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QuestionIs it weird to invite like 10ish girls and only a few guys?Community AnswerIf they know each other and are comfortable with each other, then it should be fine. There's no need to have an even number of both genders.
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QuestionWhat happens if you like someone but you don't talk that much?Community AnswerIf you have enough space to invite them to your party, do it! They will probably really appreciate the invitation, and your party can give you a reason to talk to them more. It could be the start of a friendship.
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QuestionI can only invite 1 of my friends to a really cool place for my birthday. I'm debating between 4 people. How should I decide who?Community AnswerChoose the friend who you think you would have the most fun with. Does one of your friend make you laugh more than any other? Maybe one of your friends loves the really cool place you're going. Choose the person who would make it the best birthday possible!
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QuestionWhat if you are acquainted with someone but you don't know them that well, but would like to invite them to your party to get to know them better?Community AnswerThat sounds like a great idea! An invitation to your party is a great way to start a friendship.
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QuestionMy friends are very dramatic and make me cry often. But I'm to afraid to stand up to them -- what can I do?Community AnswerLearn to stand up to them if they make you cry. If they make you cry often, you shouldn't consider them your friends, as friends don't hurt friends. Look for a friend or two who respects you and keeps out of the drama.
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Questionl have a friend l want to invite but at the same time l do not because she causes trouble. What should l do?Community AnswerDiscuss the matter with her before you finalise the party, and lay out some rules. If she tends to clash with a certain person the most, then try not to invite that person if possible. If she's just one of those gossipy, catty girls that cause trouble all the time and don't stop, tell her that you're not going to invite her to your party because of the way she acts. There's no point in inviting someone if they're going to ruin your party, and if she won't be nice for you, she's not that good of a friend.
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QuestionHow do I decide who to invite to a party if I want them all?Community AnswerSometimes you simply can't invite everyone you want. Decide, from your list, the people who would have the most fun at the party and who you would have the most fun with. It might not be fun to eliminate potential guests, but you'll end up with the best possible group.
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QuestionWhat if you are not allowed to invite everyone you want?Community AnswerThis is probably more common than you realize. Parents aren't endless bundles of money or patience. While you could ask your parents for a few extra, it might be best to just focus on inviting the people you really care about and enjoy being with. That will make the party more fun anyway.
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QuestionWhat if I want to invite one of my cousins but not the other two?Community AnswerIf you're inviting only one of your three cousins, be sure to keep it a secret from the other two. If the cousins who are not invited find out, it will cause a rift between you and your cousins, and possibly even between other family members. Consider inviting all of them; it could even help in building healthy relationships with the whole family.
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QuestionWhat if you want to invite a friend but they won't know anyone else there?Community AnswerIt's a good thing mixing with new people! if she is sociable and confident she will mix with people naturally, but if she is a bit shy help her to socialize with your other friends. Introduce her around and she'll hopefully then come out of her shell.
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QuestionShould I invite my boy crush?Community AnswerIf he gets along with the others you are inviting, then yes. The only thing I would say is, don't only invite one boy. Invite a couple so he feels more comfortable.
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QuestionWhat is a good number of people to invite?Community AnswerThis depends on your age, the space available and on how many people you feel you'll be able to connect with during the party without feeling overwhelmed. Some people suggest invite as many children as the child's age up to the age of 10. After that, find a comfort level that matches your personality and preferences. Remember that many people make it noisy, crowded and challenging to control. If you have to choose people, go for best friends and most liked people first.
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QuestionI've already got two people coming but i need too know what a good number of people is to invite to a sleepoverCommunity AnswerWhen it comes to sleepovers, it's usually best to keep them small! Two guests is a great number of friends to invite, but you can invite three or four if there is space for everyone. The bigger the guest list, the more sleeping space you'll need! If you invite more people than you have beds, make sure you tell everyone to bring sleeping bags.
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QuestionWhat if I have a good friend that isn't part of the friend group I'm inviting?Community AnswerYou should try to invite them anyway. It's nice to have your friends know each other, and this might be your opportunity. Who knows? They could end up fitting in well with your larger group.
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QuestionWhat if you're invited to two parties on the same day?Community AnswerIf you're invited to two parties on the same day, choose the one that you want to attend or feel most obligated to attend. Make sure you RSVP to both parties, so one knows to expect you and one knows that you cannot make it.
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QuestionWhat if I want to invite someone that is from a totally different group than the others?Community AnswerMake them feel included, introduce everyone, make sure to talk to everyone, and include everyone in all group activities. It will be fine.
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QuestionIs it ok to invite people of different ages to my party?Community AnswerYes, you choose who you want at your party. Just try to make sure that everyone is getting along.
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QuestionWhat do I do if I don't want to invite my friend, but she gets upset easily?Community AnswerTell her that you're only allowed to have a certain number of people over, and make plans to spend time with her on another day.
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QuestionI have these two friends that I would like to invite. However, they don't speak English too well. Should I invite them? I worry they might just sit there and not talk to anyone.Community AnswerYou should. They would probably try to socialize as long as they know somebody else at your party.
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QuestionShould I invite my "half friends"?Community AnswerIf you have a lot of them, it's probably best not to, as you don't want to have too many people at your party and risk things getting out of control. I'd suggest you just invite your closest friends.
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QuestionI have these friends who I don't trust, but I'm worried they will get mad if I do not invite them. What should I do?Community AnswerIf you don't trust them, why are you friends with them? Don't invite people to your party out of obligation or because you're worried about how they'll react if they're not invited. If they get mad, just tell them why they weren't invited - you don't trust them.
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QuestionI can't really decide what to do for my party because I'm afraid my friends might not want to do what I want to do. What should I do?Community AnswerDo what you want to do. It's your party and just as long as you don't ask them to do anything that would make them uncomfortable, I'm sure they'll have a great time.
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QuestionI'm having my party soon and have a conflict pair. There is one I would rather invite and one my mum would rather invite. What should i do?Community AnswerExplain why you would rather invite one of your guests to your mother. Don't fight with her, but just tell her why you would choose that particular guest. She can explain why she wants the other guest. If she has the final say on the guest list and is paying for the party, it is probably best to skip the fight and let her choose. You can spend time with the other friend at a different time.
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QuestionI want to invite my 2 friends to my party but I can only invite 5 and I already have 4 I'm inviting, what should I do?MacsquaredCommunity AnswerDid you already ask those four? If not, choose someone who you want the least and don't invite them. If you already have invited them, see if you can squeeze in one more, if not pick your favorite.
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QuestionI have to deecide between two close friends, how do I decide?KindnessGirl23Community AnswerAsk your parents to squeeze in one more friend. If that is not possible, choose the friend that you have been friends with for the longest.
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QuestionWhat if one of my friends is greatly disliked among the vast majority of the people I invited?Community AnswerIf you like the person, invite them anyway, unless you think they will do something to ruin the party. Your friends should be willing and able to put aside their differences for one night.
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QuestionHow do I invite certain guests without others finding out?Ravenclaw4lifeCommunity AnswerSend invites online, or call/text them. If you can't, try to talk to each one individually. Be sure to mention politely that others in the same group may feel left out if they hear you invited these people, and ask them to remain quiet about the party. If someone you didn't invite asks about the party, be polite and direct, and stay as close to the truth as possible. Explain why you couldn't invite them (not enough room, tension between other guests). At the end of the day, it is your choice who to invite.
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QuestionI'm eleven. How many people do I invite to my party?Community AnswerAround 5-10, subject to your parents' approval.
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QuestionWhat happens if my group of friends doesn't like one girl, but she'll be upset if we don't invite her?Community AnswerIf you have the courage, go up to her and talk to her about the matter. She may not take it well, but it's your party, and you shouldn't feel obligated to invite someone you don't want to. Also, don't let your friends do the deciding for you. If you want to invite her, then go ahead. If your friends are mean to her despite the fact that you chose to invite her, then you should correct them and tell them to stop bullying your friend.
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QuestionHow can I organize a birthday party at home with only 6 people attending?Community AnswerHave an activity planned, like a movie you know everyone will enjoy. Ask your friends what beverages and foods they like beforehand. Have a back up plan like a board game. Leave the cake for last, near the last half hour of the party. Always have snacks available.
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