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    I'm 10. I want to look pretty and my nose is big. What can I do?
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    A lot of us have parts of ourselves we wish looked a little different, but there's no "right" or "wrong" way to look. Whether your nose is large or small, you can still look and feel beautiful. Anyway, at the end of the day, the opinion that matters most is your own: learning to accept and love ourselves for who we are can make us feel more confident, which is always an attractive quality.
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    I have dark undereye and have tried everything in my power to treat it. What to do?
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    Getting plenty of rest and staying hydrated may help alleviate dark undereye circles. You might also have success by applying a cold compress or using eye cream. If these don't help, concealer may help disguise your undereye circles. If these solutions don't work, you might have to just lean into the look! Undereye circles are in vogue right now!
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    I wear a face mask always to go to school because I think I'm not beautiful. If I uncover my face I think people (friends) are gonna make fun of me. My family tells my I’m beautiful. What should I do?
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    It's a cliché, but if they're really your friends, they would never make fun of you. It'll probably be hard getting used to not hiding behind a mask, so it might be easier to do it in small doses: maybe try uncovering your face during a private hangout with just a few friends, and see how it goes. If you feel comfortable talking to one of your friends about your concerns, they would probably be happy to reassure you! In the meantime, it may boost your confidence to try some of the suggestions listed in this article.
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    What happens if I have hormonal acne and can’t get rid of it for a few years?
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    We've been there! You can still be pretty with acne. Most people get acne at some point in their lives, so as long as you maintain good hygiene and grooming habits and take good care of your physical and mental health, you're bound to attract people to you. Sometimes people wear makeup to conceal their acne, but the American Academy of Dermatologists advises you to be careful about the ingredients, always remove your makeup before bed, and pay attention to what you're using just in case it makes your acne worse.
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    What to do if I'm dark in color and have glasses and have to go to school without makeup and hair style? I want to be pretty.
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    You don't need makeup or a certain skin color or hair style to be pretty. It's hard not to be allowed to style yourself as you'd like, but you can still look great by keeping yourself neat and clean, getting good rest, eating well, and getting plenty of exercise. Smiling and making eye contact with people can also make you more attractive to others. And as a bonus, eating well and staying hydrated are likely to keep your skin looking fresh and smooth, and exercising can give your cheeks a rosy tint without the use of makeup.
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    How do I get ride of my acne if I’m not working out as much?
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    Your dermatologist can prescribe medication that may help your acne, but you may be able to reduce your acne by making some changes yourself. Stay hydrated, and be mindful of what you eat. Certain foods, including greasy or sugary snacks, dairy, alcohol, and lots of processed foods, can make you more likely to develop acne, while unprocessed fruits and veggies, grains, nuts, and seeds may help reduce acne. This doesn't mean you need to cut out all acne-causing foods, but cutting back may help. Stress is also a common contributor to acne: if you're struggling with anxiety, meditating may help, as can talking to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor. Exercising can also help alleviate stress, but if you're not able to work out as often or as intensively as you used to, see if you can incorporate a bit of less intensive movement into your day, such as a short walk or a dance party in your living room.
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    My boyfriend doesn't think I'm pretty anymore. What should I do?
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    Break up with him. If he doesn't appreciate you and your beauty, find someone who will.
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    How can I be prettier if I am not allowed to wear makeup?
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    Take good care of your skin to reduce breakouts, focus on doing your hair in pretty styles, groom your eyebrows and practice good hygiene to look your very best without makeup.
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    What if your man doesn't like the look you suggested but you do?
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    If it's what you like, then choose it. If you let someone else decide your look and style, you will always be seeking their approval and you'll never be happy. If this person cannot accept you for the person you are and continue to grow into, then he isn't going to be a healthy partner to be with. Choose you, not him.
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    I am extremely short and past my growth stage. All my older and younger sisters are taller than me. How can I feel better?
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    Just be confident and make the most of the features you have. Short is adorable and a lot of people love that. Some of the most beautiful, talented, and famous people in the world are short. Height really isn't that a big deal.
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    A girl keeps on bullying me over my looks. I've tried makeup but she just laughs! What can I do?
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    Just ignore her, do not pay attention to what she says. She is rude and clearly has her own insecurities about her appearance and feels the need to project these onto someone else. Tell her you're not interested in her bully words and stay well away from her.
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    I am really ugly and people keep on saying it. I just want it to stop.
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    Bullies and rude people are trying to make you feel awful. Learn to embrace your inner confidence instead of believing what they say. Be yourself, ignore them when you can, and find supportive friends to spend time with.
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    What if my kindness is taken for granted, but people say my looks are nice?
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    Kindness is often taken for granted, especially in females. Yet, people notice instantly when it is missing. Don't be fooled by people judging you as pretty or nice to look at -- that is a shallow form of compliment and looks do not last. Spend time on improving your talents and strengths and concentrate on being kind without expecting anything in return. The point is to be the best person you can be, not to conform to the expectations of a role that others lay upon you.
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    What if I'm fat/chubby, does it make me ugly? Because I'm trying to lose it but I just can't.
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    Your weight has nothing to do with your beauty. The best thing you can do, no matter your size or clothes or whatever, is to be confident about own your body. If you walk confidently and hold yourself like royalty, more people will see the good about you. However, that doesn't mean you should be rude or think yourself better than everyone else. It means you show respect for yourself, the people around you, and show that you know you are worthy.
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    My older sisters are prettier than me. What can I do to be like them?
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    The fact that your sisters are older than you suggests that they're also able to wear makeup and different clothing from you, which may make it seem as if they're prettier. Give yourself the chance to grow more and to become the person you're still meant to be. Concentrate on good grooming and your talents; in time you'll be pretty in your own way too.
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    How can I become pretty like the Instagram famous girls ?
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    The Instagram famous girls are okay for the camera but not for daily life. Remember, they cake themselves in makeup and that's not a way to live an active life. Look beyond photos to the real people around you, for the realistic standard of pretty.
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    How do I get rid of acne?
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    Wash your face in the morning and in the evening. You can also treat acne using special creams. Check out How to Get Rid of Acne for more information and advice.
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    How am I supposed to be pretty if I don't even believe myself?
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    Everyone is individually beautiful, even if they don't think it. You need to confidence and believe in yourself. Look in a mirror and say to yourself "I am beautiful."
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    How do I deal with my feelings of hatred toward myself and my ugliness?
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    First of all, you're not ugly. Second of all, say positive affirmations about yourself. Love yourself for the unique individual you are, and remember someone out there is crazy about you.
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    I am not really old enough for makeup and waxing and stuff but still think I look ugly, what do I do?
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    Ask your parent(s) if you can work out at the gym every Monday, Wednesday, or Friday. (Whenever you have time.) For the whole makeup thing, if you have acne, you can ask your doctor next time for an acne treatment. If you are allowed to pluck your eyebrows, have your parent(s), most likely your mom, do them for you. If you want to make your eyebrows and eyelashes look fuller, try using the eyebrow brushes and eyelash combs. For any facial hair, talk to your parent(s) about options.
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    What to do if you have small eyes?
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    Use eyeliner or a bold color of eyeshadow. See further: How to Accentuate Small Eyes .
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    What if I have moles on my face?
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    Why are moles "unfortunate"? They're part of you and they are beauty spots. Chill on the self hating and learn to love them. If you really need to, you could use concealer makeup that matches your skin tone to cover up moles but it's better if you wear them proudly, so that other people embrace them too.
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    I did my eyebrows which changed my whole face. Now I look ugly, Is there anything I could do?
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    You might just feel ugly because you aren't used to the new look but maybe it is right for you. If you want to change them, use Vaseline (petroleum jelly) to speed up the growth of the hair. Once the hair has grown back, shape them in whatever way you wish. When using Vaseline, go for a neutral one (aloe vera) because a scented one might affect your eyes.
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    But what if I'm genuinely ugly and whenever I wear makeup, I still look ugly?
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    Beauty is an individual factor. Things you find ugly about yourself, someone else might think is the most beautiful thing about you. But always remember that loving yourself is the most important thing - just because society told you that your looks aren't "beautiful" does not mean you aren't. Love yourself, and you'll be beautiful in every sense of the word!
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    I still feel and look ugly. What can I do?
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    Look inside yourself, because true beauty comes from within you. Gain some confidence and walk tall like a princess. You are beautiful and always remember to smile.
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    What if you have a problem with your weight and you are bullied about your body?
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    Weight is sometimes a difficult subject because you may be able to change it or you may not, as it may just be the way you are. Instead of accepting the criticism and the negative comments, use them as a strength. You will have curves that others won't have and also think of the advice you can give to others going through the same situation. If you continued to be bullied, seek help from your parents, teachers or other trusted authority figures.
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    What if my nose is fat?
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    You can contour your nose with makeup if you are uncomfortable with the size. You can also use dramatic makeup on your lips or eyes to distract. Don't overload on makeup, however; be happy with who you are.
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    My teeth are white but they just look strange. I can't smile knowing that my teeth are not all crooked buck tooth looking. What should I do?
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    See if it is possible to get braces. After you get them removed, your teeth will be straightened.
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    What are some tips for trying to be nice?
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    Listen to people and their opinion. Be friendly. Respect their property. See further Be Nice .
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    What if you have an ugly smile?
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    Why do you think that your smile is ugly? Did someone say something mean once? Smiles aren't ugly, they're a window to the soul, a beacon of kindness and happiness. Smile anyway, as it brightens your outlook and helps you to overcome normalized notions of what is pretty, which are only someone else's opinion anyway. You're beautiful as you are.
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