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Craft the best dating app bio to find a casual hookup
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There’s no shame in looking for hookups on a dating app, but your success might depend on what you include in your profile. It’s usually best to be direct about looking for something casual while avoiding saying anything too explicit. In this article, we’ll provide all the best dating app bios sure to help you find your next hookup. Plus, find out how to stay safe before and during a hookup.
Tips for Creating a Dating App Hookup Bio
- Be straightforward about wanting something casual. This way, you’re more likely to match with someone who wants the same thing.
- Use flirty, suggestive language, but keep it PG-13. Avoid anything too sexually explicit or vulgar.
- Say something funny to let potential matches know you’re here for a good time.
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How to Hookup Safely Through Dating Apps
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Be open and comfortable with your intentions. If you’re new to hookups, you might be nervous about interacting with potential matches. Don’t be! Remember, if you’re upfront in your bio, your matches probably swiped right because they’re looking for the same thing. Start a casual conversation and ask about the hookup when it feels natural. [10] X Research source
- To make things a bit easier on yourself, only swipe right on people you’re attracted to and genuinely want to hookup with.
- Some people may be willing to hookup right away while others need more time to get comfortable. Do what works best for you while being considerate of how the other person might feel about the situation, too.
- If you only want to hookup, it’s probably not the best idea to ask people at 10 AM on a Monday. Instead, try messaging people later at night and during the weekend.
EXPERT TIPDating CoachJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.You don't want to mislead potential matches with your bio. If you want something serious, design your profile to showcase that intention. If you're looking for more casual encounters, though, keep your bio light and humorous to reflect that.
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Be cautious with giving out your contact information. Just because you want something casual doesn’t mean you should agree to meet with anyone looking for the same thing. Your safety should always be a priority, so exchange a few messages to make sure your match seems legit before sharing any personal information. [11] X Research source
- When creating your profile and selecting your photos, be careful not to include anything that might reveal your address, place of work, or license plate.
- While some people may want to be discreet when looking for hookups, use caution if you choose to match with someone who has few or no pictures. If they won’t show you what they look like ahead of time, it’s probably best to avoid the situation.
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Arrange your own transportation to and from the hookup. For safety reasons, either drive yourself, take an Uber, or arrange other transportation to meet your hookup. This way, if you don’t like the person or they seem unsafe, you maintain control of your environment and can remove yourself from the situation if necessary. [12] X Research source
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Meet in a public place. Like arranging your own transportation, meeting your hookup in public is important for your safety. Remember, even though the dating app conversation might be going well, you’re ultimately meeting a stranger. Plus, if you’re nervous, you two can grab coffee or catch a movie before hooking up to get a little more comfortable with each other. [13] X Research source
- If the person you’re meeting makes you uncomfortable while you’re in public, remove yourself from the situation. You don’t want to risk your safety by going home with them or continuing the hookup.
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Limit alcohol consumption. While you may be tempted to have a drink or two to calm your nerves, it might not be the best idea. Alcohol can make it more difficult to think clearly, so there’s a chance you could find yourself making decisions you wouldn’t make sober. If you do decide to drink, keep an eye on it at all times. [14] X Research source
- If at any point you notice your drink looks or tastes different, leave the date immediately.
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Practice safe sex. Practicing safe sex is always important, but especially when hooking up with someone you just met. You don’t know their sexual history, and there’s always the chance someone could lie about being tested. Use a condom, dental dam, or other form of physical protection to keep you and your partner safe. [15] X Research source
- If your partner refuses to use protection, don’t continue with the hookup. It’s better to find someone who takes your health seriously.
- If your hookup ends up becoming a regular sexual partner, consider getting tested together to make sure you’re both safe and healthy before intercourse.
- Remember, consent is key. Communicate with your partner throughout the hookup to make sure you’re both comfortable.
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Warnings
- Always be respectful of others on dating apps. Don’t send any inappropriate photos or messages without consent.Thanks
- Be wary of any matches that won’t meet face-to-face or agree to a phone or video call. These accounts are often scammers trying to get you to send them money or obtain your personal information. [16] X Research sourceThanks
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