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When you’re getting mixed signals from a guy you like, it can feel frustrating and confusing—does he actually want to be with you or not? Mixed signals can come from a guy’s insecurity or lack of communication skills, but sometimes they’re his way of keeping you at a distance. We’ll teach you how to decode these subtle signs and walk you through exactly what to do when a guy gives you mixed signals.
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QuestionHow do you deal with a guy who is playing games?Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.Playing games is a big sign that you need to have a conversation. Be direct about how you're feeling—that's the best way to get a straight answer.
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