Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is defined by a need for admiration and a high sense of self-importance. [1] X Trustworthy Source Mayo Clinic Educational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to source With those traits in mind, is it even possible to get someone with narcissistic tendencies to be interested in someone else, let alone to chase them? As it turns out, you can use someone’s egocentric characteristics to your advantage—but keep in mind that a healthier approach might be to cut ties and move on with your life. If you're determined to win them over, follow this psychology-backed list of ways to get a person with narcissistic qualities to chase you. Just remember that even though someone shows narcissistic behavior, it doesn’t mean they have NPD—only a licensed psychologist can make that diagnosis.
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- Some people think that diagnosed narcissists don’t experience love in the same ways as non-narcissists do. While it’s true that a lack of empathy is a common symptom of this personality disorder, these symptoms can be managed with the help of psychotherapy and/or medication. [20] X Trustworthy Source Mayo Clinic Educational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to sourceThanks
- It’s possible that someone with narcissistic traits will do anything to win you over once they decide they want to be with you—whether it’s romantic flattery, gaslighting, or harassment. Be prepared for negative interactions with this person while you navigate flirtation or a relationship.Thanks
- However, not every person with narcissistic personality disorder or narcissistic tendencies is abusive or toxic. This inaccurate assumption only adds to the stigma of this mental health condition. [21] X Trustworthy Source National Domestic Violence Hotline Organization providing lifesaving tools, support, and resources for victims and survivors of domestic abuse Go to sourceThanks
References
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- ↑ https://hbr.org/2016/04/how-to-work-for-a-narcissistic-boss
- ↑ https://upjourney.com/how-to-communicate-with-a-narcissist
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/effective-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.stylist.co.uk/relationships/how-to-identify-narcissistic-relationships/611159
- ↑ https://www.understandingmind.com/6-ways-to-make-a-narcissist-obsessed-with-you/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-is-2020/202104/6-traits-narcissists-want-in-romantic-partner
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-narcissism/201710/how-de-escalate-fight-narcissist
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-narcissism/201710/how-de-escalate-fight-narcissist
- ↑ https://www.understandingmind.com/how-to-make-a-narcissist-jealous/
- ↑ https://upjourney.com/how-does-a-narcissist-handle-rejection-and-no-contact
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201606/how-and-why-play-hard-get
- ↑ https://upjourney.com/how-does-a-narcissist-handle-rejection-and-no-contact
- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9742-narcissistic-personality-disorder#living-with
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/pro/recovery-expert/2020/01/traits-narcissists-appreciate-in-their-targets#3
- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9742-narcissistic-personality-disorder#living-with
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/pro/recovery-expert/2020/01/traits-narcissists-appreciate-in-their-targets#1
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/effective-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/psychology/narcissistic-personality-disorder
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20366690
- ↑ https://www.thehotline.org/resources/narcissism-and-abuse/