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    How can I see my own aura?
    Jennifer McVey, Cht
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    Jennifer McVey is a Spiritualist, Seer, and the Spiritual Director of Spiritual Answers and Solutions. With more than 22 years of experience, she specializes in manifesting, ghosts and spirit attachments, hypnotherapy, channeling, and spiritually based life coaching. Jennifer has also published 13 Affirmation Image and six Word Search Puzzle books in spirituality and self-help and has produced over 600 audio sessions.
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    Put your hand up in front of your face and spread your fingers wide. Between your fingers, look in that general direction and unfocus your eyes. All of the sudden, you'll automatically see something that looks kind of blurry or a little fuzzy. That is the energy that matches your physical body.
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    How can I open my third eye?
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    You can open your third eye by doing meditation, going into nature, being more creative, gaining more intelligence and becoming more aware of your own feelings and what is going on around you. You will feel much more relaxed once you have opened your third eye.
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    How can I kill my fear of ghosts?
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    You can cleanse your home of negative energy with sage or sweet grass. You can also perform a smudging ceremony, although this is best done by respectfully approaching a spiritual First Nations person. You can also perform a salt ceremony to protect your home. Lastly, you'd want to meditate regularly, psychically surround yourself in white light, and tell any negative energy that it does not have your permission to interfere with your life.
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    Sometimes the things I see in my dreams become true. Am I a medium?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you may be a medium.
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    Can I get hurt while trying to communicate with the other side?
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    Talking to beings in other dimensions is always risky, so the chance you may get hurt is always there. What you can do, is lessen your chances of getting hurt by being respectful. Try not to upset those you are talking to, and if you feel any strong negativity present, walk away from the situation immediately.
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    How do I know if one of my parents is a psychic medium?
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    If they are able to speak with the dead or know things other people don't know, they may be a psychhic medium. Try asking them directly.
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    Why do I get headaches when I talk to those who have passed?
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    Because when you talk to people who have passed to the other side, your third eye is open and vulnerable. The turtle of wisdom pushes this eye out, and after a certain amount of time communicating with the spirits, the pressure hurts. The same with goose bumps -- when a spirit flows through you, you get goose bumps very quickly.
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    I want to become a medium, but how do I really start without the help of another medium?
    Teodorag02
    Community Answer
    You can start with opening your third eye, then with meditation. You should also read other medium's experiences; they can help you.
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    Do I need supervision if I am new to the field?
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    It depends how you became a psychic medium; if you had a mentor, they will probably want to keep an eye over you for a while, just till you feel comfortable on your own. Even if you've come to this realization on your own, it can be helpful to get advice and guidance from an experiences psychic. In some cases, your clients might only trust you if you are known to have been mentored or guided by an experienced and known psychic.
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    Are online classes for becoming a psychic medium credible?
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    There are many scams out there. Err on the side of assuming they're a scam, as it's all too easy to make up anything and not have the personal connection required to assess the person's authenticity. There is also the fact that being a psychic medium is usually a scam too, so it's best to avoid online classes in this pursuit.
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    How do I know if I am a medium?
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    You make a decision that this is what you want to be because you personally believe you have the sorts of powers associated with being a medium. Since it is a self-selected process, it's not hard to call oneself a medium but you need excellent people skills and the ability to read people and pick up on their cues.
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    How many people should be in a psychic circle?
    Community Answer
    Start off with two. You can always psychically call in more people to the circle.
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    Can a medium have psychic abilities? Because I dream every night and sometimes they come true.
    Community Answer
    You may have psychic abilities, then.
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    Am I listening to myself or someone else?
    Community Answer
    It could be someone inside you, trying to tell you something. Or, it could just be your own conscience working things out.
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    Usually when I say something is going to happen, it does, and things in my dreams come true. Am I a medium?
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    More likely a budding clairvoyant. Remember to cover yourself with white light, say that only positive energy may enter. You may want to consider a Tarot deck to help focus your abilities, and start doing readings for family and friends.
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    How would I come up with a psychic name for myself?
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    You don’t necessarily need a “psychic name”. Just go with the flow and express yourself.
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    What if I don't have anything that belonged to the person I want to contact? I want to tell my dog I love her, but we got rid of all her toys.
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    If you had a strong enough connection with the desired party, focusing on that connection and emotions will help. A pet's favorite spot is the perfect place to connect. Sitting or laying in a position they would usually rest upon you before opening your mind and spirit to that connection, energy and emotions is your best shot. Holding out a hand may even allow you to connect physically, and closing your eyes while relaxing will help the progress. To begin you might need to reach along your connection a little, but in time it should become natural to reestablish the connection.
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    I would like to talk to my dead great grandma, and I also don't want to get hurt or see any weird things, how could I do this?
    Registered II Smith (Stickman)
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    I suggest that you start with a few hours when you're unlikely to be disturbed by others. Perhaps the most effective time is between the hours 3-5 a.m. Set an alarm if you need to. Before the actual event, gather a few items as reminders of her life. Include something to represent the unique connection between you and her. If you've got something that she once owned, include it! At the arranged hour, sit encircled by these objects and say, "I ask You who created me to surround me with white light of love, only good comes in and I am protected from any and all who wish otherwise. I am the grandchild of ___. I'm open."
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    I hear voices in my dreams. What does this mean?
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    Dreams are not always something paranormal. But if it gives you a strong and meaningful message, you should consult with someone who can truly find the meaning of that message.
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    How do you hear things from people who are dead
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    You may or may not hear things may not hear things. Some mediums hear things like fire trucks or car horns, or see images of movie stars and singers.
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    I feel like I have a gift, how can I find out what my gift is and how to use it?
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    I recommend meditation with psychic ability stones like amethyst to help you open your third eye. You can try some other stones for protection. You can also go for a long walk and completely relax and be open to the world. Eating healthy and exercise helps. Everyone has a gift, but it takes time. Just be open to messages that comes to you and don't be afraid. If you are respectful and well prepared, no spirits should harm you. I also recommend reading more about becoming a medium, there are plenty of books out there you can check out. How you choose to use your gift is totally up to you.
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    A spirit fell in love with me. What should I do?
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    Firstly, be sure it's a spirit, and if so find out who. If you decide to use a Oujia board be sure to say goodbye at the end. Make sure that you don't invite things in, once it has permission you could be in trouble. You can get a cleansing for both your house and spirit. After that, if it's still around seek tarot and a medium who can help.
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    A monk is also a medium, correct? Meditation is a part of their life, so must their third eye be open?
    Registered II Smith (Stickman)
    Community Answer
    Not necessarily. A monk is voluntarily offering the vessel of his physical body and his soul and mind to be an instrument of connection between the world as we know it and the other world and/or the divine being(s). A monk is not a medium in the sense the word is being used in this article (i.e. in regards to psychics and tarot card readers), but a monk is an intermediary between the realms.
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    Can I become a medium if I'm a child?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you can. You can have the ability at a young age although it often strengthens as you get older.
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    How can I be a medium instantly?
    Community Answer
    It takes years of meditation to start getting conscious about your intuitions. Dedication and faith is needed, and those take time.
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    I have seen ghosts since I was little. Does it mean I could be a medium?
    Community Answer
    It could mean you have the knack for it, yes.
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    Can a medium move things with the mind?
    Community Answer
    No, a medium's purpose is talking to people who have passed, acting as the conduit (or "medium") for messages between this side and the afterlife. Try practicing telekinesis instead.
  • Question
    Why can't I get in touch with my loved ones?
    Em Wiebe
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    It can often help if you have an object that belonged to them. If that doesn't help, it may be because they do not remember the name that they had when they were alive. If nothing works, please remember that they aren't ignoring you; things just might be getting lost in translation.
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    Sometimes I hear people from my family saying my name but they're nowhere close to me. Does this mean I might be a medium?
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    This could be a lot of things. You could have a sensory integration disorder/PTSD; ask your family about a medical history of schizophrenia, which is known to skip generations; could be a side effect from medication; it is common to sometimes hear voices right before falling asleep, especially with sleep deprivation; if it isn't medical related, you may consider yourself a medium I suppose.
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    I got a dream from a loved one and it felt like a warning. How should I proceed?
    Ny
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    Interpret it, write it down and try to figure out what they were warning you about. Did it feel like a natural disaster, something else? But always keep in mind it could have been a normal dream. In case they were warning you, still try to decipher it.
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