How to Know If a Cancer Woman Likes You: 14 Undeniable Signs

Learn how a Cancer crush acts when she likes you (& how to respond)

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Devin McSween

Last Updated: February 26, 2025 Fact Checked

It's easy to like a sweet and nurturing Cancer woman, but how do you know if she feels the same? Ladies born under this sign are careful with their feelings around most people, but they'll blossom around their crush. To help you decode your crush’s signals, we spoke with astrologers Stina Garbis and Angel Eyedealism to learn all the surefire signs a Cancer woman likes you. Read on to learn more!

How do you know if a Cancer woman likes you?

If a Cancer woman likes you, she might act shy or give you longing stares. As she starts to feel more comfortable around you, she’ll likely go out of her way to talk to you and ask you about yourself. When she’s really into you, she’ll text you constantly and open up to you.

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She gets shy around you.

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When a Cancer woman catches feelings, she may act nervous. According to Eyedealism, a Cancer woman can be “very shy and hesitant” around the person she likes. So, don’t be surprised if your crush gets quiet or blushes when you talk to her. Her shyness is probably just a sign that she’s nervous about saying the wrong thing or unsure if you like her back. ^{[1]
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- Like the crab they’re named after, Cancer women tend to hide in their shells until they feel comfortable around you. So, be patient and keep talking to her to show her who you are.
- Cancer women don’t like to waste their time or put their energy into people they’re not interested in. Acting shy is a positive sign she’s into you because if she wasn’t, she probably wouldn’t give you the time of day!

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She stares at you.

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When a Cancer makes eye contact, she wants you to notice. A cautious water sign like Cancer can be shy, but she won't be able to resist gazing at you when she has a crush. ^{[2]
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Research source} When you're together, you'll repeatedly catch her looking at you—and she'll hold your gaze when you do. It's her way of seducing you without saying a word.
- Reader Poll: We asked 1033 wikiHow readers about the strongest indicator that someone thinks of you as more than a friend, and only 7% of them said if they point their hips and toes toward you . [Take Poll] Instead, see if they make repeated eye contact or get close to you.

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She gives you mixed signals.

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Cancer women sometimes pull back to make sure you’re interested. A cancer woman likes to be chased, but don’t mistake this for playing games. This sign loves fiercely and is incredibly loyal and devoted to their partner. So, before she puts her heart on the line and goes all in on you, she wants to make sure you’re the real deal. Being hot one day and cold the next is just her way of seeing that you care for her. ^{[3]
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- When it comes to communication and intimacy, Eyedealism says a Cancer woman wants “[her] partner to be the initiator.” Keep talking to and texting your crush to let her know you’re not going anywhere. ^{[4]
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- When a Cancer woman sees that you are genuinely interested in her and care for her, she’ll start to initiate conversations and open up.
- Cancer women need to feel like they can trust you before they open up completely. Follow through on what you say you’re going to do and be honest with her when she asks you questions.

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She goes out of her way to talk to you.

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Introverted Cancer avoids socializing with people she doesn't like. A Cancer lady who makes an effort to see you and talk in person is definitely interested. ^{[5]
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Research source} Pay attention to who starts the conversations between you—if she's starting as many as you are, you've caught her attention.
- As a Cardinal sign, Cancer is one of the instigators of the zodiac. Your Cancer leads with her heart, and you'll notice this as she steadily initiates more contact with you.
- On the other hand, if you're always going out of your way to talk to her (and not the other way around), your interest may not be mutual.

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She wants to know everything about you.

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When a Cancer has a crush, she'll ask you many questions. In fact, it might seem like she never runs out of questions to ask about your life! It'll be noticeable because she's usually more reserved around people she doesn't know. She probably likes you if she starts peppering you with questions and actively trying to learn more about you.
- You’ll know that she really likes you when she remembers the things you tell her and she brings them up in conversation. For instance, she might remember that your little brother is graduating and ask you how the ceremony was.
- Cancer women also love to share in the things their partner enjoys. She’s likely caught feelings if she’s genuinely curious about your interests and talks about them with you.
- She'll also talk about you often, too. She's got a big crush if she can't stop talking about how amazing you are to everyone she knows.

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She wants to be alone with you.

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Groups are stressful for Cancer; she'll be eager for one-on-one time. Cancers are more likely to have an inner circle of close friends and confidantes they spend time with individually. If she approaches you about spending quality time together, she's including you in that sacred inner circle—meaning she likes you and may even have a crush.
- Garbis recommends giving your Cancer lady many opportunities to be close to you. ^{[6]
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  Expert Interview} For instance, she'll love an invitation to a one-on-one lunch or a quiet afternoon of conversation at your home.

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She touches you whenever she can.

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If she likes you, her body language will reflect it. Cancers like to feel physically and emotionally close to the subject of their affection, so she's probably been quite touchy-feely. Think about your interactions with her and how often she touches you. The more she does it, the more she likes you.
- Common signs include plenty of hugs, sitting close together, brushing your hands together when you walk, and touching your arm or shoulder when you say something funny.

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She texts you every day.

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Cancer women can get a little clingy around people they like. When she's crushing on you, she's probably also making a point to text you often—just to check up on you and let you know she's thinking about you. Don't be surprised if she calls you frequently, too; she doesn't like being apart from someone she likes and will be happier if she can hear your voice.
- Humor her and send her a prompt reply when she texts you. It'll help her feel more connected to you, and her affection for you will grow.
- On the other hand, if she texts you infrequently and takes a while to respond every time you text her, she may not be interested.

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She flirts with you.

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If she’s really feeling you, a Cancer woman will flirt and tease you. While Cancer signs are well known for their romantic and caring side, they can be pretty playful and flirty, too. She might gently tease you about something you said or text you sweet compliments. Smiling and laughing at all your jokes is a pretty solid sign that she’s flirting and into you, too! ^{[7]
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- Flirt with your Cancer crush to show her you’re into her. Complimenting her and telling her that you’re thinking of her are sure ways to make her melt.

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She’s concerned about you.

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A sensitive Cancer is extremely tuned in to your moods. This sign is ruled by the Moon, astrology's planet of emotions and intuition. As such, she's a nurturing soul who wants to take care of you; if you're upset about something or have a problem, she'll be quick to notice and do what she can to help. ^{[8]
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Research source} When she really likes you, she'll put your needs first, even going out of her way if it makes you feel better.
- The best way to encourage Cancer's interest is to let her take care of you, says Garbis. Ask for help when you need it, and let her support you emotionally. ^{[9]
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She cooks meals for you.

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A nurturing Cancer woman is great at making comfort food. She's likely crushing on you if she asks about your favorite childhood meal and offers to cook it for you. Garbis recommends taking her up on her offer and to suggest you cook together. ^{[10]
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- When you get together for a home-cooked meal, bring some tasty desserts and sweets you can both enjoy.

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She's vulnerable around you.

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This sign tends to be guarded around strangers as a form of protection. When she really trusts you, she'll open up, show more emotions (both happy and unhappy) around you, and share details about her life. Expect long talks about anything and everything, lots of flirting, and learning new things about your Cancer's dreams, hopes, and fears.
- She'll also gossip with you, as she loves sharing details about other people she knows.
- Be careful not to criticize her as she opens up to you. Cancers are known for their sensitivity, so she's likely to take criticism personally. ^{[11]
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- She may even come right out and tell you that she likes you. However, this isn't a given, considering how shy Cancer signs can be. So, if she hasn't confessed her feelings, don't assume she doesn't like you!

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She gets possessive.

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Your loyal and sensitive Cancer lady can be prone to jealousy. She's protective of the people she cares about, so Garbis says she may smother you with affection—just a little. ^{[12]
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Expert Interview} She'll also stay close to you in groups or crowds; if someone flirts with you, she might get between you or try to distract you. Once she's emotionally invested, she'll want everyone to know that she's staking a claim for your time and attention.
- If she seems possessive, take a moment to tell her how important she is to you. A Cancer woman often craves reassurance, and your words will melt her heart!

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She asks you to meet her family.

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Family is everything to her, so it's significant if she makes an introduction. A typical Cancer woman dreams of having a family someday and treasures her current friends and loved ones. ^{[13]
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- If your Cancer lady wants you to meet her family, consider inviting her to meet yours. She'll be eager to meet them and take it as a sign that the feelings are mutual.

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Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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Let them smother you a little bit! They'll want to be close and helpful, and you should give them opportunities to be close to you. Beware of a Cancer's changing moods, though, and give them space when they need it.

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How to Know If a Cancer Woman Likes You: 14 Undeniable Signs

How do you know if a Cancer woman likes you?

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She gets shy around you.

She stares at you.

She gives you mixed signals.

She goes out of her way to talk to you.

She wants to know everything about you.

She wants to be alone with you.

She touches you whenever she can.

She texts you every day.

She flirts with you.

She’s concerned about you.

She cooks meals for you.

She's vulnerable around you.

She gets possessive.

She asks you to meet her family.

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