After a breakup, texting your ex-girlfriend can give you closure or even lead to a reunion—but when should you try to contact her? The key to texting an ex is giving yourself (and her) enough time to heal from the breakup . In this article, we'll help you recognize when you're ready to reconnect with your ex and make a plan for texting her! Read on to learn exactly how long you should wait before texting your ex-girlfriend.
Best Time to Reach out to an Ex Girlfriend
Wait 4-6 weeks after the breakup. The best time to text her is early evening—after work but before 8 PM. If you text later, make your intentions clear and set up a friendly conversation that won't be mistaken for something suggestive. Send your ex a simple and easy "How was your day?" or "How have you been?"
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References
- ↑ https://www.exbackguide.org/leave-your-ex-alone.php
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_self_compassion_can_help_you_through_divorce
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/breakup-no-contact-rule
- ↑ https://www.mcgill.ca/counselling/files/counselling/surviving_a_break-up_-_20_strategies_0.pdf
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/dealing-with-a-breakup-or-divorce.htm
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/202112/when-youre-too-angry-confront-someone-effectively
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/how-to-genuinely-apologize/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/romantically-attached/201608/4-questions-you-need-ask-getting-back-together