How to Make a Guy's Heart Melt over Text

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Want to make your guy feel special? Whether he's your crush, your boyfriend, or your husband, this article is here to help. We've got a complete list of texts you can send him, with guidance on the best situations to use each option.

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"You make me smile."

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    If you just started spending time with a guy, you likely want to text him something cute and flirty (without giving away all of your feelings). Telling him that he brings a smile to your face will do just that.
    • "You make me so happy."
    • "You always know how to make me laugh."
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"I woke up thinking about you. 😊"

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    It's a sweet message to send to a guy you recently started seeing, and he'll love waking up to it. [1]
    • "Hey you! Hope you've had a great morning so far."
    • "You've been on my mind all morning. 😘"
    • "I saw this and it reminded me of you!" [2]
3

"Can't wait to see you tonight!"

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    You're likely both looking forward to date night, so why not let him know? It'll make him count down the minutes until he gets to see you, too. [3]
    • "So excited to meet up later."
    • "Looking forward to seeing you. 🥰"
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"You're so handsome."

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    Everyone likes to be flattered, and this guy is no exception. Hearing how cute you think he is will likely make him super happy. [4]
    • "You're such a babe."
    • "I can't believe I landed such a cute guy."
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"I can't get you off my mind."

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    If you're super into the guy you've been seeing, this is a sincere way to tell him. He'll love knowing that you're thinking of him. [5]
    • "Been thinking about you nonstop!"
    • "Still thinking about our date last night."
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"Miss you."

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    Whether he's on a trip or he lives far away, letting him know that you're longing for him is a sweet way to show that you care. He likely misses you as well and will be relieved to know that he's on your mind despite the distance. [6]
    • "Can't wait to see you again!"
    • "Counting down the days until we're reunited."
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"I wish I was in your arms right now."

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    He'll love knowing that you crave his affection, and he'll likely try to make plans to see you as soon as possible! [7]
    • "Thinking about your kisses. 😘"
    • "Can't wait for everything we're going to do together tonight. 😏"
    • You might consider sending over a cute selfie, too.
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"You're my dream guy."

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    If you've been seeing your guy for a while now, your compliments can be a little more bold and sincere. Telling him how dreamy he is will reveal your genuine feelings, and it'll bring a smile to his face.
    • "You're the perfect man for me. 😊"
    • "You're a dream come true, babe."
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"You're my everything."

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    If you've been together through life's ups and downs, let him know how much you cherish his presence. He'll likely be happy to know how much he means to you.
    • "You mean the world to me."
    • "You're all I think about."
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"I'm so grateful for our relationship."

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    Especially if you've been dating a long time, it's important to let your guy know how much you value your relationship. A random text like this will likely make his day. [8]
    • "I couldn't be more thankful that we met."
    • "You're one in a million. So happy to have you."
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"I still get butterflies when I think about you."

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    If you're married or have been dating for years, it's important to remind your guy know how much you adore him. He'll love hearing that you still have a huge crush on him.
    • "I have a huge crush on you, even after all of this time."
    • "I fall in love with you more every day."
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"I'll never forget the day I met you."

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    This message is perfect if you've been together for a long time. Knowing that you still think of the beginning of your relationship will make him smile. Throw in a few details about your first date (or your first kiss) to really show him how much you care.
    • "I still think about our first date all of the time. Can't believe it's been 5 years already.❤️"
    • "Giving you my number was the best decision I ever made."
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"I can't imagine my life without you."

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    Even if you've been together for years, your man will love a message like this. He'll appreciate knowing that he holds such a significant place in your life (and your heart).
    • "You make life so much better."
    • "You're the love of my life."
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"Just wanted to say I love you!"

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    Even if he knows you love him, share your feelings anyway. He'll love getting an encouraging message like this, and it'll likely warm his heart to know how much you love him (especially if you've been together for a long time).
    • "I hope you know how much I love you. ❤️"
    • "Love you 😚"

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    How do you text a shy guy?
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    Text him some images and songs that you like! You might say something like, "This song reminded me of what we were talking about the other day."
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    Stick with simple, low-pressure greetings! Things like "Hello! How's your day going?" or "Are you getting into anything interesting today?" are great options.
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      2. ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
      3. ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g3/flirty-text-message-ideas
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