How to Convert to Islam for Marriage

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Have you decided that you want to spend the rest of your life with a Muslim and that you’re willing to become a Muslim to do so? Converting to Islam is a major decision, but also one that can be among the most meaningful life changes you make. If you have questions about the process of converting to Islam for the sake of marriage, we’re here to answer them. We’ve got you covered with this complete guide on how to convert to Islam for marriage.

Section 1 of 4:

How to Convert to Islam for Marriage

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  1. Visiting a mosque and speaking to one of its leaders, known as an imam, gives you the chance to ask any questions you might have and helps you get familiar with your local Muslim community. So long as you dress in modest attire (stick to wearing clothes that cover most of your body), you’re welcome to visit any mosque. [1]
    • You can also learn more about Islam by getting in touch with a Muslim community center or, if you’re in college, a Muslim Student’s Association.
    • As someone interested in Islam, it’s a great idea to take some time to read the Qur’an, Islam’s holy book. This book will be your guide for living a Muslim life. [2]
  2. Converting to Islam is actually a really easy process—all it requires is saying the Testament of Faith, also known as the Shahada, with the honest desire to become a Muslim. Say the following Arabic words: “La ilaha illa Allah, Muhammad rasoolu Allah.”
    • The Shahada is the first of the 5 pillars of Islam. This testament translates to: “There is no true god but Allah, and Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.”
    • Although Allah knows all, and therefore you don’t technically need witnesses, Muslims are encouraged to convert in the presence of 3 witnesses: 2 adult male believers, and an imam. [3]
    • If you’re in a country like the Philippines that requires a certificate of conversion in order to marry a Muslim, you can ask the imam to provide you with one after reciting the Shahada.
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  3. Although Muslims are divided on whether or not it’s necessary to take a ritual bath, known as ghusl, after conversion, you may decide to do this upon the recommendation of your imam. [4] To perform ghusl , find a private place to bathe, and wash yourself with clean water in the following order:
    • Your right hand, including in between the fingers (repeat 3 times)
    • Your left hand, including in between the fingers (repeat 3 times)
    • Your genitals (repeat 3 times)
    • Your hair, face, and neck (repeat 3 times)
    • The right side of your body
    • The left side of your body
  4. Before your Nikah (wedding), Muslims intending to get married are highly encouraged to discuss their relationship with a religious counselor. This is a crucial part of working through important aspects of your relationship ahead of time, so you can start off your married life on the right foot. Talk to your imam to schedule an appointment. [5]
  5. Keep in mind that once you convert to Islam, it’s considered a major sin to leave the faith. [6] But becoming a Muslim means joining a strong community of believers who will guide you as you work on becoming a devout Muslim . As a Muslim, you’ll be expected to practice the 5 pillars of Islam as the foundation of your Muslim life:
    • Shahada: The Testimony of Faith, which is performed upon becoming a Muslim
    • Salah: Performance of the 5 daily prayers.
    • Sawm: Fasting during the month of Ramadan
    • Zakat: Donating 2.5% of your income to the poor and needy
    • Hajj: Making a pilgrimage to the holy city of Mecca once in your lifetime, if you’re able
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Do you need to convert to Islam to marry a Muslim?

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  1. Traditionally, Muslim women were expected to marry Muslim men exclusively, while Muslim men were permitted to marry women who were “People of the Book” (Jews or Christians). Today, however, there are varying interpretations—some people believe that all Muslims are required to only marry Muslims, while others believe that Muslim women can marry Jews and Christians without any required conversions. [7]
    • If you’re marrying a Muslim, it’s best to follow whatever their interpretation of Muslim law is. Their community may have certain expectations, and your potential spouse is better equipped to understand them.
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Why is converting encouraged?

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  1. Like other faiths, such as Christianity, Islam is a religion that encourages the conversion of non-believers. For your future Muslim spouse, sharing a faith with you is a meaningful sign that you’re committed to a common spiritual journey. Most Muslims consider the conversion of others (also known as “reversion,” since Islam is seen as humanity’s original nature) to be spiritually righteous. [8]
    • For some Muslims, it’s important that both spouses share the same faith, since this means that any potential children will grow up in a Muslim home. [9]
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Section 4 of 4:

Is it okay to convert just to get married?

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  1. Converting to Islam for marriage isn’t unusual—10% of all conversions in the United States happen for this reason. [10] But keep in mind that as a Muslim, you’ll be expected to follow a religious lifestyle, and so take the time to learn about Islam before you decide to convert.


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      1. ↑ https://www.dar-alifta.org/Foreign/ViewFatwa.aspx?ID=10494
      2. ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10949544/
      3. ↑ https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/handle/2027.42/72141/j.1478-1913.2007.00161.x.pdf
      4. ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8633638/
      5. ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2017/04/premarital-counseling
      6. ↑ https://www.cfr.org/backgrounder/religious-conversion-and-sharia-law
      7. ↑ https://muse.jhu.edu/article/783514
      8. ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2013/04/30/the-worlds-muslims-religion-politics-society-interfaith-relations/
      9. ↑ https://www.darul-arqam.org.sg/embracing-islam/
      1. ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/01/26/the-share-of-americans-who-leave-islam-is-offset-by-those-who-become-muslim/

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