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What if I ask to call her and she doesn't respond? Should I call anyways?

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No. Don't call her without consent. If she doesn't respond, give it time, she might just be busy.

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How can I get a girl interested in me after she rejected me?

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You can't force it. Continue to be nice to her if and when you see her, but don't bother her too much.

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Why does she respond late to my texts?

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Often girls don't text back right away because they want to make sure that they are not coming off desperate, or they want to to talk to their friends to make sure that they are going to say the right thing. If she seems like she likes you, I wouldn't worry if it takes her a while to text back.

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What can I talk about with a girl if I don't know whether or not she is single?

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Just assume that she is single, and act accordingly. She'll tell you if she's not. Or, you can ask "what would you boyfriend think about that?" in relation to something you're talking about. She'll soon clarify her relationship status from that.

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How long should I wait before texting again if she hasn't responded?

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Wait a few hours and try again with a short message, if that doesn't work then just be patient and wait!. All you have is time, you can't force a person to respond. Also, if her phone has been misplaced, dropped or stolen, that is a valid reason for a slow response.

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I don't know how to talk with a girl, and I don't know how to flirt. What can I do?

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Just be yourself. Girls like it when a guy can be himself. To flirt, just be honest. Say things like, "I like you, and i think we should hangout sometime."

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What should I do if the girl I like doesn't like me back? Any way I can somehow make her interested?

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Don't rush her. If she has told you she doesn't like more then friends then just stay as friends. Be kind and supportive to her, and stay in touch. Maybe things will escalate later, but don't have this expectation.

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What should I do if the girl I am talking to is ignoring me because of some rumors that other people have spread about us?

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She might believe that you had something to do with those rumors. Tell her that you never said anything to contribute to those rumors. Apologize for putting her into such a situation, even if it was not your fault, and tell your understand if she doesn't want to talk to you again. Wait a few weeks before trying to talk to her again.

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When do I know to give up on getting a text back from a girl?

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Give her a few days. Depending on whether she is going to school, working, or involved in any extracurricular activities, she may be too busy to respond right away. If she doesn't respond, you can send her another message. If you have done this for several days, and have already sent her 3 to 5 messages, then it might be time to give up.

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How can I ask a girl out over text?

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Try something casual, like: "We should hang out some time. Are you free on this-and-this day and time?" Remember to give the girl enough time to respond. If a few days have passed, you can ask her again, but if she still doesn't reply, you might have to accept defeat.

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What if I try to get my ex back and she says, "Sorry, you're too late"?

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It sounds like she has already moved on from the relationship and is no longer interested. You'll have to find someone else.

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How do I get someone to like me again if they just want to be friends with me?

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Just be chill about it and don’t press the point so much. Send a few flirty texts- but don’t over do it. If he/she doesn’t answer you when you send him/her messages don’t keep sending her messages just let him/her answer you back.

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What can I do if my texts are monitored by my parents?

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Use something else like SnapChat or Instagram or TikTok, if you can. But if your parents don’t let you have socials, then you can talk and tell her that your text is monitored or you can go old fashioned and email her.

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How do I ask a girl out by text?

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As you talk to her, make sure that the conversations you have with her show her that you have intentions in being more than friends. Obviously you have to be flirting with her and then while she is in a good mood, ask her something like, ''hey, what are you up to this weekend?''. If she is free on the weekend or any other day then this might be the right time to ask her out, but make sure she is in a good mood when you ask this.

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If I text her, she won't reply. If I call her, she declines to answer. What should I do?

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It sounds like she doesn't want to talk to you. Leave her alone for now. If you see her in person, you could politely ask her if she'd be willing to talk to you.

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What if she is suicidal and keeps saying she wants to die?

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Reach out to a trusted adult. If you think she is going to try to commit suicide, call 911/999/whatever the emergency number is in your country.

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