How to Attract a Libra Man As an Aries Woman

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: April 30, 2024 Fact Checked

Bright, lively, and confident Aries women are a fabulous match for a Libra's balanced and charming energy. It makes sense that this sign has caught your eye, and luckily, there are so many ways to expertly appeal to your Libra crush. This pairing is sure to be a homerun, and we're here to help you make it happen. Below, we've pulled together a list of the best ways for an Aries woman to attract a Libra man!

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

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Show your interest right away.

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Libra men are a hot commodity, so you’ll need to act fast. ^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Aries is a super action-oriented sign, so channel this energy into the pursuit of your Libra crush. Instead of waiting and weighing the options (something you’d be unlikely to do, anyway!), jump right in and start flirting with him ASAP. You’re fabulous, energetic, self-assured spirit will definitely win him over, but he needs to know that you’re into him first. ^{[2]
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- Don't be afraid to make the first move with your Libra crush. This isn't a sign that gets spooked when someone shows their interest! ^{[3]
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Turn up the charm.

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Libra men love a charismatic lady; as an Aries, that means you! Aries women totally sparkle in social settings, using their natural confidence, liveliness, and warmth to draw others in. ^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} So, when you’re on the same social scene as you’re Libra crush, make sure they see you working the room. ^{[6]
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- Use your killer storytelling skills to make a whole crowd laugh—and your Libra crush swoon.
- If you see someone standing alone, use your bold conversation style to help them feel included. A Libra will admire your kindness and charisma.

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Lay it on thick with flirtation.

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Libra men will want things to stay exciting and seductive. This sign is naturally extremely flirty, so don’t hold back when it comes to frisky texts, touching, and teasing. He’ll love to be around your playful energy, and luckily, for a striking Aries woman, this won’t be a challenge. ^{[7]
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- Send a dirty text to make him smile. “I’m trying to get my work done, but all I can think about is how you looked in that shirt yesterday…”
- Try finding reasons to subtly touch him while the two of you are hanging out. Push his hair back, tuck his shirt’s tag in, or put your arm around him.
- Teasing is great way to get flirty. “I can't believe you drink instant coffee. I’ll have to enlighten you on the wonders of French press."

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Compliment him often.

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Laying it on thick with flattery is a surefire way to attract a Libra man. Luckily for you, an Aries woman, you’re not afraid of putting yourself out there. Use this to your advantage and hold nothing back when it comes to offering sweet and sultry compliments. Comment on anything from his looks, to his personality, to his intellect, and it will have him totally into you. ^{[8]
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- “Wow, that shirt really matches your eyes. They looked gorgeous already, but now they’re even brighter.”
- “You’re always so fun to be around. I love that about you.”
- “I love the way you construct an argument. You’ve got a really great ability to see both sides.”

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Have meaningful conversations.

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Libra men are attracted to people who can have deep chats. ^{[9]
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Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Though you may struggle a bit to see both sides and keep your argument civil, you have a real knack for honesty and straightforwardness. ^{[10]
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Research source} Use the latter to your benefit to attract your Libra crush. When the two of you are engaged in a heavy discussion, don’t be afraid to be transparent about your thoughts and feelings, because he’ll absolutely love that. ^{[11]
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- Libras are all about justice and empathy. If you find a way to pull him into a convo covering gender equality, for instance, he'll probably be fascinated.

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Be a helping hand.

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To Aries, assisting friends is second nature, and Libras love that. ^{[12]
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Research source} Men of this sign are totally attracted to kind souls, and if he knows you spent the weekend helping your friend move into her new apartment, that’ll be huge. Helping will definitely come naturally to you as an Aries, so simply try to focus on subtly making sure he knows how good you are to the people around you. ^{[13]
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- If he asks you what you’ve been doing, let him know you helped a friend. “My pal actually threw a birthday for her little sister, I helped her plan and set up.”
- Maybe he wants to know why you know so much about tech. “My friend’s computer always crashes. I learned so I could be helpful to her in a pinch."

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Teach him new things.

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Libra men are naturally curious, and Aries women are natural educators. It’s a perfect match! You probably have a million new interests and hobbies taking up your time at the moment, and there’s a strong possibility that your Libra crush would absolutely love to hear about it. The next time your new obsession comes up in conversation, offer to teach him some pointers. ^{[14]
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- Take him to the skate park and show him the basics.
- Offer to teach him a few words in another language you might know, like Italian.
- You might’ve just finished a book on the Battle of Thermopylae, so give him a quick history lesson.

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Keep excitement levels up.

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Libra men are notorious for getting bored easily. For an Aries woman, though, that shouldn’t be an issue, because you’re one of the most energetic, spontaneous signs in the zodiac! ^{[15]
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Research source} To keep your Libra crush on the line, lean into your most exciting instincts while you hang out. As long as you’re keeping him on his toes, he’ll be into it. ^{[16]
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- Plan an extreme outing. Try taking him for a snowboarding, ax-throwing, or mountain biking date–anything you love to do.
- Shake things up while the two of you are out and about. If you walk by a caricaturist, have them create a quick sketch of the two of you.

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Never lie to him.

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A Libra man won’t have any patience for someone dishonest. ^{[17]
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Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} This sign maintains a strict moral code and values that in other people, too. Luckily for an Aries lady, honesty is second nature. ^{[18]
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Research source} You’d likely never keep anything from your crush or partner anyway, which will mean the world to the Libra you've got your eye on.
- Reader Poll: We asked 671 wikiHow readers who are familiar with Aries-Libra relationships, and 60% of them agreed that honest communication and understanding is the key to this pairing’s success. [Take Poll]
- An Aries woman who wants to date an Libra man should focus on being vulnerable and communicating authentically with her partner.

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Make him miss you.

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Libras are sensitive to losing any freedoms, so give him space. At the start of the flirtation-ship, it may be crucial that you exercise your independent tendencies to keep your Libra crush interested. To him, the biggest turnoff in the world will be neediness or being attached with you at the hip. So instead, spend time with your friends, take a weekend away, and focus on yourself; the longer her spends by himself, the more he’ll crave your presence. ^{[19]
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- Instead of waiting for him to call, go out for drinks with your pals.
- Spend a weekend on a trip somewhere you’ve always wanted to go. If he texts you to hang out, kindly let him know that you’re too busy adventuring!
- Focus on your many passions, hobbies, and interests. Not only will you love getting to work on yourself, but he’ll love getting to miss you.

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Keep up the chase.

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Aries can have a bit of a tough time being patient, but on the other hand, you ladies are completely determined, never giving up on things you really want. ^{[20]
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Research source} Try to channel your knack for perseverance, and your efforts will be rewarded. Your Libra crush will probably be indecisive and hesitant to commit, but if you don’t lose hope while he’s taking time to process, he’ll be into it. ^{[21]
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Create a fairytale romance.

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Libras want casual at the start, and over-the-top romance down the line. As an Aries woman, you’re similar; though you’ve got a tough exterior, underneath, you’re a super kind, gentle, and romantic soul. ^{[22]
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Research source} When the two of you have built up a rapport, use your tender side to woo your Libra crush through big, romantic gestures. Try planning beautiful dates, surprising him with thoughtful gifts, and taking any opportunity to create intimacy. ^{[23]
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- Plan a beautiful sunset picnic at a scenic location.
- Bring him a gift that you know will mean a lot, like his favorite artist on vinyl.
- When the two of you stumble upon some music, a street performer for instance, take his hand for a slow dance. Any and all romance will attract a Libra man!

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When the time comes, show him you’re serious.

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Libras and Aries value settling down (eventually). Both of you are notoriously flighty in the beginning stages of a relationship, but deep down, Libras and Aries both want a major, earth-shattering love affair full of commitment and depth. So, when the two of you have reached a serious level of flirting and eventually falling, make sure to communicate your intentions to keep him hooked. ^{[24]
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- Libras love open communication, so feel free to tell him outright where you see things going.
- With a Libra, it’s always wise to give him an out, just in case he’s still making up his mind.
- “I just wanted to let you know that I really like you and see this getting serious. I’d love take things slow for now, but I still wanted to express that to you."

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Angel Eyedealism
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Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

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Libra men tend to be attractive people and being in a relationship is extremely important to them. They're constantly trying to balance things. You definitely want to appeal to their sense of aesthetics. You do not want to be rude or gross around a Libra man. He gets turned off by somebody who is coarse and wants a woman that is refined and intellectual because he’s an intellectual.

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How to Attract a Libra Man As an Aries Woman

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Show your interest right away.

Turn up the charm.

Lay it on thick with flirtation.

Compliment him often.

Have meaningful conversations.

Be a helping hand.

Teach him new things.

Keep excitement levels up.

Never lie to him.

Make him miss you.

Keep up the chase.

Create a fairytale romance.

When the time comes, show him you’re serious.

Learn How to Attract a Libra with this Expert Series

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