How to Make Bonding Hearts (Lovies) for NICU Families

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Babies have an elevated sense of smell that begins during pregnancy. The scent of their birth parent's amniotic fluid and breast milk is an important part of cementing the parent-child bond. For NICU families, this process is often interrupted as the infant grows and recovers in their isolation. NICU lovies are fabric (usually flannel) hearts designed to transfer scents between parents and their preemies. Each set of NICU lovies comes with two hearts, which can be swapped from parent to baby during each visit. One is placed with the baby and the other is given to the parent to keep against their skin throughout the day.

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Making the Lovies

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    If you want to make the pattern more durable, trace the paper pattern on to something thicker such as cardstock, cardboard, a manila folder to use as a template. You can also print directly on to cardstock if your printer can accommodate larger paper. You can find the pattern here:  http://niculovies.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Lovies-Pattern.pdf
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    You need to trace 4 hearts for every set. Then cut the fabric hearts out.
    • Take care not to select fabric that might be interpreted as being for one particular gender.
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    Put the right-sides in, and using a sewing machine, stitch all around the heart, leaving a two-inch opening. This will allow you to turn it back in the correct way. Trim the extra fabric.
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    Iron the heart flat.
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    The finished heart should be approximately 7.5 x 7 inches. If you have an embroidery machine, you can choose to embroider the message, "From my heart to yours" on each heart.
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Donating the Lovies

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    Avoid using detergent that is scented or isn't hypoallergenic.
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    Each set of Lovies needs a set of instructions to go with them. You can find them ready to print here .
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    Tie them together with ribbon, and place them inside a ziplock bag with the printed instructions.
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    Please note that every hospital has unique policies regarding handmade donations. Call the hospital ahead of your delivery to make sure you're all set.
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