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Ramadan is just around the corner, and you want to make the most of the month to come. This is a powerful time to nourish your body, your soul, and your purpose. You'll need to be disciplined in your fasting, your prayer, and your habits. Try to physically and spiritually prepare yourself for Ramadan. Set an intention for personal growth.
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Detoxify your body before Ramadan. Keep a healthy diet, get plenty of sleep, and exercise regularly. Start each day with a complex carbohydrate breakfast that breaks down slowly, allowing you to stay energized through the day. Have a light meal at the end of each day: focus on fruit, vegetables, live-culture yogurt, and salad.
- Drink plenty of water, and avoid dehydrating substances. Try to stay away from diuretics like coffee and tea.
- Rid yourself of distraction, and stifle the urge to eat when you're bored. Try to be mindful and methodical about what you eat.
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Shape up your soul. Prepare yourself spiritually by fasting on Mondays, Thursdays, and the 13th, 14th, and 15th of the lunar calendar in Shaa'baan. Wake up earlier than usual to pray – even half an hour before Fajr will do. Read the Qur'an after Fajr, even if you only do so for 10-15 minutes. [1] X Research source
- Stock up on interesting lectures related to spirituality, discipline, and Islam. Listen to these lectures during the day or on your way to work. The more time you spend thinking about your faith, the more likely your thoughts will be to return to this theme when you have an idle moment.
- Consider making Dhikr when you are waiting in line or have some free time. This can help you focus your thoughts on Allah regardless of your background.
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Free your mind. Minimize distractions, and try to foster mental clarity. Focus your thoughts on helping others and improving yourself. Spend your free time studying, creating, or quietly reflecting. Wean yourself off of television and other distracting media, and consider reading a spiritual book instead to connect with your faith.
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"Tie your camel". Organize your life, and prepare yourself to make the most out of a thoughtful and disciplined month. Do what you need to do to stay on top of everything during Ramadan. You may find it easier to keep to a rigorous schedule of prayer, meals, and religious ceremonies if you've cultivated a disciplined lifestyle beforehand.
- Put your affairs in order. Take care of anything serious that you need to do before Ramadan begins. You may be able to focus more intently on spiritual growth if you don't need to worry about practical difficulties.
- Shop for groceries in advance. It might be a chore to shop when you're hungry. Prepare large batches of food and freeze them; chop vegetables and store them in airtight containers.
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Set an intention for the month to come. Think about what you'd like to change in your life: perhaps you need to cut out poor habits, or improve your discipline, or align your actions with your ideals. Consider what you can do to become a happier and more effective human being. Ramadan is a prime opportunity to your reflect on your life and reset your routines – so plan ahead to make the best use of your time. [2] X Research source
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Keep the traditional Ramadan schedule. Each day, wake up before the start of Fajr (the dawn prayer) to eat the pre-dawn meal (Suhoor). If you prefer, you can stay up late and eat Suhoor before you go to sleep. Stay up to read a portion of the Qur'an before and after Fajr. [3] X Research source Make sure to keep up a disciplined prayer schedule, and try to structure your day-to-day thoughts around holy things. Abstain from eating, drinking, smoking, and sex from dawn until dusk until the end of Ramadan. Once the sun goes down, take iftar (the fast-breaking evening meal) with friends and family, and talk about what you have learned today.
- Look up daily prayer times for your area at: https://www.islamicfinder.org/world/ . The prayer times are dictated by the rising and the setting of the sun. If you live in a predominantly Muslim area, you may be reminded by prayer bells to take each prayer of the day.
- Make arrangements to give Zakaat al-Fitr on time. This can be done anytime before the 'Eid prayer.
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Get plenty of rest. Fasting can throw off your normal eating and sleeping schedule, and you may need to get more sleep than usual in order to stay strong. Many people stay up late at night, then nap in the afternoon to stave off the hunger. Try to take naps midway through the day – even a half-hour power nap will leave you feeling refreshed.
- Try not to sleep a lot because you'll miss the month of acceptance
- Instead spend your time reading Quran, making Iftar ,or even remembering Allah and his teachings.
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Be gracious and charitable . Generosity is a central theme to the ethos of Ramadan, and you can practice this community spirit in every single interaction with another person. You don't need to donate money: you can brighten someone's day with a smile or a few kind words. You can even give back to others simply by being patient and kind. Take this month as an opportunity to be the best sort of person that you can be.
- Give your money. Try tipping service workers as an act of good faith; consider giving money or food to a homeless person.
- Volunteer your time. Serve food to the homeless, or restore a damaged ecosystem, or pick up trash in your neighborhood. Be generous with your time, and you may find it rewarding.
- Be a positive force. Be patient and kind, as much as possible, and try to brighten the days of the people you meet. Try to keep an optimistic, upbeat attitude about everything that you do.
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Learn what to do if you cannot fast. Certain groups of people are exempted from fasting during Ramadan: travelers, and sick people whose illness can be made worse by fasting; menstruating women and women with postpartum bleeding; pregnant and nursing women; and people who are not physically capable of fasting, either due to old age or incurable diseases. If you fall into one of these categories, you can still practice physical and spiritual discipline. Find a practice that nourishes your soul.
- For people who cannot fast long-term (e.g. incurable disease or old age), you must provide Fidyah, which is payment that makes up for your inability to fast. [4] X Research source
- Try volunteering or doing something selfless for others. As long as your intentions are pure, you should be able to find a solid alternative.
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Stay hydrated . You aren't allowed to drink anything from dawn until dusk – so make sure that you drink plenty of water between iftar and suhoor. Try having at least two glasses of water at each meal. Avoid drinks that dehydrate you such as coffee and soda. Instead, opt for herbal teas or unsweetened juices.
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Build community. Throughout the month of Ramadan, make an effort to attend and organize community iftars and taraweeh. [5] X Research source Be inclusive, and try to invite people who often get overlooked. Focus on connecting deeply and finding common ground with others in the community; don't think of it as "networking". Share the Ramadan experience with your community in order to make all of your generosity and reflection more valuable.
- Greet Arab-speaking Muslims with a traditional Ramadan greeting. "Ramadan Kareem," "Ramadan Mubarak," or "Kul 'am wa enta bi-khair!" Respectively, these phrases mean, "Generous Ramadan," "Blessed Ramadan," and "May every year find you in good health!" [6] X Research source
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Don't overeat at iftar. It can be tempting to eat a lot of food at sundown when you haven't eaten all day – but it is best to break a fast slowly. Start with dates and a hydrating drink: water, juice, milk, a soup, or a smoothie. Go at it slowly, and eat sparingly of the spread. Save your main meal for later in the night. If you're cooking iftar, bake and broil instead of frying for a healthier meal.
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Spend some quality time with Allah. It's easy to get overwhelmed by life and forget that this month is essentially about renewing one's personal connection with God. The Qur'an says (translated): "When you are free from your affairs, then turn to your Lord." Wake up in the night and pray as much as you can. Consider staying in seclusion (i'tikaf) for a part of the month, even if you only take a weekend away. [7] X Research source
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Seek the Night of Power (Laylat al-Qadr) in the last ten days of the month. This is said to be the holiest day of the holiest month. In the Qur'an, it is written that the Night of Power is better than a thousand months, by virtue of the blessings that descend in it. Seek this night, and spend it religiously: perform voluntary prayers, read the Qur'an, and supplicate. This night can be a turning point of your Ramadan experience.
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Make positive changes in your life. Ramadan presents a great opportunity to fill your life with discipline and meaning. The best way to make the most out of Ramadan is to carry the lessons learned you've learn—e.g. moderation and discipline—into the year that follows. Maintain the healthy habits that you have built. Try not to slip into your old ways. [8] X Research source
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Ease back into a normal diet. You've been fasting for an entire month, and your body may not be used to heavy portions. Start moderately – this goes for fatty or fried foods, salt, and sugar. Your stomach may have shrunk with reduced consumption, and you don't want to bloat yourself. If you eat too much, take it as a lesson to slow down next time.
- Consider whether it's worth resuming a habit of heavy consumption. If you've been able to cultivate a healthier lifestyle during Ramadan, try to keep it that way.
- To avoid heartburn, line your stomach with a bland, alkaline foodstuff before starting into spicy, fried foods.
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Remember that change is a practice. You may have made positive changes in your life during Ramadan, but this does not mean that they're permanent. Nothing is permanent unless you continually, mindfully make it so. Find a way to hold yourself accountable: try keeping a journal of your personal and spiritual development, and consider finding a person to whom you can talk about your progress. [9] X Research source
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Learn how to forgive and forget. Let go of the negative feelings that hold you back. Don`t hold grudges against people who have wronged you in the past. Do this for your own sake. If you keep those bad feelings inside, they might hurt you in the future – not only psychologically, but physically.
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QuestionIs it okay if I wear shorts during Ramadan?Community AnswerIt is okay for boys to wear shorts. Make sure that they are below the knee, though, as the part of the body between the naval and the knees must be covered.
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QuestionUsually, if I am bored I will eat, but today I am fasting. What can I do if I get bored?SamihaRahmanCommunity AnswerYou should pray to Allah or read the Holy Quran to make the most out of this holy month. Watch or go to Islamic lectures and gain some knowledge. Help out with the preparation of the iftaar.
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QuestionIs alcohol haram?Community AnswerYes, it is haram, with the exception of using rubbing alcohol on a wound/injury, which is permitted.
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Tips
- Don't think about food! If you find yourself thinking about food, force your mind onto something else straight away.Thanks
- Invite people over for iftar on weekends.Thanks
- If you are a student, during lessons don't think too hard about what you are writing. If your friends are teasing you and eating food near you deliberately, move away from them. When you're at home sleep for as long as you can so as not to get too hungry but when you wake up, don't forget you can't eat!Thanks
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Warnings
- Ramadan comes around just once every year, and you never know where you'll be next year. Seize the day and make the most of it!Thanks
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References
- ↑ http://www.beliefnet.com/Faiths/Islam/2009/08/How-to-Make-the-Most-of-Ramadan-Before-Ramadan.aspx
- ↑ http://www.islamicbulletin.org/free_downloads/ramadan/ramadan_booklet.pdf
- ↑ http://quran.com/89
- ↑ https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Fidyah_and_Kaffara&oldid=712997212
- ↑ http://islam.about.com/cs/ramadan/a/taraweeh.htm
- ↑ http://islam.about.com/od/ramadan/qt/ramadan_greet.htm
- ↑ http://www.islamicity.com/ramadan/
- ↑ http://productivemuslim.com/ramadan-series-how-to-make-this-your-best-ramadan-ever/
- ↑ https://islam.blogoverflow.com/2013/07/how-to-make-the-most-out-of-ramadan/
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