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How can I be more mature in school?

César de León, M.Ed.
Educational Leadership Consultant
César de León is an Educational Leadership Consultant and currently serves as an Assistant Principal for the Austin Independent School District in Austin, TX. César specializes in education program development, curriculum improvement, student mentorship, social justice, equity leadership, and family and community engagement. He is passionate about eradicating inequities in schools for all children, especially those who have been historically underserved and marginalized. César holds a Bachelor’s degree in Education and Biology from Texas State University and a Master’s degree in Educational Leadership from The University of Texas at Austin.

César de León, M.Ed.

Educational Leadership Consultant

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You can display maturity by being prepared for class. That will automatically show maturity in the eyes of your teachers and your peers.

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I do all these things and my parents still treat me like I'm 5. How do I make them see I'm mature?

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It may take time for your parents to realize that you're mature, so be patient. In the meantime, continue communicating openly, following their rules, and being kind. You may want to have a conversation with your parents asking for more independence and responsibility. Make sure you have a few go-to examples of mature behavior before your start the conversation.

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If I dress like I'm older, will my parents think I'm more mature?

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You may want to buy some more mature clothing items, but make sure your clothes are age appropriate. Picking inappropriate clothing, like too-short skirts or low cut tops, may actually make your parents think you're less mature.

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How can you control your anger during an argument with your parents?

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Realize that your parents have your best interests in mind. Try to listen to what they're saying without taking it personally. If you feel yourself getting worked up, take a few deep breaths. If you're so angry that you feel like you're going to lose control, tell your parents you need time to cool off, and that you'd like to continue the conversation later.

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