with you for the first few nights, gently stroking it to sleep. This teaches it that the bed is an acceptable and enjoyable place to sleep.
      • Never force or punish your cat for not wanting to sleep with you. This will damage trust. Let your cat make the choice through positive encouragement.
      • If your cat is older, set up cat stairs and night lights to make it easier for them to get in and out of bed and find the litter box at night.
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      2. ↑ Brian Bourquin, DVM. Veterinarian. Expert Interview. 31 January 2020.
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      If you want your cat to sleep with you, try to tire it out right before bed by playing with for about 10 minutes. Alternatively, feed your cat right before you head to bed since cats normally go to sleep after eating. Then, place an item of clothing on the bed that has your scent on it, like a recently worn sweatshirt, to give your cat a comforting spot to rest. If your cat seems reluctant to stay on the bed, consider setting up a perch nearby to give your cat the option of joining you when it wants to. For more advice from our Veterinary reviewer, including how to get your cat to sleep through the night, keep reading.

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