Dating: I really want to get into a relationship
I really want to get into a relationship, but I cant seem to pull any guys.. what do I dooo??
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I hear from a lot of singles in similar situations. Here's my best advice for you:
First, it would be best to answer these questions:
>Why are you truly seeking a romantic relationship? Has a specific guy caught your eye? Or are you just in love with the idea of being in love?
>What actions have you taken to build a relationship? Have you been building new connections with guys, or have you been too afraid to shoot your shot?
If you're not already doing those things, you first step is to start. But if you've been trying to connect with men and it isn't working out, try this instead:
>Rethink your approach. Men love compliments! The next time a handsome guy attracts your attention, tell him he looks nice.
>Put yourself out there in the real world. Dating apps aren't the best tool for finding lasting relationships. Check out community events, local concerts, and popular places in your area to meet other locals.
>Be approachable. That sounds difficult, but I promise it's not with a little practice! Use open body language (no crossed arms, try to keep a neutral face or smile, etc), and make eye contact with guys you'd like to talk to.
I really hope this helps, best of luck to you!
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First, it would be best to answer these questions:
>Why are you truly seeking a romantic relationship? Has a specific guy caught your eye? Or are you just in love with the idea of being in love?
>What actions have you taken to build a relationship? Have you been building new connections with guys, or have you been too afraid to shoot your shot?
If you're not already doing those things, you first step is to start. But if you've been trying to connect with men and it isn't working out, try this instead:
>Rethink your approach. Men love compliments! The next time a handsome guy attracts your attention, tell him he looks nice.
>Put yourself out there in the real world. Dating apps aren't the best tool for finding lasting relationships. Check out community events, local concerts, and popular places in your area to meet other locals.
>Be approachable. That sounds difficult, but I promise it's not with a little practice! Use open body language (no crossed arms, try to keep a neutral face or smile, etc), and make eye contact with guys you'd like to talk to.
I really hope this helps, best of luck to you!
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