Q&A for How to Have a Great Marriage

Remind yourself that children add another dimension of love to a marriage. While they may be stressful at times, and caring for them is time-consuming, you and your spouse are in it together! It's important to make time for yourselves so you don't get swept up in the stresses of day to day life with children.

Work on becoming independent. I know it is difficult, but a man who lies and cheats is not going to change. Build yourself a support system of family and friends so you can leave and build yourself a better life.

If your dad is unwilling to accept you and your wife, then he will never change and he will never approve of your marriage. Your dad is causing stress with your wife, and you need to put her first over him. You can compromise. You can either: cut your dad off completely, limit contact with your dad and set a boundary where he is not allowed to talk about your wife, or you can go visit him alone without your wife.

Actually, mutual masturbation could be a great way to try out new things with your partner intimately. Try to be respectful of your partner, but remember that he/she needs to be respectful of you. You shouldn't have to be ashamed of masturbating.

That's an important and often-neglected aspect of new parenthood. Hire a babysitter, ask a friend or relative, or try putting your baby to bed early so that you and you partner can have some time alone.