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How can I draw the attention of a guy?

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If you want to draw the attention of a guy, you can smile at him. Make eye contact and talk to him.

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What should I wear to look more appealing to a guy?

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You can wear comfortable clothes that make you feel and look good. Wear blue, red, or green color instead of black and purple. They get a better response from guys.

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How can I make out that I am going off the track while flirting?

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You can understand that you are going off track while flirting by observing the other person. If they only nod and do not say anything to continue the conversation or step back, it shows they are not interested in the conversation.

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How do you flirt with a friend?

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If you’re interested in taking your friendship to the next level, try teasing your friend in a good-spirited way. Gentle teasing and banter can be a good way to signal that you’re interested. You can also try complimenting them or making other small gestures to show you care, like surprising them with little gifts. If you get the sense they might be interested, have an honest conversation about how you feel.

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What’s the best way to flirt without being awkward?

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It can be hard to avoid feeling a little awkward when you flirt, especially if you’re not sure how the other person feels. Do your best to act upbeat and confident, even if you’re nervous—acting confident can help you feel more confident! Be friendly and be yourself. If the other person acts uncomfortable or tells you they’re not interested, respect their wishes and dial back the flirting without acting pushy or resentful.

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I know a guy likes me but he won't ask me out! What do I do?

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Ask him out first! If you insist, you can hint for him to make a move , but if he's shy you might be waiting a long time.

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What if they ask you for your phone number?

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Only give out your phone number to someone you're actually interested in. If someone seems sleazy or won't stop asking you, we have some ideas for you .

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What should I do if he doesn't notice that I'm flirting?

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Put your hand on his arm and look into his eyes. If he still doesn't figure it out, tell him straight out that you like him. It's less fun, but it gets you where you want to be.

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