Q&A for How to Tell Your Best Friend You "Like Like" Them

Shower, listen to some music, do your hair, and put on a really nice outfit. Reframe what you're about to do by reminding yourself that you're the catch, and your friend has something to lose, not you! That way, you'll come into the conversation feeling confident and prepared.

It depends. If you have a reasonable suspicion that they like you and you're willing to put yourself out there, go for it. If you really value the friendship and you don't know how they'll respond, you may want to not risk it. It's totally up to you, though.

Make eye contact when talking, get to know their friends, make conversation and be confident in yourself!

Just do it and get it over with. It will just eat at you until you do. If he likes you, you might have a good relationship on your hands. If he doesn't, that's okay. You'll be able to get over him eventually.

Ask him to walk home or to your next class or lunch with you. An in-person conversation is important so the other person understands exactly what you are saying.

Think about the highs and lows. If you really want to tell him, make sure it's just the two of you, not near his friends, which would embarrass him. Wait for what seems like the right time and take a deep breath. Don't be surprised if he doesn't return your affections. But, who knows? You admitting this to him might make him like you more.

This will depend on the type of person they are but also on you enforcing clear boundaries. If there are moments when it seems as if the two of you might kiss or reveal deeper feelings, say something to stop this. Put your hand up and say: "I know, I feel it too. But I don't want us to spoil the great friendship we have because it is really great, really special and I want it to last like this for always." That way, you've addressed the elephant in the room, acknowledged that you understand the feelings but have also clarified that you don't want it to get despoiled by anything more intimate.

Then you have to accept it an move on. You cannot force anyone to feel a certain way. Perhaps in time, he or she will like you back, or perhaps not. If you try to cling to something that is not there, then you will only hurt yourself. You can still continue the friendship, however.

Think about all the things that might happen if he says no or you break up in the future. Things might become different and it becomes awkward if he rejects you. If that happens, are you willing to go and move on with your life and put him in the past and hang out with some girlfriends instead? Or, is he better in your life as the guy you can always rely on, lean on and go to as a brother-like friend? Don't make a mistake of losing such a gem of a friend.

If you have any gay friends, you could start talking about them, and toss out a few flirtatious jokes.

Who do you like more, your BFF or her boyfriend? Is it worth losing her friendship over? Your friendship can last your entire lifetime. Any relationship you strike up with this boy probably will not.

You'll obviously have to choose. If you choose the best friend, be gentle when you break up with the boyfriend. The best friend will not like you if you hurt his friend.

One thing you could do is joke about it. If he reacts negatively, then he probably doesn't feel the same way. If he acts a little unsure or nervous, he probably does!

Your friend is just trying to help you. Although it may have been embarrassing, try not to feel betrayed. Instead, try to be grateful. You have a good friend.

Maybe you could just ask him to hang out sometime, without stating directly that it's a date. This gives you guys time to assess your feelings for each other, and see if you're comfortable with the idea of dating. Keep getting closer to each other, see how he responds. Your feelings will continue to grow, or you'll decide to just remain as friends. Just see how it goes, don't put too much pressure on him or yourself.

Just because they like another doesn't mean they don't like you, too. Try talking with him about how you feel. If he doesn't answer, it's probably because he's trying to figure out if he likes you.

It can be tough to deal with this, but if your friend isn't acting like a good friend, then he/she isn't one. If your friend is just being mean to your other friends, but not you, see if you can have a talk with him/her and let him/her know it isn't OK. Sometimes people are fair-weather friends. This means they are only in it for themselves; it is best to avoid these people.

Try being more open with her, and ask subtle questions that slowly allow her to open up a bit more, and if you plan on letting her know that you like her, I would start out with small gestures. If she doesn't get the hint, straight out tell her. Plus, if this person has also been a best friend, you should tell her that you don't want to hurt your friendship, but that you want a more intimate friendship. If all else fails, make a romantic gesture.

Tell them honestly how you feel. Let them know that you still want to be friends if they do not feel the same. Keeping it to yourself will only make things harder on you.

If she's not with anyone right now, you should just have an honest conversation with her. If she's already your friend, that's a good basis for a relationship. Be prepared for whatever answer she may give you, though, as she might not like you in "that way".

A first step might be to joke back. A good next step is to hint to him that you have a real crush on someone and see if he can guess who it is. Really, though, if he jokes with you about it, there's a good chance he feels the same way.

It depends how you feel. Do you not like him anymore? Think about what will happen if you decide you want to date. Will it make you happy?

See how to tell that your crush likes you back for tips.

It could. Making a lot of eye contact is a great way to send the message that you like someone, but keep in mind that it's not the most direct way. There's a chance your friend will not notice or just assume that you're making eye contact because you're good friends.

Just talk to the guy you think likes her. It might be awkward, but it's the best way to know for sure.

Talk to your friend to see if she still likes him. If she doesn't, then you're all set. If she does, then you'll just have to let her get over it.

Get to know him, then give him little hints. Once you are very close, tell him.

You just have to accept the fact that he isn't ready. Maybe one day he will be, and maybe that will be your chance to hook up with him! Until then, find another relationship or wait patiently and enjoy your friendship.

You can ask them directly, as that is the best way of finding out what their true feelings are for you.

I would suggest you rethink this. What do you expect will happen once you get him alone and you tell him? That he'll take you in his arms, you'll passionately kiss, and all will be bliss for the rest of your life? It's very likely not going to go that way, but if you keep working on this, you will get there. People's feelings for each other are usually not at the same level from the start. So instead of telling him, just flirt a little, send a smile, let him know you like him. As a bonus, you don't have to wait until you're alone. Go slow, give him time.