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If you feel like conversations are a potential minefield and you're worried about inadvertently offending someone, you're not alone. This can be especially difficult if you're delivering constructive criticism and don't want the person to be hurt by your words. Having respect and empathy for others will help you avoid offending them. Common form of advice: if this would upset you, is rude, or will offend people you probably shouldn't say that thing [1] X Research source If you do happen to say something offensive, apologize sincerely and be willing to learn from your mistake so you won't repeat it.
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QuestionHow do you respectfully ask for space in a relationship?Jessica George is a Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Professional Master Life Coach, and Co-Founder of Evolve Therapy Coaching based in Glendale, California. With more than 20 years of experience, she specializes in hybrid therapy and coaching services, couples counseling, and clinical hypnotherapy. Jessica holds a Bachelor’s degree from The University of California, Santa Barbara and an MA in Counseling Psychology and Talk Therapy from Ryokan College. Jessica is trained in the Imago technique and the Gottman method for couples therapy. She also earned a Professional Life-Coach Certification from The Fowler Academy and an Infinite Possibilities Relationship Certification. She is a member of the International Board of Coaches and Practitioners (IBCP).Take her feelings into consideration! If they come from a traumatic background, the worst thing you could do is just leave. When you need more space, suggest that you would “like” to take it. This is not to insinuate that you need their approval, but merely to show respect for their feelings as well.
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