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What do people usually speak about at a funeral?

David I. Jacobson
Funeral Home Director
David I. Jacobson is the founder of Chicago Jewish Funerals, an independent Jewish owned funeral provider that evolved into two funeral homes in the Chicagoland area. With over 30 years of experience serving families, David is a leading expert on Kavod Hamet, the Jewish traditions of honoring and respecting the dead. David is an active funeral director that serves people planning and in need of funerals, lecturing to congregations, community groups, and schools extensively about the values of the Jewish funeral as well as the dying process and the value of one’s legacy.

David I. Jacobson

Funeral Home Director

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People usually talk about their loved one and their relationship with the person who died. They focus on how the deceased affected their life.

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What's an example of a eulogy?

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If you want to see a really meaningful eulogy, you should look up the eulogies from "The Fault In Our Stars" on YouTube. Those are really good ones.

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Should I include the cause of her death in my mother's eulogy?

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The eulogy is a story of her life and the people she loved. While those closest to her probably already know the cause, I see no reason to divulge something like that publicly. Celebrate who she was instead.

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How long should a closing prayer last?

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Probably no more than 2-5 minutes. You don't want to go on for too long and have people fidgeting and anxious to get out of there.

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