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    How do you start a good text conversation?
    Imad Jbara
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    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
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    You could ask question, share an interesting observation, or try flirting with them. Honestly, it can be kind of hard to get a great conversation going over text. You just miss out on a lot of the magic and spontaneity when you're texting and it's easy to misread tone when you can't hear someone speak. If you're really looking for a meaningful conversation, try calling them or talking in person!
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    What is a good text conversation starter?
    Imad Jbara
    Communication Coach
    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
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    The easiest way to get a text chat started is to ask the person a question. This way they know how to easily reply to you. Stick to an easy, open-ended question so they don't have to think about their answer too much.
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    If there is miscommunication during a text conversation, how do you resolve it without typing a whole paragraph?
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    Try asking if you can meet up in person to talk or chat on the phone. Sometimes it's easier to vocalize your concerns or misinterpretations rather than typing them out.
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    Is sending another text before the other person has responded to the first one ever a good idea?
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    It is almost never a good idea, no. If you needed to speak to them because of some emergency, maybe, but if that's the case you should probably just call them.
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    If I have not talked to this friend in a while, what should we talk about?
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    If you have not talked to them in a while, you could start by asking how they've been and what they've been up to.
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    How can I initiate a text conversation with my boyfriend without seeming bothersome?
    Samantha
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    Your boyfriend likely enjoys talking to you. You can initiate a conversation by asking about his day, and then perhaps bring up a positive shared memory.
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    How can I improve communication with my crush, who is a grade older and at a different school, especially when they don't respond frequently?
    Samantha
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    You might find it helpful to initiate conversations by asking questions to get to know them better. In my experience with a similar situation, responses can sometimes take time, but engaging questions can help build a connection.
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    How should I reply when someone asks, "How was your day?"
    Samantha
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    You can start by sharing how you're feeling, and then be sure to ask them about their day. This reciprocal approach often keeps the conversation flowing.
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    How can I make friends if I struggle with bad hygiene?
    Samantha
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    You may find it difficult to make friends, as most people find poor hygiene unappealing and off-putting.
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    How can I tell if the person I am texting likes me?
    Samantha
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    You can often tell if someone is interested if they consistently text you and show interest by asking questions about your life.
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    What is the maximum number of texts I should send in a row?
    Samantha
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    You should generally aim for two or three texts in a row. Sending four or more can be perceived as excessive or spamming.
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    How can I subtly hint that I like someone when texting?
    Samantha
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    You can make a reference to something they like or send them a meme or GIF that relates to them in some fashion.
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    How to respond to I have been so busy?
    Samantha
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    You could inquire about what they have been so busy with, and try to make some conversation
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