100+ Positive Compliments to Build Your Child’s Self-Esteem

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Raise kids up with these simple and loving words of appreciation

Co-authored by Kim Chronister, PsyD and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: July 26, 2024 Fact Checked

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Compliments to Build Confidence

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For Improving Self-Worth

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For Improving Mood

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For Showing Praise

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Tips for Complimenting Kids

Your kid sure does make you proud! But how can you let them know that? What’s the best way to compliment kids? Luckily, you’ve come to the right place. Kids are susceptible, and saying the right thing can give them confidence, so we put together a list of the best compliments you can give them. Take a look at the examples below to learn how to give your child the best praise imaginable.

The Best Compliments for Kids

“You make me proud.”
“You’re a great friend.”
“You’re an excellent problem solver.”
“You inspire me.”
“You’re doing great things.”
“I believe in you.”
“I love when you tell me stories.”

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Compliments to Build Confidence

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Help your child believe they can do anything with empowering statements. High self-esteem is incredibly important for kids—it helps them feel accepted, liked, and confident. Plus, kids with self-esteem and self-confidence are less likely to criticize and doubt themselves. ^{[1]
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Research source} These compliments are a great start for uplifting your child and giving them a boost of confidence:
- “I love how passionate you are!”
- “I’m so proud of you! That took a lot of courage.”
- “I love how curious you are.”
- “You’re so helpful.”
- “Your positivity encourages me.”
- “You’ve improved so much!”
- “You are so talented! You’ll have to show me how to do that.”
- “You’re so fun to be around!”
- “You encourage me.”
- “You make me laugh.”
- “You make me smile.”
- “You’re an excellent problem solver.”
- “You’re one of a kind.”
- “I admire how brave you are.”
- “You’re so respectful.”
- “You matter to me.”
- “You’re thoughtful.”
- “You’re a great big/little sister/brother.”
- “You give the best hugs.”
- “You’re so strong.”
- “We make a great team.”
- “You’re an awesome leader.”
- “Hanging out with you is so much fun!”
- “You’re a great listener.”
- “I enjoy listening to your stories.”
- “You tell the best jokes.”
- “You make a difference.”
- “You’re so fun to play with!”
- “You’re unique.”
- “You are such a joy!”
- “You’re so creative! Tell me about this.”
- “I love your sense of style!”
- “I’m proud that you want to try this yourself.”

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Compliments to Improve Self-Worth

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Show a child they’re worthy of love by commenting on personal traits. Self-worth is having an internal sense that you’re worthy of love and belonging. In other words, it’s when you have a strong sense of belief in yourself. ^{[2]
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Research source} If a child has self-worth, they like and have a strong belief of who they are. Positive self-worth and confidence go hand-in-hand. ^{[3]
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Research source} Help inspire your child to feel worthy of themselves with these compliments:
- “You light up any room.”
- “You have the best laugh.”
- “You inspire me.”
- “You totally rock!”
- “You’re a great friend.”
- “Your smile makes me smile.”
- “I love spending time with you.”
- “You’re so smart.”
- “There’s no one else like you.”
- “I love your creativity!”
- “You always think about others.”
- “You make our family better.”
- “I like how confident you are.”
- “Your joy is contagious.”
- “You make others feel welcome.”
- “I love the way you see the world.”
- “You’ve practiced so well, and I’m so proud of you.”
- “You make my days better.”
- “I know you have what it takes to succeed.”
- “You have such fun dreams.”
- “You’re an amazing son/daughter.”
- “You’re interesting.”
- “Nothing can ever keep you down!”
- “You have great ideas.”
- “You have a big heart.”
- “I love your determination.”
- “You make me happy.”
- “I’m grateful for you.”
- “I am proud of how you always keep your promises.”
- “When you make up your mind, nothing can stand in your way.”
- “Thank you for being you.”

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Compliments to Improve Mood

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Lift a child’s spirits with positive comments and affirming messages. Kids can have a hard time regulating and understanding their emotions. ^{[4]
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American Psychological Association
Leading scientific and professional organization of licensed psychologists
Go to source} After all, they’re experiencing them for the first time! So, if your child is feeling down or seems confused by their emotions, try offering them one of these compliments:
- “You did it all by yourself! I’m so proud of you.”
- “I appreciate how you waited your turn.”
- “It’s hard to express your emotions. Thank you for telling me.”
- “That took guts—I’m proud of you!”
- “Thank you for being so patient. That takes a lot of effort.”
- “You make me so proud.”
- “I love when you smile.”
- “You’re brave.”
- “I’m so glad you’re here.”
- “I love you so much, and I’ll always be here for you.”
- “I’m so lucky to have you.”
- “You’re fantastic.”
- “I like when you tell me how you feel.”
- “I love that you never give up.”
- “You’re so special.”
- “I believe in you.”
- “I have confidence in you.”
- “You are the most perfect version of you out there.”
- “You’re doing great things.”
- “I love you.”

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Compliments to Show Praise

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Applaud a child on a job well done to boost their confidence. Sometimes, the best compliments are the simplest in the moment. Children look to their parents or guardians for praise and approval—moments of pride help them feel more assured of themselves. ^{[5]
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Child Mind Institute
Nonprofit organization providing evidence-based care for children with mental health and learning disorders and their families
Go to source} So, if a kid has done something good or impressive, don’t hesitate to give them a sincere compliment. Here are some examples:
- “Great job in class! You’re so smart.”
- “Fantastic job!”
- “You put in all your effort, and I’m proud of you.”
- “Your work is out of this world!”
- “You always know how to behave. Thank you.”
- “You are a great example to others.”
- “That’s an awesome joke!”
- “You showed courage by volunteering to go first.”
- “That’s such a thoughtful question.”
- “That’s a great point!”
- “I love that you chose to be a helper today.”
- “Thank you for helping me clean up!”
- “That was great advice to give.”
- “I admire your confidence.”
- “I like how focused you are!”
- “You set a great example.”
- “You’re such a good sharer.”
- “You stayed positive. I’m proud of you.”
- “I admire how you didn’t give up and tried again.”
- “I’m proud of you for not giving up.”
- “Your drawing is so realistic. How did you do it?”
- “You should feel good about what you achieved.”
- “I’m proud of how you handled that situation.”