Q&A for How to Keep a Girl Forever

It depends on how big the promise is. If it is a big promise, you should probably mark it on a calendar or set it as a reminder on your phone. If it is a small thing like promising to pick something up, then just write it on a sticky note or on your hand. If you forget the promise, don't make up excuses like, "I was too busy." Just tell her that you forgot and you are sorry.

You can simply tell her how you feel, but you can also make sure she knows how appreciated, respected, and loved she is. You can also take her places and do romantic things for her; many girls love romantic or thoughtful surprises.

Be fun. Be around, in a relaxed, easy way. Show her how special she is, what others do not see. Do not push.

Do little things for her every day that show her you care, but don't be afraid to tell her directly too; she'll love it.

Try to pay attention to her. Be there for her. The best thing you can be is to be her shoulder when she's sad.

Ask her, and if she's given you no reason to doubt her word, trust her. That's what a healthy relationship is all about. Of course, if you want to go another route, you can check her phone for texts, emails, etc., but I recommend you just trust her.

You can't -- not without coming across as controlling and suspicious.Tell her your concerns, if you must, but let her know you trust her as well.

Communication is key. If she loves you, she'll make it known. If you have to guess or aren't sure, it's not true love.

Try gently bringing up the conversation to see if she's willing to discuss it. If not, back off. If she's open to discussion, have an open conversation about it with her. Don't try to pressure her, and accept her decision.

I don't think you are in a healthy relationship. You shouldn't want to control every aspect of her life. You should look for professional help.

Try some group dates; you might make a friend or two that you can hang out with. Just make sure that you aren't monopolizing her time, and don't begrudge her time with just her friends.

It sounds like she's just stringing you along until she decides what she wants or finds somebody better. Let her go. You deserve to be with someone that definitely wants to be with you.

Yes, sex is a very big step in a relationship. It makes you feel closer with your partner and it gives you the opportunity to know her better.

While there is no magic formula to make her forgive you, start by giving her a heartfelt apology. Tell her that whatever you did won't be done again, and take her out to dinner.

"Take a break" means she wants some space to think. But taking a break doesn't mean completely ending something. Respond very calmly, still showing that you care. Give her some space, but I would text her after a couple of days of not talking to ask her how she's doing. Girls like men who will listen. So ask for her thoughts on your relationship, but make sure that if you get back in a relationship, you never make the same mistake. If you do, she see's you as an empty promise and you have no chance to get back with her.

It's really hard to tell someone's feelings over text. Ring her on a regular basis. Ask her how her day was. Text her first. Small gestures go a long way! Tell her that you miss her, you wish you were with her right now, things that will make her feel special or make her blush.

It shouldn't as sex isn't necessarily love. If your girl only wants sex she is not right for you. In other words sex is not always the answer.

You can't make anyone do anything, but you can tell her how you feel because you never know what may happen if she knows.

Wikihow's article on how to practice abstinence while dating has some helpful tips. The key is for both of you to make that commitment and be accountable to each other and other people not to put yourselves in compromising situations where you would be tempted to have sex.

If the rumors are true and she knows about them, be honest with her. If the rumors are false, make sure to tell her so that there are no misunderstandings. Honesty is almost always the best policy.

You have to show her you care and love her, but give her some privacy, too -- girls don't like clingy guys, but it's sweet to receive messages. Keep in mind, however, that three days is very little time to know for sure that you want to be with someone forever. Give it time.

She might have really missed you; the time apart may have made her realize the things that she appreciates about you and what she stands to lose.

Do things that would make her feel special, appreciated, and loved. Does she like to read? Plan a surprise visit to a library or to meet her favorite author. Does she like sports? Surprise her with tickets or a jersey to her favorite team! Do little things like open the door for her or bring her chocolates during her period. Every girl is different, and to make one specific one feel special, you need to know what makes her feel that way. It all comes down to knowing her and her interests.

Take a break from each other for a few days and talk about what's been going on. It's possible you just need to set the proper boundaries now that you're meshing your lives together.

The girl probably has a good reason for resisting if she actually is in love with you. You should respect her decision and just stay friends with her. You can't force someone into a relationship with you, and you shouldn't try. It just shows that you don't have any respect for them as a person and their ability to make their own decisions.

People love confidence. Instead of thinking "When will my text best fit in her day," think "I want her attention now." The best time to text her is whenever you feel like texting her. Everyone is in charge of their own phone's volume, so if hers is on while she's in a meeting, that's not your fault. You can text people at all hours of the day and night, and they will get back to you when they well and truly feel like it. So assume she wants to hear from you, and text her when you want to. Be polite and kind, funny and interesting, avoid spelling mistakes and be clear.

It depends on the woman. Some people think they mean it at the time and realize later that they don't, and others will say it because they think it's what they're partner wants to hear. Other people only say it when they mean it. If she looks you in the eyes when she says it and looks warm and happy, she probably means it.

You can never be sure someone will love you forever. However, it is not good to have a suspicion anyone will stop loving you at some point, as it could make you clingy and controlling, which would certainly make people stop loving you.

Do your best to forget about her. Distance yourself from her and distract yourself with other things. It hurts now, but it will get easier. You will find someone else, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

You can't. You can't turn lead into gold, and you can't force anyone to like you. But you can try and find out if she likes you. Start slow; say hi, get to know her a little. Give it a lot of time. Let her get to know you, and let her see if she can develop feelings for you. Never rush it, and always stay on the same page. If you're thinking of proposing and she has only just barely memorized your last name, things are wrong. Expect rejection, hope for love.