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I fell in love with this guy who has had his girlfriend for 8 years. I love him. He mentions his girlfriend, but he claims he loves me too.

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It's unfair to you and his girlfriend for him to claim that he loves you both. Your feelings are normal and understandable, but you should not interfere with the relationship. Have a conversation with him about the situation if the flirtation persists.

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I have loved this boy since first grade, and I found out that he is dating someone. I have tried all of these things and I still can't get over how amazing he is. Any tips?

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Continue to be a loyal friend to him. You shouldn't try to break up the relationship he is currently in. If the feelings are too overwhelming and are affecting your friendship, you can have a conversation with him about it.

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I have a friend who seemed to like me, and he was flirting with me a lot. I don't want to lose his friendship. What do I do? I might have feelings for him too.

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Recognize that flirtation is not okay when he has a girlfriend. Try to stay as just friends with him if possible. If he continues to flirt, you can have a conversation with him about the situation.

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What do you do if he doesn't notice you?

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Start by simply saying hi or introducing yourself. Then, try to work up to a conversation. Keep in mind that he has a girlfriend, so you should only try to be friends with him.

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What if you like a guy who is about to move away to be with his girlfriend?

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The relationship is probably quite serious if he is moving to be nearer to his girlfriend. It would be unfair to try to interfere with the relationship. Try to stay friends with him unless something happens between him and his girlfriend.

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