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If you're wondering what guys find attractive, you've come to the right place. In this article, we'll dish all the best secrets for making yourself irresistible to guys. We'll talk about some easy tweaks you can make to your appearance, and we'll also cover simple strategies for upping your flirting game so you can take things to the next level. If you're ready for guys to flock to you everywhere you go, read on!
How to Attract Men
- Be positive, upbeat, and enthusiastic.
- Use compliments to flirt and express attraction.
- Ask him about his interests.
- Smile and make a lot of eye contact.
- Dress to suit your body type.
- Indicate you’re into him by playing with your hair or acting nervous.
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QuestionHow do I attract guys if I don't like the way I look?Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).Try starting from the outside and working your way in, because when you look good, you feel good. A very simple thing that can boost how attractive you feel is going to the gym regularly. It helps you get in shape and releases endorphins that help you feel good. Also, if it's in your budget, consider working with a personal stylist. They can help you put together outfits that will be attractive to whoever you're interested in.
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QuestionIs appearance all that matters when it comes to attracting a guy?Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).No, being happy in your life is also so vital when it comes to attracting a partner. If you're not happy in your life, you are not going to attract anybody, let alone a romantic partner. Working on your own mental well-being and happiness is so important. Also, when you're on a date, it's important to just really enjoy your time and focus on the moment instead of worrying about attracting the other person.
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- Maintain confident eye contact and body language. Fidgeting conveys nervousness, but steady eye contact signals comfort and interest. Stand tall with an open posture. Lean in slightly when listening.
- Dress stylishly in outfits that flatter your body type. Guys love when a woman looks put-together and confident. Opt for figure-hugging dresses, low-cut tops, and bold colors. Accessorize minimally.
- Boost your natural beauty with makeup. Emphasize your eyes with mascara and eyeliner. Use lip gloss or matte lipstick for a pop of color. Avoid caked-on foundation or dramatic eye shadow.
- Give sincere compliments about his appearance and accomplishments. Flattery shows your interest. Say things like "You have an amazing smile" or "Congrats on the promotion!".
- Initiate conversation about hobbies and interests. Discuss topics you're passionate about. Guys like women who have their own passions. Ask him thoughtful questions, too.
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- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/attraction/
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