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Reasons you can’t get someone out of your head & how to move on
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Are you struggling to get someone out of your head? Are you finding it impossible to stop thinking about a crush, an ex, or a friend you had a falling out with, no matter how hard you try? You’ve come to the right place! We interviewed expert mental health professionals and put together a complete guide on why you keep thinking about someone, and what to do about it.
Things You Should Know
- You may be thinking about someone because you're attracted to them, or you admire their positive traits and accomplishments.
- If you can’t stop thinking about an ex, you may be idealizing your relationship with them, or you may have unresolved feelings about them.
- Conditions such as anxiety, depression, and OCD can play a role in ruminating about friends, exes, or crushes.
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