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A simple guide to offering sincere and authentic admiration
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Writers often move and inspire us, but when it comes time to compliment their work, it can be a struggle to find the words. How do you tell a novelist that their book was exciting, or tell a journalist how important you think their writing is? We’ve put together a list of specific advice and helpful examples on how to let a writer know how much you appreciate their work, plus example compliments that will work on any writer—from your fiction-writing friend to your especially eloquent coworker.
Things You Should Know
- Be specific about what you like about a writer’s work, pinpointing particular details or parts you enjoyed.
- Use “because” statements like “I enjoyed this because…” to provide a deeper and more thoughtful compliment.
- Express your desire to read more of the writer’s work or to support their work in any way you can.
- Ask the writer about their process, thoughts, and inspiration to give them an opportunity to talk about their own work.
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- Keep your praise focused on the work itself, rather than the writer or their own personal life.Thanks
- Offer your compliments at the appropriate time, like during critiques, panels, or when talking about their writing when it comes up organically in conversation.Thanks
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Warnings
- Respect a writer’s boundaries if they say they’re not comfortable talking about their writing or certain aspects of it.Thanks
- Avoid being too verbose or long-winded when offering compliments. Keep commendations short and concise.Thanks
- Avoid offering unsolicited critiques or suggestions about a writer’s work.Thanks
- Avoid being overly familiar when talking to a writer about their work. You can never tell how much of their writing reflects themselves, and how much is invented.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.uis.edu/ion/resources/oiai/peer-editing
- ↑ https://wac.colostate.edu/docs/books/writingspaces3/depeter.pdf
- ↑ https://sites.lsa.umich.edu/di-students/tips-for-interacting-with-youth/one-hundred-ways-to-praise/
- ↑ https://thedaily.case.edu/5-reasons-why-you-should-give-compliments/
- ↑ https://prosper.psu.edu/the-power-of-compliments/
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2015/01/the-art-of-giving-and-receiving-advice
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2015/01/the-art-of-giving-and-receiving-advice
- ↑ https://digitalcommons.csp.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=comjournal
- ↑ https://www.edutopia.org/article/making-sure-your-praise-effective/
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