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  • Question
    How can a woman impress a man?
    Joshua Pompey
    Dating Coach
    Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.
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    Look your best, as men are very visual. Take your time to do your hair, wear clothes that are fitting for the occasion, put on makeup if that's what suits you. Show your best self and come in with a fun, easy-going vibe. Men like women that are down to earth and easy-going, and show a lot of open-mindedness and passion for life. Show that you're someone that's fun and easy to hang out with and cool to talk to.
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    How do you know if a boy likes you?
    Joshua Pompey
    Dating Coach
    Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.
    Dating Coach
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    Pay attention to the signs showing his interest. He may indicate it with some playful flirting and body language, whether it's eye contact, or playful and flirty way of speaking, or light touches here and there.
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    What are some fashion tips that will impress a guy?
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    Try to keep it simple, you don't want to overdress. Otherwise he might think you spend too much time on your appearance.
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    What should I do if one guy is always smiling at me?
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    Smile back at him if you like him and see what happens from there!
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    What should I do if a boy keeps avoiding me when he sees me, but later he texts me?
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    It sounds like he has a crush on you, but he's too shy to talk to you in person. He might also just feel weird talking to a girl with his friends around. The only way to know for sure is to ask him!
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    If a boy loves me but is too shy to talk to me, what should I do?
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    Take the initiative to speak and interact with him as much as possible. He will be able to get over his shyness only if you can show him (maybe after a long period of time) that you are a non-threatening, kind person of whom he does not have to be afraid.
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    How can I impress a guy so much that he'll profess his love in only a few days?
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    Gradually start to grow your relationship, start talking more, then high fiving or hugging, take a picture and have him put his arm around you, and just BE YOURSELF. You can't rush love.
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    How can I impress a boy who flirts with me but doesn't truly accept me?
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    You shouldn't even try — if a boy doesn't accept you, then you don't need him. You should never feel pressured to impress a boy; you are absolutely fine the way you are.
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    What if he calls every girl his sister but not me?
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    That might mean he's interested in you or that he's not that close to you -- it could go both ways, so it depends on the context. However, it does seem to indicate that he feels a romantic inclination rather than a brotherly one toward you...
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    How can I impress a quiet guy?
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    Make him feel good about himself, and allow him to open up a bit by asking him questions about his interests.
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    What should I do if he likes me?
    Community Answer
    Continue to be yourself, and see what happens.
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    What if I think a guy likes me because of his body language, the way he talks to me, and my instinct tells me he does, but he has not told me he does. What should I do?
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    Give it some time. Some people are just not ready to tell another person they like them. Also he may just be shy to tell you or afraid you don't like him back. Maybe you should try getting it out of him.
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    How should I respond to a guy who asks me out?
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    A simple yes and a smile if you are interested, or a kindly phrased let down will if you are not.
  • Question
    If I talk to a guy about studies. will he be impressed?
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    Only if he likes the studies too. You could casually bring it up and see what his opinions are.
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    What happens if I don't see him any more, but I can still text him? Is there a way to continue to impress him?
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    Yes, there is. Ask to meet up via texting. You will see him again and it might be the start of the first date. You can impress him once you meet again. You have to be friends though.
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    What if I have only one interest in common with a boy?
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    Talk to the boy about that one interest as you continue to see if he likes any other topics you like. Try to talk about the topics that you love and don't love. Or you could research more about what he likes too.
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    What do I do if the guy I like keeps staring at me in class, but then he looks away sometimes?
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    That most likely means that he likes you. Play it cool, and maybe try to make eye contact with him. If you are comfortable, you could jokingly ask him why he was staring at you, or point it out. If you don't know him well, just try to strike up a conversation!
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    How would you impress a new school as a sporty fun loving girl?
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    Try joining competitions. Instead of joining bad groups like mean girls, try joining to the athletic or nerd groups.
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    How do I impress a guy if he hates me?
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    Find out the reason he hates you and try to make amends. Saying you are sorry and improving your behavior is very impressive!
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    How do I impress a guy who is my ex? I just want to know if he still like me.
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    If your ex still likes you, he wouldn't be able to take his eyes off you and wouldn't have had another date since you broke up. He might get jealous when you are with other guys and not him, which might make him realize his mistake of letting you go and might make him confess his love for you.
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    My boyfriend never calls me. What do I do?
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    Talk to him. Ask him if something is wrong, or why he never calls you. Ask if there's a different way he'd prefer to talk to you - some people don't like talking on the phone. If he's not interested in talking to you at all, then the relationship makes no sense and you should let him go.
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    What if I like a guy who likes my friend?
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    Unfortunately there is nothing you can really do, especially if they are flirting and planning on dating. But if he just has a crush, and your friend doesn't know he likes her, then you could try spending time alone with him and building a connection to see if maybe he has feelings for you too
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    What do I do if the guy I like has a girlfriend, but before they hooked up people were saying he liked me?
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    It would be too complicated. If he really did/does like you he would leave his girlfriend for you, or he would have asked you out before they hooked up. Just be friends with him for now, maybe in the future things will be different.
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    If a guy is always trying to bug or annoy me, takes pens from me, and tries to make me laugh, what does this mean?
    Community Answer
    He probably likes you. Boys tend to tease when they want to hide their feelings. If you like him, try teasing him back, paying him a compliment, or just letting him know how you feel.
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    How can I get my ex-boyfriend back without being to pushy?
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    First, figure out the reason you broke up. Then, amend the issues (if needed). Send him a text asking casually if he wants to hang out or just start a conversation (non-dating related). Remember why he liked you in the first place, that could help you decide what to talk about. Don't say you miss him right away, it makes you seem clingy. Simply become friends with him again and build off that!
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    How can I impress a guy who just want to focus on his career?
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    Talk to him about your goals. Show him that you care about your future as well, impress him with your ambition. You might also try to get him out to have some fun if he's TOO focused on his career and in need of some down time.
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    I'm fat and nerdy, and he's popular. How can I make a good impression?
    Community Answer
    Instead of focusing on what you perceive to be your negatives, focus on your positives. Confidence is the most impressive thing of all to most - just be you. If he doesn't like you, there will be plenty of others who will.
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    How can I chat with a guy I met online?
    Community Answer
    Just start talking to him. Ask about his interests & hobbies. Act interested in what he's saying, even if you aren't.
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    How do I ask someone out?
    Community Answer
    I did it over a note, but you just want to go up and be friendly then pop the big question. If he/she says no then try to act like everything is okay and then go and have fun with him/her.
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    How do I get out of the friend zone?
    Community Answer
    Try getting closer to him with body language, but do it slowly, and don't rush.
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