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Ideas to help you come up with the best questions and keep a conversation going over text
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Do you like a girl and want to impress her over text with fun, insightful, and engaging questions? It can be intimidating to start a text conversation with someone you like, but when you lead with confidence and keep your questions open-ended, you’ll keep the chat flowing easily. If you need some inspiration, keep reading! We’ve prepared a handy list to help you ask a girl questions over text, complete with funny, flirty, deep, and personal example questions.
Things You Should Know
- Start with a casual icebreaker question. Ask her about how her day is doing, or flatter her by asking for some quick advice.
- Ask funny hypothetical questions, or ask her to tell you an entertaining story. Get a little flirty and slip her a sweet compliment.
- Pose some deeper questions as you get closer to her. Ask about her values, influences, and relationship expectations to see if you’re compatible.
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Questions to Ask
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What’s been the highlight of your day? -
2Eat anything delicious (or awful) today? 😋Advertisement
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3What’s a funny thing that happened to you today?
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4What was the last thing that made you laugh?
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5Working on anything awesome today?
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7What should I watch on TV tonight?
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8What app do you think I should download on my phone?
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9What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever gotten?
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10Help! Which shirt should I wear this weekend?
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What are some good questions to ask to learn more about you? -
12What’s your favorite type of conversation to have with someone?
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13Okay, I’ll answer any 3 questions with total honesty. Ready?
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14Anything weighing on your mind right now? Feel free to use me as a sounding board!
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15What’s the most eye-catching photo on your camera roll right now?
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What’s the goofiest selfie you’ve ever taken? I’ll show you mine if you show me yours. -
17Look at this cool pic I took on my walk today! Do you have any fun photos to share?
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18I am absolutely DYING to see a puppy pic! Could you send your cutest photo?
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19What kind of trouble are you getting into today? 😉
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20When are you free? Want to go on a little adventure?
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22How about dinner at my place tomorrow?
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23Got any travel plans in the future?
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24What’s the lamest pickup line you’ve ever been given?
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25Ever do something weird to grab someone’s attention?
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27What’s the most bizarre dream you’ve ever had?
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28If you could have a single superpower, what would it be?
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29What are 3 things you’d bring to a desert island?
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30If you were an actress, what kind of movies would you star in?
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A genie gives you a wish. What do you wish for? -
32Would you rather your only mode of transportation be a donkey or a giraffe?
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33Quick: what are your top 5 movies?
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34Who are your favorite artists?
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35What’s the coolest place you’ve ever visited and why?
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37What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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38What would you say is your strongest skill?
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39How’s your big project going? It sounded so cool the last time we talked!
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40What kind of things were you into as a kid?
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42Where’s your hometown? Did you like growing up there?
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43Got any siblings? What are they like?
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44What country would your dream job be in?
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45What’s on your bucket list?
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47What are 3 places you want to live in?
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48Is your hotness the real cause of global warming? 🔥
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49Are you tired after running through my dreams all last night?
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50I think I need a late-night snack. Can I have you?
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Has anyone told you how gorgeous you look today? -
52Where did you learn to be so beautiful?
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53How did you get such an amazing fashion sense? I need to know your secrets!
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54Pretty, charming, and an absolute genius? How is there so much cool in one person?
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55Miss me yet? 😉
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57When was the last time we talked? We have to change that.
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58In a single sentence, how would you define romance?
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59Is there anything I can do to make you feel more special? 😘
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60What’s the perfect way to ask someone out?
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62What do marriage and commitment mean to you?
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63What are the 3 things you value most in life?
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64What do you think is the best part of your personality?
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65Do you believe in second chances?
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67Looking back, what have you done so far to give you the most satisfaction in your life?
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68Do you see yourself ever having kids?
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69Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
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70How do you define “soulmates”?
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72Are you more of an adventurer or homebody?
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73What do you wish you had more time for?
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74What is the healthiest and unhealthiest thing you do regularly?
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75Who brings you the most joy in your life?
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What book was a real game-changer for you?
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