Q&A for How to Find out More About Your Crush

Music is a great topic to chat about. Feel free to ask something like "Are you listening to any cool music right now?"

Try asking some interesting but probing questions. Queries like "What are you thinking about all day?" "What are you focusing on?" and "What are your biggest goals in life?" are some great ways to learn about what's important to them.

When you're finding out more about your crush, it's very important to respect their privacy, even if the information you've found is public. You should aim to find out what you might have in common with them so you can try to get to know them in person, but don't go overboard trying to learn every detail of their life. It's better to be direct and let them know how you feel as soon as possible. You should never physically follow someone or invade their privacy, and if your crush tells you that they're uncomfortable with your behavior, respect their wishes and leave them alone.

It's important to respect your crush's privacy, and you shouldn't try to find any information about your crush that they wouldn't feel comfortable sharing. Just remember that the point of finding out more about your crush is to decide whether you really like them and what you might have in common. Once you know that, it's time to either make a move or move on. If you can't get up the nerve to talk to them, or if they don't seem interested in you, you won't get any closer to them by checking their Instagram feed or hanging out with their friends.

It's generally best to avoid calling or texting your crush unless they have given you their number directly.

If you are actually "stalking" him, or physically following him around, you should respect his privacy and leave him alone. If you are worried about being creepy, it's always better to be direct and just strike up a conversation rather than watching him from afar. You won't run the risk of seeming creepy, and you'll find out sooner whether he likes you back.